Music, computers, visual art.
Your Dad.
Indigo Girls, Sarah Mclachlan, all that lesbo-chic stuff. Baroque period, Romantic period, 80's, some 90's. Going through a big Jazz phase right now. Especially songs from the American Song Book i.e. Gershwin, Berlin, Mercer, and Porter.
Pretty much anything that isn't crap.
Left Hand of Darkness, Wizard of Earthsea Trilogy, lots of science fiction and fantasy. Really into Ursula K. Le Guin.
Parents and friends.