I desire a man of intelligence,who is honest,full of integrity,ambitious,self sufficient,sincere/laid-back. Someone who knows what he wants,enjoys great conversation. He has to have a nice personality/not afraid to be himself around me.I have always been in long term relationships so he has to be willing to walk this walk together.I am the type of person to be down with my man, through the good / bad as long as that man does not allow himself to stay down for too long because I like progression /growing with my mate.I want a man full of compassion,who does things spontaneously,you know,like sending roses for no apparent reason, just because, he thought about how special I am,to him.I like things like that because I love to express to my man,just how special he is to me,but most of all,that man that knows how to treat me like the beautiful black queen that I am,with respect and dignity.Material things don't really matter to me as much,because I feel that as long as we have that respect for eachother, and can progress together,all that other stuff will fall in place.