First, I am a very philisophical person, who understand that the roles of society has changed. what do I mean. Society was set that men was considered the hunter and the woman the nurturer.The hunter worked paid the bills ad discipline the household. The woman she stayed home and had taken care of the household she cooked, cleaned, washed clothes,and had taken care of the children. The roles has changed the man has left his role a nd the house, and the women has become a hunter. She not only has to hunt she still has to nurture.That"s way the children are the way that they are.If the women work And the man is not in the home who cares for they child? themselves and peers of course. Thats why I work with teens as a counselor but that"s something else. So I had to asked myself a question. How do we as men compete with modern women today.We have to learn how to nurture. For half my life I had a woman taken care of me,nurturing me. Today I am a great cook,I wash my own clothes and I take care of me.What I like to meet is some that understand that the roles has changed, and accept that I dont need a women to nurture me but someone that I Can love and they love me the same.