ALRIGHT, LET'S QUIT WITH THE SHIT! NOBODY REALLY KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT, OR WHO THEY'RE LOOKING FOR, UNTIL THEY FIND THEM. IF I SAID I WANT A NICE SWEET GIRL WHO I CAN TAKE HOME TO MY FAMILY, I'LL PROBABLY END UP HOOKING UP WITH A TWO BIT WHORE WHO CHEATS ON ME WITH MY DAD. IF I SAY I JUST WANT TO HAVE SOME FUN WITH A FEW GIRLS WITH NO COMMITMENT, I'LL PROBABLY FALL IN LOVE AND GET MARRIED. I MEAN CHRIST PEOPLE, IF YOU KNEW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANTED LIFE WOULD BE SO GOD DAMN BORING THERE WOULDN'T EVEN BE A POINT OF LIVING!!!! SO YOU WANNA KNOW WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET? SOMEONE WHO'S ACTUALLY REAL, SOMEONE WITH A PERSONALITY THAT WASN'T FORMED FOR THEM BY THIS DUMB ASS SOCIETY, THAT CAN ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING WITHOUT WONDERING WHAT OTHERS ARE GOING TO THINK ABOUT IT.........SOMEONE WITH A FUCKING MIND!!!!!!! IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK FOR????MY DAUGHTER!!!! IF YOU DON'T THINK SHE'S BEAUTIFUL FUCK OFF!!!MY BROTHER THE MINI PIMP!!!BENDER, VIOLET MARIE 78, of Lakewood, died Tuesday. Wife of Edward G. Bender, mother of Bruce Bender and Lorraine Jones. Violet had 6 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. Recitation of the Rosary, Bullock Colonial Chapel, Monday 6:30 pm. Mass of Christian Burial, Christ On the Mountain Catholic Church, 13922 W Utah Ave., Tuesday 10:30 am. Interment Mt. Olivet. In lieu of flowers, please send a donation to the Visiting Nurses Association or to the Susan G. Koman Breast Cancer Foundation.