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blondie

the memories that haunt us are cherished just the same

About Me

call me a safe bet. im betting im not.im shy and maybe a little naive. when it comes to making a decision involving other people- i am hopelessly impossible. generally i like to have a good time. im pretty laid-back which sometimes just means i am lazy. im probably the worst story/joke teller you will ever meet. but i always love to hear a good one. i love flip-flops and would wear them year round if it was acceptable. i can be extremely competitive when provoked. my favorite time of year is fall- i hate holidays. i like scarves. i am absolutely in love with Australia and must go there someday with Lis & Lexis! to see Arj and hug a kangaroo. I am by no means a tree hugger but I appreciate the world around me and try to impact it in a positive way. I love natural beauty. I dont believe in putting chemicals in your body- whether they are prescription drugs, OTC medications or illegal substances.****Dont try to add me unless I actually know you!!!! ***** I do NOT have the time or energy in my life to play mind games w/ people nor the desire to do so. Im tired of behavior being dictated by social norms/social stigmas. Im tired of hearing about how i should or should not act- who i can and cannot talk to. Im tired of assholes (aka family, friends, boyfriends otherwise known as habitual liars) pitting people against people. Im tired of people playing into gender roles. Yet Im tired of girls trying TOO hard to be "one of the guys". . I cant stand unladylike behavior- esp swearing & smoking!!! Seriously if you suck- leave me alone. I hate when people are miserable & try to bring everyone around them down. I dont have time to fight with people. If I am mad at you today- chances are by tomorrow I wont care anymore. Thats not to say I have forgotten- I just dont have the energy to be petty & hold a grudge. I always like to be smiling and if Im not smiling I hope its because Im laughing : ) Ive met some amazing people in my life who brighten my days. It is a neccessity to surround yourself with people who love and support you. More importantly- with those who have a positive impact in your life- motivative you to be a better person. I strive to surround myself with people who invoke my competitive side and make me want to better myself. Im only interested in people who possess honesty, integrity, OPTIMISM, loyalty, drive, MOTIVATION, and a sense of HUMOR. We have friends not because we love who they are...but more so because they support who we are. Reading was my first love in life- I adore anyone who can suggest a good book. I love new ideas, old ideals. Its important to have the ability to adapt to new times & new surroundings- routines will make your mind stagnant & boring. *I dont ask for much- yet I want it all**** *dont live life by the norm in society- do what you have to do to keep you happy**** You can't make me see what you think I should know. you don't understand where I'm coming from. we're passing through worlds no perception in time. I'm not the same as when I began. Show me don't tell me what's going on inside your little world.****

My Interests

www.theadvocates.org/quiz.html , glassbooth.org , music, shows, anything involving water, neuroscience, psychology, gender studies, revolutionary history, comedians, ARJ BARKER, Jim Gaffigan, Mitch Hedberg, Nick Swardson, Dane Cook, Demetri Martin

I'd like to meet:

people with rad hair i love modest yet confident people. and people who are passionate about something-and anyone who tells a good joke...

Music:

anything from an INDEPENDENT label, anything that will get me in the pit, ATMOSPHERE, Ima Robot, Mars Volta, Brand New, HotRodCircuit, anything country, classical, thursday, Straylight Run, Pennywise, Social D, Authority zero, no use for a name, strung out, dropkick murphy, kill your idols, teen idols, flogging molly, lola ray, death cab for cutie, pretty girls make graves, reggie and the full effect, travoltas, DexterDanger, no motiv, Red Hot Valentines, coheed and cambria, postal service, buddy holly, hot hot heat, Ramones, The Dead Kennedys, The Clash, crass, Misfits, Sex Pistols, weezer, the distillers, bright eyes, deftones, dillinger escape plan, bad religion, off by one, one many army, pedro the lion, LAGWAGON, goldfinger, beck, Mad Caddies, Ace Troubleshooter, Anberlin, G.G. Allin, Glassjaw, a Global Threat, Jamison Parker, Lawerence Arms, Jets to Brazil, Mighty Might Bosstones, Anti-Flag, Brandston, Anti-Nowhere League, Catch 22, Avoid One Thing, Northstar, Minor Threat, Dismemberment Plan, Eyeliners, tsunami bomb, name taken, Desaparecidos, Mxpx, Dynamite Boy, APO, Finch, Unsung Zeros, suicude machines, Student Rick, Rise Against, Saosin, Plain White Ts, vadals, whippersnapper, stryder, piebald, refused, the exit...the list goes on....

Movies:

Boondock Saints, THE BELIEVER, Reservior Dogs, Suicide Kings, empire records, american history x, full metal jacket, clerks, slc punk, The Sound of Music, Emma, Office Space, Valley Girl, my six loves, mr. smith goes to washington. love AMC- classic movies <3 poolhall junkies, green street hooligans, 300, transporter,

Television:

Family Guy, stand up, HGTV <3, Entourage, Tourgasm, scrubs, how its made, Lucky Louie, those ridiculous home remodel shows ..

Books:

Out of the Furnace, Prozac Nation, Reviving Ophelia, anything written by kurt vonnegut or AYN RAND! or issac isamov! choke, invisible monster, atlas shrugged, the missing piece. chiefs, East of Eden, the fountainhead, beach music, syrup, jennifer government, windup bird chronicles, in a sunburnt country, blindness, the tender bar,

Heroes:

anyone who starts with a little and ends with a lot. ayn rand.

My Blog

letters to the editor

exciting developments.its a shame that im always shocked to discover that there are actually pittsburghers with a mind of their own.         What you voted for I wanted to comment ...
Posted by blondie on Tue, 18 Dec 2007 02:00:00 PST

east of eden

When a child first catches adults out- when it first walks into his grave little head that adults do not have divine intelligence, that their judgements are not always wise, their thinking true, their...
Posted by blondie on Sat, 29 Sep 2007 03:29:00 PST

.............

Who is rich? He that rejoices in his Portion. He that drinks fast, pays slow People who are wrapped up in themselves make small packages. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Beer is liv...
Posted by blondie on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 01:32:00 PST

Love...

Love means nothing. What you feel only matters to you...its what you do to the people you say you love. thats what matters- thats the only thing that counts....
Posted by blondie on Mon, 15 Jan 2007 01:01:00 PST