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About Me

Alright people! I like to think of myself as a sexy, beautiful, intelligent, strong Jamaican-American woman with soft light skin, long brown hair, and chinky light brown eyes. So yes, the hair and eyes are REAL gosh darnit! Born in Jamaica, Queens... but the FAM is from Jamaica, West Indies & there is some Scottish roots in there somewhere. Yea, yea... I'm a yankee gyal.. but I represent for meh country people dem!
I am a down-to-earth, tomboyish, stand by your side, will get ruff only if I have to kind of lady! I am very creative and have a healthy sense of humor. I say "healthy" cause some of you all are crazy! LOL... Now, I have been called many things... so if Lady Lightning is one you are not familiar with... either way, I'm still The Nikster... and MULTI-TALENTED baby!I am a mother of an extremely bright 10 year old, who is the light of my life, and whose in the top 5th grade class. That's my baby girl!!
When I am not on Wall Street, busting my tail analyzing data on top of data, I am planning an event hosted by my very own start-up, "CatEyez Creationz". I design personalized cards, favors for all occasions, handle cake orders depending on the theme... etc, etc. I'll hook you up!!(Check out my work @ either CatEyez Creationz Photo Album or check out these samples below. Website coming soon...
Insightful Personalized Gifts for All Occasions!!"
**Featured Albums**
~Most Viewed This Month~
CatEyez Creationz - Diaper Cakes ..
~My diaper cakes are filled with at least 100 diapers (size newborn or size 1 depending on baby), 1-2 sleepers, at least 1 towel, 5 washcloths, 5-10 onesies, booties/socks, caps, mittens, 5-7 fleece or receiving blankets, rattles, teething rings & 2-3 bibs. Additional items can be added, depending on how many tiers you want baked. Cupcakes are also made upon request (1 tier).
**Other CatEyez Creationz Projects**
~Mini Chocolate Bar Wrappers
~Regular-Sized Chocolate Bar Wrappers
~Corsages
~Votives
~LoveSavers
~Candy Sacks
~Favor Boxes
~Themed Cakes
~Invitations, Greetings & Note Cards
~Game Pamphlets & Other Creative Party Ideas
I am also on the Board of Trustees for Infinite Possibilities of New York, a College Preparatory/Mentoring Program for urban youth. We currently run an Arts Program that my daughter is a part of called "CREATE" for ages 6 to 13 (Creative Religious Education for Artistic Teen Expression). We also have a college prep program called Leaders of Tomorrow Outreach for ages 14 to 21 (Dare To Be...). Check out our progress at http://ipny.shutterfly.com or our website IPNY .
In the near future, I plan on opening up a daycare. You gotta love the kids!! Just trying to do my thing!Wat da gwan pickney dem! News for the Interested
(Last Updated - September 6, 2008)
Hmmm... plenty to say these days. One, thankful that things in my life are starting to change. I finally got BK out of my system, got rid of those crasy ROSEDALE landlords, and just trying to survive on my own and deal with this separation my way. I finally have been able to stop looking over my shoulder, but still am not comfortable dealing with a loss, so removing myself from all that's familiar may be the best for me. Tee & I are enjoying Jersey & loving being near my FAM, especially my nephews Jus' & Eddie (shoutouts to my bwoys!) Pool & jacuzzi in the back, so you know where the next BBQ will be... and don't forget your suits! Yea kidz!! And... I'm starting to hang out a little more, and open to the dating scene. WOW! I'm taking my life back people, and accepting my past! Ya DAMN right! The force is strong with this one... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Lost Generation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42E2fAWM6rA

Watch closely... and listen!

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

... Wentworth Miller, Bill Maher, Eminem, Michael Jordan, Joel Mchale, John Legend, Charlie Murphy, Alicia Keys, New Edition (ok... including Bobby! LOL), Dave Chappelle, Bruce Willis, my younger sister Max (haven't seen her since I was 13) and if he was still alive..~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Latest Events

**Tee's 10th Birthday Karaoke Concert**
(SEPT 2008)

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First, to my daughter Tianna ... I am so proud of you, and blessed to have been chosen to be your mother. No matter what we face in the future, we will always face it together! To my nephew Lil' Jus ... the mini-GENIOUS... my baaaabes... I love you buggabutt! To my other nephew Lil' Eddie ... don't break too many hearts now! To my nieces, my home will always be opened to you. Know that I am always here for you when you think no one else is.

I just want to give so much love to my inseparable friend who have made me realize that there is better for me out there. I just have to keep believing in myself. I am beautiful, I am intelligent, I am strong, I am altruistic, I DO know what it takes, I am... that Exotic Being! Like I said, I owe you my life M&M ! You've taught me to smile again...

Same goes for you Sugar! You have always been giving me God's words, true words... especially at the times when most needed! I know HE is there with me, along with you... walking, running, tripping, striving, screaming, pushing... helping me to get where I need to go. Yes, there is a plan for me because He has that plan for me! I love you! 25+ years since the 1st grade to now and still blessed...

To all of my Family & TRUE Friends on my friends' list and in my life period, I am where I am because of you. Whether we are still cool or not, my past is based on you, as well as my present and for most of you... my future... because you have made and currently make me the person I am. Thank you for always supporting me, and for keeping me on top of my game. What angels you have been... even if it was a simple hello. You may think its nothing, but its everything! Remember that!)

Through all of the madness I call my life, I am continuing to do business as usual. I got a NEW CAR, moved into a NEW HOUSE, and starting a NEW LIFE! Pray for me and wish me luck! And yes, I STILL need a drink! LOL

Until lay-tah...
~Became LadyLightning, but remains SexxieNikk~

My Blog

...dark angel...

...dark angel...   Sometimes I just want to fade away... become invisible... where what I was... what I've done... is forgotten... alls forgiven... where all the hurt done onto me is not even... ...
Posted by on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 21:07:00 GMT

~Team Player~

Who wouldn't want me?  To be on their team? A woman with stability & independence at the seams A woman of color with the power of ten men A woman with goals who aims for unreachable strengths...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:58:00 GMT

Real Talk...

You ever had someone make love to you and call out another's name? Have you ever tried your best while your lover's head's down in shame? You ever walk down the aisle & wonder if his eyes are sinc...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:45:00 GMT

Against the Law (Never Again)

Against the Law So, I'm no longer your daughter, huh?  Oh, how loose you use the term.  Seems like your ungrateful ass was not the only one who got burned. Clean up my "dirty" house?...
Posted by on Sun, 17 Feb 2008 20:51:00 GMT

~delightfulcravings~

~delightfulcravings~  I miss your touch, the warmth of the palm of your hands on the lower part of my back, its the waiting I can't stand I miss your soft lips on my forehead, a gentle kiss as I ...
Posted by on Sun, 17 Feb 2008 20:41:00 GMT

A Glimpse of Heaven (Take me away...)

A Glimpse of Heaven Snow falls, so quietly, your face staring back I smile, I'm alive, feel like my life's back on track Peaceful energy fulfills me, all the things I could be Clouds take on shapes, I...
Posted by on Thu, 04 Oct 2007 09:42:00 GMT

Calendars Unforgiven (My View...)

Calendars Unforgiven   Holidays are not the same, oh how it used to be for me Light the sight of fallen snow upon the branches of a tree It was once full of beauty, happiness infinity Until yo...
Posted by on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 18:54:00 GMT

Happily Ever After (My Words, My Thoughts...)

~Happily Ever After~ Every little girl's dream... to be a bride To walk down that aisle... her friends behind Family too... all around... smiling hearts To stand next to the one you hate to part Bea...
Posted by on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 11:10:00 GMT