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Autumn

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I am a follower of Jesus Christ and the most important thing to me is teaching my boys the love of God.
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I have been married for nine years. Two weeks before we were married Jacob was in a head on collision where his car started on fire. Three citizens worked to get him out of his burning car. Jacob suffered from broken bones and some head injuries. He was out of work the first year and half we were married. He suffered from depression while out of work, but because of our faith and my stubbornness we were able to make it through.
It is hard to feed a marriage when you have small children. It becomes impossible to feed that same relationship when you can’t leave your child with a babysitter. We try to keep lines of communication open at least. Sadly enough it is through Instant Messenger so we can talk to one another and take care of kids too. Heck, and we love to send fun little comments each other on myspace. It keeps the marriage alive! Computers…have helped our relationship a lot!
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Our seven year old son is amazingly smart. He does struggle with focus problems and several teachers are concerned about ADD. I have talked to the doctors and they feel that yes he is another child that would follow under the category of ADD/ADHD. I have refused to put him on meds and we are working with diet and supplements trying to help him out. The little man loves science and is talented in music, art, and sports.
The 6 year old son who has been ill since 9 months old with one thing or another. He was diagnosed with Pediatric Bipolar in December 2006. He was also diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder this summer 2007. As of October 2007 our son’s diagnosis list just got longer. He was also diagnosed with Asperger's Disorder. Yet in April 2008 a new doctor says that he isn't Bipolar and has ADD, but has kept the diagnosis of Asperger's.
Bipolar disorder (also known as manic-depression) is a serious but treatable medical illness. It is a disorder of the brain marked by extreme changes in mood, energy, thinking and behavior. Symptoms may be present since infancy or early childhood, or may suddenly emerge in adolescence or adulthood. Until recently, a diagnosis of the disorder was rarely made in childhood. Doctors can now recognize and treat bipolar disorder in young children. Taken from bpkids.org
Sensory Integration Dysfunction (SID, also called sensory processing disorder) is a neurological disorder causing difficulties with processing information from the five classic senses (vision, auditory, touch, olfaction, and taste), the sense of movement (vestibular system), and/or the positional sense (proprioception). For those with SID, sensory information is sensed normally, but perceived abnormally. This is not the same as blindness or deafness, because, unlike those disorders, sensory information is sensed by people with SID, but the information tends to be analyzed by the brain in an unusual way that may cause pain or confusion.
SID can be a disorder on its own, but it can also be a comorbid characteristic of other neurological conditions, including autism spectrum disorders, dyslexia, Developmental Dyspraxia, Tourette's Syndrome, multiple sclerosis, and speech delays, among many others. Unlike many other neurological problems that require validation by a licensed psychiatrist or physician, this condition can only be properly diagnosed by an occupational therapist. There is no known cure; however, there are many treatments available. From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
The hardest thing about this diagnosis is that we knew Yaakov was a “picky” child. No seams on his socks, no tags, he would cry in large crowds, and little things that kept going to make him into such a “picky” child. It wasn’t like I was going to run to the pediatrician and say my son doesn’t like seam on his socks. I was reading a book on Childhood Bipolar and there was a section on Sensory Processing Disorder. I couldn’t believe what I was reading. My son wasn’t really “picky,” but he had something wrong with him. I finally went to the pediatrician and told him the things he does. That is when we finally took him to an Occupational Therapist (OT) where he has now started therapy. Life is changed so much with this diagnosis not for the bad, but for the better. I now better understand my son. I now understand that I may have to ask if it is too loud, or the smell is to strong, if the touch bugs him, or if he needs to be squeezed harder. I am so grateful for this diagnosis and am grateful for the OT that is working with us. With the SPD he has low muscle tone, which is why we have had to carry him so often. He also works with a physical therapist and he has improved so much.
Individuals with Asperger Syndrome or Asperger's Disorder (AS) can exhibit a variety of characteristics and the disorder can range from mild to severe. Persons with AS show marked deficiencies in social skills, have difficulties with transitions or changes and prefer sameness. They often have obsessive routines and may be preoccupied with a particular subject of interest. They have a great deal of difficulty reading nonverbal cues (body language) and very often the individual with AS has difficulty determining proper body space. Often overly sensitive to sounds, tastes, smells, and sights, the person with AS may prefer soft clothing, certain foods, and be bothered by sounds or lights no one else seems to hear or see. It's important to remember that the person with AS perceives the world very differently. Therefore, many behaviors that seem odd or unusual are due to those neurological differences and not the result of intentional rudeness or bad behavior, and most certainly not the result of "improper parenting".
By definition, those with AS have a normal IQ and many individuals (although not all), exhibit exceptional skill or talent in a specific area. Because of their high degree of functionality and their naiveté, those with AS are often viewed as eccentric or odd and can easily become victims of teasing and bullying. While language development seems, on the surface, normal, individuals with AS often have deficits in pragmatics and prosody. Vocabularies may be extraordinarily rich and some children sound like "little professors." However, persons with AS can be extremely literal and have difficulty using language in a social context. Taken from www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/aswhatisit.html Let us not forget that I am a mother and life as a mother is pretty much summed up in this video.
I have been lucky enough to travel. I visited Europe for five months, Brazil for three months, and have been to Mexico and Canada too. I love to travel and be reminded how lucky we are to live in the U.S.

My Interests



I'd like to meet:

I am hoping to meet with other mothers that are dealing with Children Bipolar, Sensory Processing Disorder, and Asbergers.I sure would like to find some of my old friends and would love to meet some new friends too.

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Music:

Christian Music
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Movies:

I love to cuddle up with Horney and watch a movie. However, we never watch an classic movies when he is around. With the boys I love watching old Disney movies and Veggie Tales!

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Television:

NCIS, LOST, and Grays Anatomy

Books:

The bad thing about a book, is once I start reading one I can't put it down. That is right my husband biggest complaint in our marriage is that I am reading again. I love Christian novels, okay I love mystery novels, but recently I have been reading books on different dx's of my son.

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Heroes:

I can do all things through Christ who strenghens me. Philippians 4:13

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope for the future." Jeremiah 29:11

My Blog

Saturday

Austin went to Chinatown today with two of his friends.  He was to stay the night at his friend's house, but we got a call 10 pm saying he wanted to come home.   Yakki, daddy, and mommy went...
Posted by Autumn on Sun, 11 May 2008 10:48:00 PST

Update for May

It has been awhile since my last update.  Life is going and it has been an interesting ride.   As I mentioned before, Jacob and I are on a leadership team for Young Adults Ministry.  T...
Posted by Autumn on Fri, 09 May 2008 09:38:00 PST

I am partying

 I am partying I actually got work out in with Yakki's crazy schedule!!!...
Posted by Autumn on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:37:00 PST

IEP and pdoc

Today we had meetings!  Jacob took the day off at work to go to the psychiatrist appointment and to the Individual Education Plan (IEP) meeting with meet today.  Yaakov stayed with Melissa f...
Posted by Autumn on Thu, 03 Apr 2008 08:29:00 PST

Report cards/ trip to Oregon

Hi Everyone!   I just got the boys report cards.  I thought I would share the boys progress okay Austin’s progress with everyone.   Austin’s report card:   Life Lo...
Posted by Autumn on Mon, 31 Mar 2008 08:12:00 PST

Advocate Does Great Work

As I told you last week we met with the school today for an IEP meeting to allow Yaakov back to school starting Monday, March 17th.   We had hired an advocate.  Linda, the advocate, cal...
Posted by Autumn on Tue, 18 Mar 2008 06:05:00 PST

Advocate may have done some good

Wow the advocate did some good!!! SPEECH THERAPIST/CASE MANGER CONVERSATION This morning I took Yaakov to speech and spoke to his case manger, which happens to be also his speech therapist.  I ...
Posted by Autumn on Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:30:00 PST

IEP Nightmare

We met with the school today for an IEP meeting to allow Yaakov back to school starting Monday, March 17th.  What a nightmare!  We had hired an advocate and let me say&I was embarrassed on h...
Posted by Autumn on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 09:39:00 PST

Questioned about a bipolar article

http://www.healthcentral.com/bipolar/c/15/14388/comments/   When I read this I thought of Yaakov and what you guys are dealing with have him detox.   I'd be interested to know what you thi...
Posted by Autumn on Sat, 01 Mar 2008 11:23:00 PST

Yaakov at the hospital

I just thought I would let you all know how it is going here in CALI Friday, Yaakov's home and hospital teacher came over for an hour.  I really liked her and Yaakov warmed up to her fairly qui...
Posted by Autumn on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:16:00 PST