Well where do I start. Last week I was in a happy marriage. Or so I thought. Today I am on the road to recovery. I am 49 and have a beautiful family. My soon to be ex has 6 kids and 4 almost 5 grandkids and I love them all very much. I have to wonderful boys that are my life and I love them very much. I work in the medical field and love my job. I will soon be single again and that scares the crap out of me. But I am sure I will adapt like the many other people who have gone thru this.