Sometimes we need to change not to look good for anybody else but for ourselves to feel better!!! I'm way tougher now than before. Trying to be insensitive, unaware & don't get involved with people around me. I'm tired of being nice & pleasing everybody when all I can get is unappreciation, rejection & pain. If being selfish, mean & bitchy can protect me from getting hurt again, maybe it is not bad at aLL!!!