Someone who can listen to silence, who can move in stillness, and who can feel empty space. Someone who wants to live life and not a fantasy. Someone who can speak without defining. Someone with a personality composed not of fear. Someone who can laugh without contempt. Someone with a naked soul. Someone who's face is not a mask. Someone fluid but absolute. Someone who's wellbeing is based on being and not comparison. Someone who accomplishes without effort and has without possessing. I think that it just about it. Oh and she has to have a nice butt.