Jhery

Wutz up people....I change my page so often latly that even I'm confused who's on the top thing or who I forgot to leave a comment too....So I'm gonna try to update this shit and leave it for a while as my spare time is becoming a bit more limited now with social, family and business life..I'm an average person, I have an average job, I have a decent circle of friends some I've known for 20 plus years, some I've known for 2 or less....I pride myself on my loyalty to my friends and family no matter how good any situation sounds if it will impact someone I know in a negative way ...I steer clear of it. I'm originally from Massapequa Long Island although I've lived in NJ, FL, CT all short lived and I usually end up back on Long Island because like most people I am a creature of habit. I was emancipated when I was 16 and have worked full time since then.... by 24 I owned my first house, spent weekends on my boat, and pimped out my benz for kicks... In 2005 I sold my house, benz and boat,I pretty much just snapped and gave away or sold everything I owned and moved to Orlando Fl. Which by all means wasn't one of the smartest moves I ever made. After 8 months in Orlando I packed up what I could fit in my convertible and high tailed it outta there. Up until about 3-4 years ago everything for me was about the all mighty "Party" I was popular, spoiled (for a short period of time I was a "Go-Go" boy yupp picture that, my uniform was a thong and a pair of work boots) had everything I wanted but found myself pretty unhappy, I think about it now and think I was more then likely more plastic then anything else and maybe wasn't being myself HENCE the unhappiness.... I've taken the past year or so and really stepped back to see where I was and found that without all the expensive cars and boats and clothes and massive amounts of credit cards I am exactly what I thought I wasn't....Just your everyday average person, nothing makes me special, nothing makes me different, i'm just average...These days I'm happy with that the countless amount of time and money I dumped into clubbing goes into working and saving...I love to party still but I guess as I've aged I've learned a thing or two about life...maybe I learned too much too fast, but I have zero regrets. I'm currently living on Long Island yet AGAIN, I bought a condo in Atlanta GA which is where I intend on growing old and yucky but since the passing of my grandfather in May of 2006 I've been working and living here on the island and caring for my 85 year old grandmother and although I'm in the process of selling her home and moving her down south with the rest of the family I hold close to Long Island while I'm here because I know when I go it will hurt like it has before but, there are cleaner, safer less expensive places to live and work I LOOOOVE Long Island I can't imagine growing up anywhere else, but memories are just that....."Memories". My younger brother is in the Air force, it's his career, No I don't support the war but I do support my brother. I also believe I'm not educated enough on that situation to really make any judgment on weather we belong there or not. Today I also cleaned out my friends list, it's nothing personal to anyone but 2,556 friends is just stupid and after a quick clean up I'm down to like 100 and something not too shabby I'd say. Some stuff about me not everyone knows is umm...lemme see... I like grape juice ....and milk, I drink both like they are water I dunno why. my favorite color is Blue, but um I think that's everyone's fav color. I like vegetable's I eat them as tho I were a rabbit, no not cuz they are good for me....but because I actually like them. I'm from Long Island so Fuck, Shit, Hell, Damn...these words are normal for me, I don't find them offensive although I can understand not everyone feels that way so I try to curb that language around the minors.... I'm either hot or cold, there is no in between for me, if I don't like you, then I don't deal with you on any level, if I like you, I go out of my way to make you happy....there is no middle ground it's one or the other... I am gay, Yes I've had girlfriends, yes I've tried it out and no it's just not my thing...I'm not your normal homo I can't stand Madonna, Britty, or Cher... I like rap, pop, metal, I don't like pink tank tops and rhinestones on my sunglasses, I'm actually pretty sloppy for a gay guy, I like fixin cars and working on the house getting dirty doesn't bother me and I've been known to pee with the door open, spit, and get into bar brawls. SOO I think I highlighted some frequently asked questions, maybe not who knows. This is me, it could very well be the best of me, or maybe in reality I've yet to be my best. I am who I am. get to steppin if you can't keep it real. I'm out. 1-