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Hello and thanks for stopping by. My name is James. 100% American born and raised. I have high hopes and ambitions in and with my life. I have my own business as a Photographer, www.bdphotography.net and I work as a Graphic Artist. I love what I do and do what I love. I've been in the Marines for 6 years and now I'm in the National Guard. It was a huge change but I go to school for free so F*** it. I'm defiantly a clown. I love to have fun and make those around me laugh and have a great time. Your boys a huge shopper. You gotta look good when walk thru the door. I usually rock fitted gear. It's one of the many things that sets me apart from the crowd , plus I can go to any club and get in, lol. ;-)As far as relationships and love go: I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm the type to wear my heart on my sleeve. I believe if you are honest and give 100% of yourself you can't go wrong and you will never be mad at yourself regardless of the end result. You did your part. You will never have to live with the fact that you could have done more. In the past couple of years I have realized that it is easy to waste time, energy and money. You can get back money and energy, but your time is precious. It's yours, don't waste it. If you are seeing someone, dating, f***ing and you realize you are wasting your time. Grab your shoes and leaves. Forget what people think, & say about you. You gotta be happy with yourself and your life. I don't date anyone for to long if I can't see a future with them. I bounce. Most men will hide their feelings and emotions because it's not the macho thing to do. I have never been this way for some reason but its works for me. You should never be afraid to say I love you, I'm sorry, I was wrong, and you are right. There 4 very powerful statements. 1. Never use them to your benefit, you will only make things worse. 2. Say it ONLY if you mean it, It can only make things better. I came to realize you can't wait for the truth, if things start with a lie they will end with one. Never let pride make decisions, it will never be right - and sometime stepping outside of your box isn't always bad. You can have beautiful results. People will only do what you allow them to do. If you don't want to be hurt don't allow it to happen, but on the other hand if you want to be loved let someone love you. Remember love will never hurt, love will never be mean, and or unkind. You will know if you have love or lust, IT ALWAYS shows it self.