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Graham

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My name is Graham Edward McLaughlin and I was born in Arnold Palmer Hospital shortly after its opening on September 8th, 1989. When I was younger I once mistakenly said I was born in 1889 and a few people laughed as I realized my mistake. But in truth I’ve always felt like I was older than the people around me, not quite that much older but more mature. My values have always been different from people my age. When I was a child I’d look at parents and judge their methods of controlling their children, as if I was better than them; I never openly showed disrespect but looking back I think it was strange for me to act as if I was above them. As a teenager I’m constantly looking for a relationship, I want more than sex and a fling; I want a boy that I can be with, someone I can connect with and share my experiences with. I’m not better than many people and I won’t pretend for a moment that I am; I’m smart but I’m lazy, I’m decent looking but I don’t take care of myself. Most guys you see will tell you that their ultimate ambition is to have a high paying job, run a business, be a star; mine is different, mine is to find someone I can love, someone who makes going home from after the job that others strive for worthwhile.
This isn’t to say I don’t have ambitions for myself; I want to be a psychologist. Since I was a kid I’ve loved to listen to people; if I could make someone special to me smile it was the best feeling in the world. If I got to work in a job where I knew I was helping people through their problems, trying to come to better terms with their lives and themselves then I think I could really be happy in life.
My friends are the core of my existence. I wouldn’t be where I am today without some of my friends. I’ve had some that have pulled me out of my shell that I use to be so tightly wound in, while other have helped heal the various wounds everyone is bound to receive through their years as a teenager. Though many of them seem to be drifting from me, I have a few close friends that I am more than willing to fight to hold on to. People like Robert, Bobby, Matt and James don’t come along very often. These people make me comfortable in different ways that is unique to each person, but when I talk to these people it’s hard to stay upset or annoyed at anything. I don’t know if they feel the same about me but I hope they know how much I love all of them; and that I’d do anything I could to make them happy. I try to be there for my friends, I try to be understanding and kind; I’m always willing to listen to someone’s problems and give my advice when it’s asked of me. Right now I'm really getting closer to James and Orion and for that I'm glad; they couldn't be more different but I'm glad I'm friends with them. I can be honest with them and they can respect that. Orion has always been fairly realistic and provides a fresh view of things for me. And James is a great friend who I hope to never loose.
I’m currently single and it’s not so horrible, I think that before you can be happy in a relationship you have to be able to find happiness without one. No one who isn’t happy with themselves can be happy with someone else; I honestly believe that. But none the less I’m still searching for someone who really makes me happy, who can be a best friend, a lover, a confidant and a support; each in turn when I need them and I will happily try and fulfill all those roles for him.

My Interests

Hanging with friends; my friends are my world, if you get between me and them you will loose a limb. Im a pretty shy guy but id like to think im nice once I begin to open up. I can be your best friend or your worst enemy; its a good thing that so far not many people have chosen the second. Movies are great, a decent way to pass the time. I love to just go to parks too, and sit around and just talk and goof around. Im not into drugs and I am not too wild about people who do a lot of them. I can deal with pot cause I use to smoke and quite frankly pot is healthier. Anyways though if you wanna know more about me than is listed in this profile send me a message or IM me at Faust0vers0ul

I'd like to meet:

God and Satan, both sound like interesting beings. But people here on Earth, I suppose I'd really like to meet Conor and Jake in person. Zacky and Ry as well. ^^

As far as a guy to be with I think I'm going to take the advice of a good friend and just stay away from that for a while. My last few relationships have been... disappointing to say the least and I've beaten myself up about it. I need some time outside of a relationship to get some perspective I think. But I'm looking for some interesting friends so if you're interested message me sometime.

Music:

3 Doors Down, AFI, Akira, The Alkaline Trio, The All-American Rejects, American Hi-Fi, Anna Nalick, Aqua, Arctic Monkeys, Avril Lavigne, Bjork, Black Eyed Peas, Blink 192, Breaking Benjamin, Brand New, The Brilliant Green, Burning Airlines, Ciara, The Clash, Coheed and Cambria, Cranberries, Crossfade, Daft Punk, Damien Rice, Dashboard Confessional, The Decemberists, Dir en Grey, Faithless, Fall Out Boy, Fan_3, FeFe Dobson, Flogging Molly, Fly Leaf, Foo Fighters, Fort Minor, Franz Ferdinand, The Fray, Frou Frou, Gackt, Gavin DeGraw, Goo Goo Dolls, Green Day, Gregory and the Hawk, Gustav Mahler, Gwen Stefani, Hawethorne Heights, hellogoodbye, Hoobastank, Ian Van Dahl, Iceman, Imogen Heap, Incubus, Jason Mraz, Jem, Jet, Jewel, Jimmy Eat World, Joan Osborne, Judy and Mary, Kelly Clarkson, The Killers, Killradio, Lillix, Maria Mena, Marylin Manson, Maroon 5, Mindless Self Indulgence, Motion City Soundtrack, Muse, My Chemical Romance, Natalie Imburglia, Nellie McKay, Nickel Creek, Offspring, Panic Channel, Phantom Planet, Pierrot, Pink, Pink Floyd, Placebo, Plain White T’s, The Postal Service, Queen, Regina Spektor, Relient K, Ronnie Day, Ryan Cabrera, Senses Fail, Sheryl Crow, Silverstein, Sixpence None The Richer, Skipknot, Something Corperate, Staind, Static-X, Story of the Year, Sublime, Sugarcult, Sum41, Switchfoot, System of a Down, Taking Back Sunday, Tatu, Tchaikovsky, Three Days Grace, Tsunami Bomb, Unwritten Law, The Used, Utada Hikaru, Yasunori Mitsuda, Yellowcard, Yoko Kanno... and more...

Movies:

Shortened Version:

Running With Scissors, Nightmare Before Christmas, Star Wars, Hackers, Kill Bill 1 and 2, Pulp Fiction, Fern Gully, The Never Ending Story, Anything Ghibli studios, Diary of a Mad Black Woman, Series of Unfortunate Events, Pink Panter(older), Marx Brothers anything, Rockie Horror Picture Show, Young Frankenstein, Dune, Peter Pan, Kung Fu Hustle, House of Flying Daggers, Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Facotry, Bladerunner

Books:

Current Read:
There Will Be Dragons by John Ringo

Past Favorites:
Twilight Series, 1984, Dune, Running With Scissors, Owen Meany, Anansi Boys and Neverwhere, Harry Potter, Animal Farm, New Moon, Enders Game, Ringworld.

Heroes:

It's said a lot but my Mum is my hero... she's never forced me to do anything I didn't want while encouraging me and pushing me to do my best at what i did try. She's been such a huge support and I dont know if I'll ever full be able to understand how lucky I am to have her.

Bobby, an old friend is an inspiration to me. He says that he thanks people like me for opening him up but he doesn't give himself enough credit. he gives me hope that people can survive hard times and come out of it strong, loving people.

Robert Dees, he is my best friend and someone I intend to spend the rest of my life with in a sense. He is my crutch, my buddy, my confidant and my comfort when I need them. And above all that with Tyler he gives me hope that I can find a good relationship; that the people who really want something and deserve it get it in the end.

My Blog

Boyfriend Application?

(Stolen from Jonny but changed a few things to suit my personality a little better.)Boyfriend Application 1. Your Name: 2...
Posted by Graham on Sat, 28 Jul 2007 09:33:00 PST