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About Me

I can sing around anyone, if I am in my car. I'm extremely shy, which is funny [haha] because I never used to be. I live my life one day at a time. I love nature; the trees, the green grass, the brown earth. I love thinking, learning and growing. I am and am not an only child. I'm also a bastard. I grew up and still live in the country, though the nearest city is only 20 miles away. I have a very close relationship with my car, even though now it now functions much like a paperweight. I love to travel and observe. Music is the only thing that I can always feel emotion with, and writing is now, again, the only way to deal with said emotions. My paper journal gets the brunt of it, meanwhile I devote a great deal of time to my Xanga, which is my purifying release of tension. This seems to be a happier place that is more open for the world to see. Change is good? or so I'm told. I am glad for the fact that at least one person shares my idea of an optimal friday night is sitting at home, alone, in the dark. I'm not a vampire, though I may bite if you get too close. I'm great at building walls. I use AIM if you'd like to chat. Love is suicide, and darkness is my friend. I'm not too keen on the whole moderation concept. I like to work out, but I am too lazy to do so. Hey fuck it! I'm just the writer. See what a little harmony can do?

I'm not just made out of velveteen. I don't dance because my brain usually operates in three/four time. I walk in love. I may like to hide behind my mental illness just a little bit. I'm just a kindhearted soul that's spent a lot of time working on herself. I've met a lot of great people online. Nothing wrong with a little booze now and then, it sometimes gets me talking. I often feel like an ass. I'll always listen to what you've got to say. We are everyone that we've been. I've become very quiet. I try to appreciate beauty in all forms because it is all around us at all times. Look, see, be. Live, breathe, laugh, love. Smile when you can, and when you want to, and when you don't want to. Count on a half smirk or a toothy grin, both are the way of my smile. I like to teach people to love themselves even though it is something I am still working on, and the most important thing anyone ever tried to teach me. Silver linings shine bright here.

I really love my job working with horses and thrive around their energy. I hug and kiss them every day and they love me back. It's so cool to be working with animals instead of people, because the only horseshit I have to deal with at work is actually horse shit. I get to play with and take care of them and spend time outdoors. I work with a good crew and we all love animals. We have four barn cats and they like to lay both in the sun and underneath cars. We're out in the country so nature surrounds us, crows, european swallows and killdeer like to hang out and we have a friendly neighborhood hawk to patrol our skies. I like that much better than the hellicopters. Deer wander through. Things are quiet, you can hear yourself think and all the sounds of horses bring a smile to my face. I spend most holidays with them and haven't been doing much else since my car died, though I should be on the road again soon! The barn helps my brain and it's one of my safe places, and I go there when I have a bad day and the horses make everything all better. It's very cool, somehow I came to be exactly where I want to be doing exactly what I want to do, so everything else should fall into place. We shall see.

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My Blog

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So...  you may have noticed I haven't been writing the happy lists.  [scoffs]  That's why I took so long to get started.  Life is interesting isn't it?  To fill you in, I haven't been writing much of ...
Posted by on Wed, 21 Jan 2009 22:51:00 GMT

A message from Eve Ensler on Sarah Palin + videos

Thank you Lauren for bringing this article to my attention!    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eve-ensler/drill-drill-drill_b _124829.html "Drill, Drill, Drill:I am having Sarah Palin nightma...
Posted by on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:35:00 GMT

Run away with me? Montana 2009

This is the same thing that I just bulletined, because not all of you read them.  If I get no responses, not only will I feel like a loser but I will move on to other sites to encompass more peop...
Posted by on Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:27:00 GMT

is this toothbrush approved by the american dental association? I’ll give it a whirl...

Leave your name in my blog comments.Once you do that, this is what I'll do .....1. I'll respond with something random about you.2. I'll tell you which song or movie you remind me of.3. I'll pick a kin...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Sep 2008 13:13:00 GMT

a couple childhood stories...

it happened when i was little, obviously, and I actually remember.   the drainage ditch diverts under the road and then runs through our swamp, the area near the road where it drains to i had cal...
Posted by on Mon, 11 Aug 2008 01:48:00 GMT

for those of you that don’t read my bulletins

I wrote this to everyone, as they all are but yeah not all of you read here or there but this is important in some ways.  Thanks to everyone that has been there for me and thanks also to those th...
Posted by on Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:19:00 GMT

karma works

Sometimes good things just happen, but it doesn't hurt to do the right thing. Once upon a time, about ten years ago I had another great canoe trip in the mountains with friends from my camp.  On...
Posted by on Wed, 23 Jul 2008 17:32:00 GMT

belly laughs and ears of joy

  yes ears, because the tears were sad and hormonal but with music so fine. The first two things just have to be on the list even though they didn't happen today but rather this week but must be ...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:58:00 GMT

If it makes you smile...

1. Mel's away message: Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow intheir hearts. But if it doesn't, be conten...
Posted by on Tue, 01 Jul 2008 22:05:00 GMT

joy and joyness

Again, taking too much time off from composing the happy lists, great things are happening all around even when we can't see them.  Do you think chocolate or penut butter should be on the list ev...
Posted by on Sun, 29 Jun 2008 17:38:00 GMT