"Find someone who can completely turn your world around, someone you can cry with, when your hurting or laugh with when you make a complete fool of yourself. Someone who calls you beautiful instead of hott, who loves you for who you are and cares more about your inner beauty than some looks, who calls you back when you hang up on them, who wakes you up in the middle of the night to kiss your ear and whisper about how crazy they are about you, and who will always share their excitements with you. Wait for the person who never wants to see you hurting or stressed, but always wants to see you happy and worry free, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep, who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world!!! Someone who holds your hand in front of their friends, who thinks you are just as pretty without makeup on. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much they care about you and how lucky they are to have you, who wants to grow old with you. Someone who wants to see you do better in life with or without them.....there's attraction, passion, respect, and complete comfort.....wait for the one who will make you realize the true meaning of LIFE & LOVE."If someone wants you, nothing can keep them away. If they do not want you, nothing can make them stay. Stop making excuses for them and their behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a person before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the person was not treating you as you deserve then, heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, then they probably are. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better!!! The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from theirs. Maintain boundaries in how they treat you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let them know everything. They will just use it against you later!!!!! You cannot change a persons behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make them feel they are more important than you are. Never let a person define who you are. Never borrow someone else's significant other. If they cheated with you, they WILL cheat on you. A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you!!!! You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if they don't turn out to be Mr. Right!!!! Make them MISS you sometimes... when they always know where you are, and you're always readily available to them- they take it for GRANTED!!! Don't fully commit to a person who doesn't give you everything that you need.Share this with other people (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her/his choices.?