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A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie

Give love - know love - be loved!

About Me

My family from Hollister pow-wow 2007
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I am a very proud member of the Haliwa-Saponi tribe, but just moved from RobCo - home of the Lumbee Indians and Tuscarora Nations. I am the Editor of the Country Courier, but used to work at UNCP - I love to pow-wow and have travelled all over celebrating my heritage - I used to sing with Kau-ta-noh, Jrs. and was the manager of Stoney Creek for a good while. I am a staff writer for Tanasi Journal (which seems to be on an extended hiatus) and for Native Visions, a local based Native American magazine - I am also Senior Moderator for www.Powwows.com/gathering - and record my pow-wow calendar podcast each month - always trying to feature new artist - also gave a complete listing of my pow-wow's - the ones I will be attending (hopefully) in 2007.... In the past I have featured Southern Suns, Deer Clan Singers, homegirl Charley Lowry, Pura Fe and Ulali, Stoney Creek, Kau-ta-noh, Jrs., Dry Lake, Litefoot, and Randy Wood. I am also about to start another Native American radio program (it will be my third) - so I am really excited about that.. i just finished working on a new cookbook - already sold 100 in the first week - it the 5th one I have contributed to - 1st one I produced from cover to cover.... it rocks!! I worked with some other magnificant people with the UNCP Staff Council... we did this as a fund raiser for our scholarship fund!!I had my first speaking engagement last weekend in New Hampshire, boy it was cold, but it was fun! The snow was beautimous... the students really seemed to dig what I had to say, which was awesome - I think this is something that I most certainly would love to do again and again - I love sharing my culture - I love my people!Most recently I am working more on my film making career. I worked with my Creek bro Bruce Berryhill to produce Culture and Pride, which just got nominated for an Emmy!!! My documentary I am filming this weekend is based on the Art of Storytelling, and the 2nd one is recording the making of a pine needle basketry throughout rural NC.I feel truly blessed to have known love and to know how to love - some never learn how to!!! My Princess Rachel just turned 18, is a senior, just finished her prom and is getting ready for her college career. She has been accepted at UNC Chapel Hill, and was blessed to have received the Covenant scholarship, which means that as long as she continues to maintain her grades, she will have a debt free college career. Let's all give praise and pray for her... I am so happy for her..she is bad to the bone - in a good way - and Master Johnathan is 8! He is quick to tell you that is master of the house - He just tested highest in his school for 2nd grade for AG - he is too smart, ya'll!!! He is caught in between many emotions right now - he lives with me, but sees his dad twice a week and every other weekend - and it can be confusing for little man. He laughs because he feels like he can relax when he comes home, he says that daddy and me are way different - no kidding!!! Praise God! lolMy children are the true heros in my life...Here are Rachel's senior pictures - she is all grown up...
..I beleive in love - I encourage anyone to seek what your joys are and cherish them - so many times we walk thru life and wonder how did we get there? Savor each moment - make your memories count - the seventh generation needs to know that it can be done. And as always - pray without ceasing... never give up - God is good - ALL The TIME and he will provide - why worry??? Be blessed and thanks for reading - you rock!Some drum groups blasting from last year's Lumbee pow-wow...Kau=ta-noh, Jrs., Stoney Creek, Black Bear and Red Earth....Enjoy...

My Interests

Love to write, love to sing, love to dance, love to love and be loved - love to pow-wow, shoot pool, chill with my kids, organize events, work with UNCP students, cook, and just offer encouragement - all of us need a lift here and again - lean on me - one day, I might need to lean on you! I love to spend time with my family (large) and my friends (huge) and just make memories - it all matters!!!Pow-wows!!!

I'd like to meet:

New folks - I love meeting new people from all walks of life - none of us are alike (thank God!) - we are all made up of diff things - each one of us has a diff "dance" - find your dance and don't let anyone change your music!!! Be real and it will show!!! Be "fake" and that will also be shown - keep walking if that is you - there is no reason whatsoever to cheat me - I am just one person - but you are the one who YOU have to answer for - let your truth shine through - that is what you will be remembered for...Through my divorce, instead of allowing the pain to turn into bitterness - I chose love and forgiveness. I have seen ugliness through hatred - love is much better... reading others blogs and messages - it only hurts you to show meanness and ugliness to others. As I tell my son, God sees it all. People can lie to each other, to you, to themselves, but God sees it all. He is not being fooled by deception. Praise.You know it's funny - you pray for so many things to happen and they don't and you wonder why does God not answer our prayers? He answers them in HIS time - and it always works out for the best. I don't stress so much anymore - I take comfort in knowing that God is in charge and His is steering my boat down His path - I am just being obedient and following his lead - He's the one man that never ever let me down - God is awesome.

Music:

Love all music - am so digging 96.5 FM - love rap music, contempory gospel, all gospel actually, all drums (ok - my absolute favorite Southern Drum is Rosehill, Cozad, Sizzortail and Southern Suns and Young bird - favorite Northern Stoney Creek, Midnight Express, High Noon (I dream of getting my voice that dang high as those back ups!!), Northern Cree, Red Bull, Black Eagle, Bear Creek, Midnight Express, Mandaree), rock-n-roll (Aerosmith will sing at my next wedding - 3rd time is a charm!), love Dark New Day's sound (talented bros for real), Love anything my dear friend Pura Fe does... best to you sis! Love country too - some of it is real deep, some of it is just fun! Love funky - get down music too - am going to see Bruce Springsteen next Wednesday, and Motley Crue and SIXX AM in July (I can not believe it - how awesome is that?)
| View Show | Create Your OwnPrince is my absolute (bar none) favorite of all time - I was blessed last year with being able to see him perform live in Raleigh - took my daughter and we had a ball - just dig all music!!! Love handdrum songs - Randy Woods, John Oxendine II, Red Bull, Northern Cree

Movies:

Titanic, Night at the Museum, Diary of Mad Black Woman, Rent, Sixth Sense, Sound of Music (for realz), How the Grinch stole Christmas (Jim Carrey Version), Purple Rain, The Notebook has got to be the best of all time...
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Television:

Sopranos, CSI, on the Record with Greta, Nancy Grace, forensic files, Rock of Love with Brett Michaels anything of Food network, Real World, Wild and Out with Nick Cannon, My Sweet Sixteen, Intervention, Cold Case Files - you get the jist..

Books:

The Bible, Herb books (love reading about herbs), anything that is uplifting!

Heroes:

God, and my kids!Here is a slide show of my Aunt Vedora who passed on November 11, 2006 - I will miss her so much. I love you Dora!!
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My Blog

This is me...

I am who I am  - a strong Native woman who is driven beyond belief - I am amazed at the folks that scatter and throw obstacles in my way and try to make their junk mine - it is true that one man'...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Thu, 08 May 2008 08:04:00 PST

My concerts - past and present

This coming Wednesday, my bestest friend Liz is taking me to the see the Boss - Bruce Springsteen - I am all tingly inside - I have so much wonderful memories growing up of listening to his music - I ...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 08:18:00 PST

COMMISSION OF INDIAN AFFAIRS ACCEPTS G105 APOLOGY

Got this in an e-mail today... COMMISSION OF INDIAN AFFAIRS ACCEPTS G105 APOLOGY New Partnership Will Promote and Support American Indian Issues   RALEIGH  Commission of Indian Affairs Chairman...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Fri, 18 Apr 2008 07:40:00 PST

Haliwa-Saponi Pow-wow this weekend - be there!

Hello loves -  I wanted to invite you all to attend my tribe's pow-wow this weekend - the Haliwa-Saponi pow-wow in Hollister, NC.   I am so excited - I can not even express it - you hav...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 07:57:00 PST

Peaceful protest scheduled for April 21

Dear all,A peaceful protest will occur on Monday, April 21.TIME: 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.LOCATION: NC State Capital (where the Press Conference was)DATE: April 21, 2008NEED: YOU! Supportors, leaders, st...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Sun, 13 Apr 2008 09:32:00 PST

Press Conference Scheduled for April 9 - 3 PM - concerning G105 racial statements NC

Press Conference Scheduled for April 9 - 3 PM - concerning G105 racial statements NC .. --> / icon and title -->.. --> message --> Please be advised that Mr. Paul Brooks, Chairman of the NC Commissi...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 11:55:00 PST

I have lost almost 30 lbs...

Since I have been in Virginia.  I have joined Weight Watchers with my assistant Shirley and have also joined Snap Fitness with my sister Julie - I am loving my life and getting ready for a summe...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Mon, 31 Mar 2008 07:29:00 PST

So - I am renewing the energy...

After much thought and prayer, I have decided to redirect some of my energies into some personal issues.  It is amazing to me how negativeness will find it’s way into your life when you wel...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Mon, 31 Mar 2008 08:13:00 PST

Aerosmtih song - my song of hope and love

I changed my profile song to one of Aerosmith’s song - Don’t want to miss a thing.  I think I have written about this song before - this is the song that would be sung at my next wedd...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Sat, 29 Mar 2008 07:36:00 PST

Easter - the time of resurrection

What an incredible couple of days and weeks have passed by!!! I have been privy to seeing God’s hands working in my life in ways that I have not been able to imagine - I feel I am finally ...
Posted by A. Kay Oxendine - Rest Easy Baby Johnnie on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 08:02:00 PST