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" HEY MY NAME IS "MS.RUSSAW FAMILY AND FRIEND CALL ME BIG RED..HMMMM..FIRST OF ALL I'M A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN,IM AS REAL AS IT GET,I DON'T DEAL WITH DRAMA OR FAKE ASS PEOPLE,IF YOU HAVE DRAMA OR STILL PLAY THOSE CHILDHOOD GAMES THIS PAGE ISN'T FOR YOU IF YOU FIT THIS CATEGORY GET THE FUCK OFF MY PAGE,WELCOME TO MY PAGE AND THANKS FOR ADDING ME FIRST THING FIRST,I TALK MO SHIT THEN A LiL BIT.I THINK IF I I'M GOOD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR FRIEND ,I SHOULD BE GOOD ENOUGH TO BE ON YOUR TOP FRIEND LOL SO SHOW S0ME LOVE YOU DOING JUST THAT FOR ME LOL. I HAVE A FEW FRIENDS I REALLY CARE ABOUT THESE GIRLS, BRANDY,MARY JABRIEA AND TASHA ME AND THESE GIRL HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT ALL AND NOT ONCE HAS THEY LET ME DOWN.I REALLY CAN DEPEND ON THEM.WHEN I NEED SOMETHING NO MATTER THE SITUATION,I KNOW THEY WILL BE THERE ,THAT WHAT MAKE OUR FRIENDSHIP IS SO GREAT.WHICH YOU PROBALLY ALREADY KNOE.THIS IS HOW I LIVE MY LIFE IS RIGHT HERE.I DON'T MESS WITH FAKES;I HAVE MY GIRLS,THEY ALL KNOW WHO THEY ARE NO NEED TO MENTION NAMES.I'M A PRETTY LAID BACK PERSON AIN'T BOUT THAT DRAMA SHIT I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR IT NO MORE,PEOPLE SAY THAT I'VE CHANGED LATELY BUT REALLY IT'S JUST'CALLED GROWIN UP'I'VE REALIZED WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO ME;AND PLEASIN EVERYONE ELES ISN'T IT. "IM A YOUNG LADY WITH A MIX BACKGROUND ,I LOVE MEETING NEW PEOPLE WELL LET ME GIVE YALL SOME MORE IN SIGHT ON MYSELF....I ALSO LOVE TO COOK ALL TYPES OF FOOD!I ALSO ENJOY HANGING OUT WITH DA HOMIES,GOING OUT TO DANCE AND MAKING THE MOST OF ANYTHING I'M AT,I LOVE TO LAUGH.IT'S GOOD FOR THE SOUL,WHY CRY WHEN YOU CAN LAUGH RIGHT?THERE ARE THREE THINGS I THINK THAT GO A LONG WAY HONESTY,KINDNESS AND LAUGHTR.HONESTY IS THE BEST POICY IN THE BOOK(BIG RED BOOK) LOL. WHY COMPLICATED LIFE ANY MORE THEN IT ALREADY IS.KINDNESS AND .KINDNESS IS SOMETHING EVERYONE HAS THE POWER TO CONTROL.A RANDOM ACT OF IT CAN HAVE A POSITIVE IMPACT,AND AS LAUGHTER WELL.I DONT KNOW HOW I WOULD GET THROUGH THE DAY WTHOUT IT.I THINK IT'S THE BEST MEDICINE AND IT'S ALWAYS HELP ME COPE AND LOOK FOR THE SILVER LINING,WE ALL HAVE CHOICES TO MAKE.THEY DEFINE WHO WE ARE,I CHOOSE TO CONDUCT MYSELF WITH THESE THREE CONCEPTSIN MIND,AND AS OF RIGHT NOW I THINK THEY ARE SERVING ME WELL!EVERYONE NEED TO HAVE SOME TYPE OF ASPIRATION,IT ONLY CHALLENGES US TO MAKE US STRONGER YET,ANYONE CAN LIVE DAY TO DAY,BUT WHY ARE YOU LIVING DAY BYE DAY SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.... I'M ALWAYS DOWN FOR A GOOD LAUGH AND MEETING NEW INTERESTING PEOPLE.I FEEL WE ALL SHOULD EMBRACE EVERYONE INCLUDING THEIR CULTURES AND HERITAGE I STAY ON MY GRIND AND ON TOP OF MY BUSINESS.I DONT HAVE TIME FOR GAMES.I'M GETTING WAY TO OLD FOR THIS SHIT.SHIT I'M 34 AND IF YOU KNOW ME FROM BACK IN THE DAY LIKE ELEMENTARY, LET ME KNOW YOU FOUND ME ON HERE.IT'S CRAZY AS HELL SEEING PEOPLE FROM THAT LONG AGO.YA KNOW!LOL I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE TO DATE OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE THE PERSON GOD INTENDED ME TO BE WITH.SO SORRY, BUT I AM SOOOOOO TAKEN. "IN THE END WE WILL REMEMBER NOT THE WORDS OF OUR ENEMIES,BUT THE SILENCE OF OUR FRIENDS"WHAT IS BBW QUEENZ YOU ASK? BBW QUEENZ IS A SAFE HAVEN FOR ALL PEOPLE,BUT PARTICULARLY MY PLUS-SIZED SISTERS IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT COLOR RELIGION NATIONALITY OR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE ACCEPTED HERE HOWEVER I WILL NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT IN THE SLIGHTEST.I AM A PLUS SIZED WOMAN,I LOVE BEING A PLUS SIZED WOMAN I SUPPORT POSITIVE PLUS SIZED ORGANIZATIONS ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP YOU I DONT WANT ANYTHING IN RETURN FINALLY BEING A BBW IS DIFFICULT IN ITSELF FOR SOME MORE THAN OTHERS.AND IT IS VERY DISTURBING TO ME TO SEE SOME OF THE DRAMA,THAT GOES ON IN THE BBW COMMUNITY COME ON PEOPLE ACCEPT THE BEAUTY THAT YOU HAVE THE GIFTS THE SKILLS AND THE KNOWLEDGE OR WHATEVER YOU BRING TO THE TABLE.YOU DONT HAVE TO "HATE" ON ANYONE THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONE PRETTIER.MORE CREATIVE CURVIER WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE.DISCOVER YOUR INNER SPIRIT TAKE THE TIME TO FIND OUT WHO YOU REALLY ARE.AND STOP SPENDING SO MUCH TIME POINTING OUT THE FAULTS AND FLAWS OF OTHERS LOOK LONG AND HARD IN YOUR MIRROR,DO YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE? IF NOT WORK ON IT YOUR FLAWS,ARE WHAT MAKE YOU UNIQUE AND STAND APART FROM EVERYONE ELSE EMBRACE THEM,LOVE YOU,EMBRACE YOU,AND TAKE TIME TO PRAY~IT WORKS. "IM UP FOR ANYTHING THAT MAKE MY DAILY LIFE RUN A LITTLE SMOOTHER LOL.I GO A MILE A MINUTE AND ANY THING OR ANY ONE THAT HELPS ME THROUGH THE DAY WITH A SMILE IS GREATILY APPREDICATED. IM CURRENTlY IN A RElATiONSHIP,I DON'T PlAN ON BOUNCIN ANYTIME SOON,I lOVE COOkIN,I lOVE TO READ, I lOVE TO SING AND DANCE lOl AND ACT FOOlISH,I lOVE TO BE MYSElF *|SO REAl|*,I DISlIkE BEIN FAkE, BUT SOMETIMES IF ITS GONNA TAkE FOR YOU TO BE FAkE TO GO SOMEWHERE IN LIFE THEN IM DOWN, IM jUST A DOWN ASS FEMAlE TO EVERYBODY WHO I FUX WITH, CANT GET NO BETTER DEN DAT. NAMEEN! UMMMMM I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR A NIGGA GAMES I'M BOUT MY OWN GAMES LET'S SEE WHO WIN FIRST NOW FUCK WITH YAH GIRL"BABY WHEN I TELL YOU,I LOVE YOU I DON'T SAY IT OUT OF HABIT OR TO MAKE A CONVERSATION.I SAY IT TO REMIND YOU THAT EVER HAPPEN TO REMIND YOU THAT YOUR THE BEST THING THATS EVER HAPPEN TO ME."I LOVE YOU"I'M WIFTY"N"LOVE IT.

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"YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT FRIENDS YOU'LL MEET OVER THE YEARS. I'VE MET A LOT OF GREAT PERSONAL FRENDS AND ALSO FAMILY ON MYSPACE BELIEVE IT OR NOT,I NEED FRIEND THAT UMDERSTAND THAT I HAVE A REALLY BUSY LIFESTYLE AND I CAN'T ALWAYS BE ON MYSPACE,EVENTHOUGH I'D LIKE TO YOU WILL HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE'NT HEARD FROM ME IN A WHILE OR CAN'T RESPOND TO YOUR MESSAGE RIGHT A WAY. YOU WILL STILL HAVE MY LOVE AND SUPPORT.DON'T FLIP OUT AND ASSUME THAT I DON'T LIKE YOU ANY MORE.MY TRUE FRIEND UNDERSTAND WHAT'S GOING ON. I AM HERE MAINLY TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS,KEEP UP WITH CURRENT FRIENDS,RECONNECT WITH OLD FRIENDS."THE LESBIAN RULES OF ENGAGEMENT IF A WOMAN WANTS YOU,NOTHING CAN KEEP HER AWAY.STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR A WOMAN AND HER BEHAVIOR.ALLOW YOUR INTUITION TO SAVE YOU FROM HEARTACHE. STOP TRYING TO CHANGE YOURSELVES FOR A RELATIONSHIP THAT'S NOT MEANT TO BE.SLOWER IS BETTER,NEVER LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR A WOMAN BEFORE YOU FIND WHAT MAKES YOU TRULY HAPPY. IF A RELATIONSHIP ENDS BECAUSE THE WOMAN WAS NOT TREATING YOU AS YOU DESERVE THEN HECK NO,YOU CAN'T "BE FRIEND". A FRIEND WOULD'NT MISTREAT A FRIEND,"DON'T SETTLE".IF YOU FEEL LIKE SHE IS STRINGING YOU ALONG,THEN SHE PROBABLY IS. DON'T STAY BECAUSE YOU THINK"IT'S WILL GET BETTER". YOU'LL BE MAD AT YOURSELF A YEAR LATER FOR STAYING WHEN THINGS ARE NOT BETTER. THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN CONTROL IN A RELATIONSHIP IS YOU,ALWAYS HAVE YOUR OWN SET OF FRIENDS SEPARATE FROM HERS. MAINTAIN BOUNDARIES IN HOW A FEMALE TREAT YOU"IF SOMETHING BOTHERS YOU SPEAK UP".NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW EVERYTHING,SHE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU LATER YOU CANNOT CHANGE A WOMAN'S BEHAVIOR. CHANGE COME FOM WITHIN"DON'T EVER MAKE HER FEEL SHE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU ARE EVEN IF SHE HAS MORE EDUCATION OR A BETTER JOB."DON'T MAKE HER INTO A QUASI-GOD". SHE IS A WOMAN NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,NEVER LET A WOMAN DEFINE WHO YOU ARE"NEVER BORROW SOMEONE ELSE'S WOMAN".IF SHE CHEATED WITH YOU"SHE'LL CHEAT ON YOU". A WOMAN WILL ONLY TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW HER TO TREAT YOU"ALL WOMEN ARE NOT FLEAS"YOU SHOULDN'T BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE BENDING"COMPROMISE IS TWO WAY STREET". YOU NEED TIME TO HEAL BETWEEN RELATIONSHIPS THERE IS NOTHING CUTE ABOUT BAGGAGE"DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES BEFORE PURSUING A NEW RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD NEVER LOOK FOR SOMEONE TO COMPLETE YOU"LOOK FOR SOMEONE COMPLIMENTARY"NOT SUPPLEMENTARY DATING"."IF A WOMAN WANTS YOU,NOTHING CAN KEEP HER AWAY. IF SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU,NOTHING CAN MAKE HER STAY. STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR A WOMAN AND HER BEHAVIOR. ALLOW YOUR INTUITION OR SPIRIT TO SAVE YOU FROM HEARTACHE. STOP TRYING TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A RELATIONSHIP THAT'S NOT MEANT TO BE. SLOWER IS BETTER NEVER LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR A WOMAN BEFORE YOU FIND WHAT MAKES YOU TRULY HAPPY. IF A RELATIONSHIP ENDS BECAUSE THE WOMAN WAS NOT TREATING YOU AS YOU DESERVE,THEN HECK NO"YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS"A FRIEND WOULD'NT MISTREAT A FRIEND DON'T SETTLE,IF YOU FEEL LIKE SHE IS STRINGING YOU ALONG,THEN SHE PROBABLY IS. DON'T STAY BECAUSE YOU THINK"IT WILL GET BETTER"YOU'LL BE MAD AT YOURSELF. "A YEAR LATER FOR STAYING WHEN THINGS ARE NOT BETTER.THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN CONTROL IN A RELATIONSHIP IS YOU. ALWAYS HAVE YOUR OWN SET OF FRIENDS SEPARATE FROM HERS,MAINTAIN BOUNDARIES IN HOW A WOMAN TREATS YOU. IF SOMETHING BROTHERS YOU"SPEAK UP". NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW EVERYTHING,SHE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU LATER. YOU CANNOT CHANGE A WOMAN'S BEHAVOR,CHANGE COME FROM WITHIN. DON'T EVER MAKE HER FEEL SHE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU ARE,EVEN IF SHE HAS MORE EDUCATION OR IN A BETTER JOB. DO NOT MAKE HER INTO A QUASI-GODDESS. SHE IS A WOMAN NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,NEVER LET A WOMAN DEFINE WHO YOU ARE,NEVER BORROW SOMEONE ELSE'S WOMAN. OH LORD!IF SHE CHEATED WITH YOU,SHE'LL CHEAT ON YOU. A WOMAN WILL ONLY TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW HER TO TREAT YOU. "ALL STUDS ARE NOT DOGS AND ALL FEMS ARE NOT B.I.O.T.C.H.E.E.S! YOU SHOULD NOT BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE BENDING COMPROMISE IS A TWO-WAY STREET. YOU NEED TIME TO HEEL BETWEEN RELATIONSHIPS,THERE IS NOTHING CUTE ABOUT BAGGAGE,DAEL WITH YOUR ISSUES BEFORE PURSUING A NEW RELAIONSHIP. YOU SHOULD NEVER LOOK FOR SOMEONE TO COMPLETE YOU,A RELATIONSHIP CONSISTS OF TWO WHOLE INDIVIDUALS. LOOK FOR SOMEONE COMPLIMENTARY,NOT SUPPLEMENTARY. DATING IS FUN,EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T TURN OUT TO BE MISS RIGHT. "MAKE HER MISS YOU SOME TIME,WHEN A WOMAN ALWAYS KNOW WHERE YOU ARE,AND YOU'RE ALWAYS READILY AVAILABLE TO HER,SHE TAKE IT FOR GRANTED.DONT'T FULLY COMMIT TO A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T GIVE YOU EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED. KEEP HER IN YOUR RADAR BUT GET TO KNOW OTHERS,SHARE THIS OTHER LADIES YOU'LL MAKE SOME ONE SMILE. RE-THINK HER CHOICES AND ANOTHER WOMAN PREPARE,THEY SAY IT TAKES A MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON,AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM,A DAY TO LOVE THEM AND AN ENTIRE LIFETIME TO FORGET THEM.....

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