Well, where on earth do I start? Let it be said I would never be the one to cast the first stone but Kittyninelives is undeniably the most unreliable individual you'd be unfortunate enough to meet. She's let me down on numerous occasions (usually at short notice) with flimsy excuses and was even stopped by the police and charged with "driving whilst under the influence" on the one time she was nominated a designated driver. I lent her ten quid a fortnight ago to buy some fags and she still hasn't paid me back. And don't get me on her drinking... Is a bottle of Jack Daniels a day really considered an acceptable drinking level? I worry what havoc its playing with her liver. Its the kids I worry about. Spending the child allowance on marijuana might be considered medicinal in certain cases but it won't put food on the table or pay the electric... If I wasn't her mother I would have reported her to Social Services years ago....