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xtina

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

NOTE: right now, i am recovering from a closed head injury and though i love you all i may not remember some of you immediately (but i eventually will *smile*)...thanks to rick and mark for helping me catch up & handle correspondance...i'd be lost without you guys...
my name is xtina, i'm 44, a musician/artist/poet & writer/author as well as an anarchist and radical parent of 2 incredibly awesome kids (my son is in high school and i homeschool him full-time)...i work for myself as a development engineer/web & graphic designer as well as i am also currently teaching web design courses part-time at a college in a state not too far from me (name withheld for i do not want my profile to be found by the administration!)...i'm working towards eventually getting my PhD before i die (care to place a wager?)...i have been known to do graffiti artwork...i put out a couple of zines and am on the staff of 'eye candy zine' where i contribute poetry and write reviews (music, zines/books, movies) among other things...i perform spoken word as well as i also occasionally book shows in the detroit, ann arbor/ypsilanti and toledo areas from time to time...
i also am part of a collective web project to help out hardcore/punk/indie bands and other artists, small scene related DIY biz/labels, zines and venues...
i give lessons in bass guitar and music theory, mainly to college students for the most part, one is in high school and is smarter than the college student and 2 are myspace friends or the "spawn" of them *laugh* [the spawn has one particular bass in his house that i covet])
in the summer i teach a world music percussion program for at-risk youth, and this year it is expanding to provide some private instruction thanks to some wonderful local musician volunteers who are into helping these kids...donations of any and all instruments (even those rhythm sticks, cowbells, maracas and old acoustic guitars you might have collecting dust) are appreciated and would be WELL used...
i have been in remission from cervical sarcoma for almost 3 years now (fighting it since 1998)...i do have DJD & arthritis, but i don't let it get to me and fighting it with brass balls (and some help from a yoga instructor whom i adore!)...i may not be able to walk as i used to, but like i let that stop me??? i have started a really cool cane collection! seriously, i have!
to put things simply, i hate all humans in general (ask gabby or ralph)...don't take that as i am a reactionary individual -- if anything, i merely no longer have time nor tolerance for those who seem to like to engage in hissy fits and popping a gasket over things that in the grand scheme of reality really bear no meaning when it comes down to what is truly important in this world...
also, i am an environmental activist -- call me a "tree hugger" and see if i even speak to you after that...

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

humans with a clue...koko taylor to sing a duet of 'i'm a woman' with her (i so love her!)...and franz kafka in the afterlife.

My Blog

hi there...

i'm alive...i am fine...so stop with all of the messages all tripping out... ...so how are you?
Posted by on Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:48:00 GMT

roof collapsing...slowly...ever so slowly...

we got hit by a storm on sunday night...only a small part of my roof over cody's bedroom was hit -- broken at a main strip in the roofing rib, so it was drooping down...i called the insurance monday.....
Posted by on Wed, 11 Jun 2008 11:21:00 GMT

and so it begins...

it began with him handing me a 4-leaf clover over my shoulder as i was sitting outside reading... ...he likes hockey, too. (more on this subject later -- and other things)
Posted by on Sat, 07 Jun 2008 15:41:00 GMT

watch out for the broken glass...

you can also read my journal at http://existentialista.livejournal.com for i have some more recent posts in there that are not in here...ashleigh's website is getting acclaimed by the school district ...
Posted by on Wed, 14 May 2008 11:37:00 GMT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, WILLIAM...

happy bday william...i'm hoping that chicago treats you right...that you one day find what you're looking for...i believe that you deserve happiness (despite everything you might think about me)....
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 11:12:00 GMT

it’s that time again, leighton...

ice cream cone sunday at my daughter's church...time to lick satan again... ...but this time around, they changed the wording on the flyer to read: "Lick" Satan and an ice cream cone at the same tim...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 09:55:00 GMT

and the beat goes on...

FIRST OFF: LET'S GO RED WINGS!!! (and to the pistons as well -- but they are second to hockey, as far as i am concerned) something i am not sure that i have mentioned...i started taking xenical last ...
Posted by on Fri, 02 May 2008 07:55:00 GMT

parental guilt, western medicine and an inappropriate student...

not going to go on forever here, more like a fly-by posting...first off, my cell was replaced so i had the "lost hold" removed...please email me your cell numbers so i can replace them in my contacts ...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 06:32:00 GMT

let’s go red wings!!!

game 5 was another evening of my returning home without my hearing... ...but i am not complaining! *heh* i have such a headache... ...time for some bedtime tea made of jasmine blossoms and rooisboi...
Posted by on Fri, 18 Apr 2008 22:30:00 GMT

FREE CD DOWNLOAD!!! GET IT NOW!!!

download the latest CD by my pal tommy here: http://www.reverbnation.com/thomaseldoradogun ...DO IT NOW!!!
Posted by on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 07:29:00 GMT