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I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU.

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About Me

What do you think would happen if we all took a minute and analyzed what we had to say before we said it? What if we all knew the exact repercussions of what we did and said? Do you think it would stop us from hurting others? Would there be less hearts broken? Less bitter men? Less bitter women? Would it be easier to find love and keep it? As humans we are bound to be imperfect. We learn by making mistakes, yet what does it say about someone’s character if they continue to make the same mistake over and over ? A man will say I just want a good woman, someone to cook, clean, be humble, act like a lady, be beautiful and kind hearted and sensitive. Yet that same man will get a woman with all those attributes and either run, cheat or demean her and try to change her. A woman will say I want a good man, someone who loves me for me, who will cater to me, who wont cheat, who will be my everything. Yet that same woman will get a man like that and call him weak and run over him for a man who doesn’t give a damn about her for more than what’s in between her legs. And than they all get hurt and are scarred when there romeo or juliet comes along. If you make a mistake learn from it. If you have your heart broken learn from it. Do not repeat the same cycle over and over until you have lost what makes you you and you have become bitter. It’s not fair to the one God has set forth for you. It’s not fair to you. The only way to do that is to love you no matter what you have done. No matter what has been done to you love yourself. And once you truly love yourself you will trust what you are worth and won’t settle for anything less than the best for yourself.MRS. RIGHTAdvantages a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions. b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy. c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mothers. d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body. e. She believes in God and follows his virtues. f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200uota yet she gives her man an extra 10åBRg. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually. h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you. i. Shes always there for, no matter what your dreams are. j. Shes not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight. k. You can talk to her and confide in her, shes your best friend. l. You love being around her more than your boys. m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex. n. You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever. o. Shes always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But shes also intelligent enough to leave. p. Shes nothing like any other girl youve met. Shes your woman.Disadvantage a. Youve probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other types that you let her go
...::About Me::...
Full Name: Alesha
Eye Color: naturaly brown
Hair Color: black
Height: 5'8
Shoe Size: 9
Ring Size: Whichever size fits
Heritage: African-American, Native American & Caucasion
Graduating Year: 2004
Birthdate: 07/16/1986
Zodiac Sign: Cancer
...::Firsts::...
Concert: lol 50 Cent
Best Friend: Sparkle
Crush: Don't crush
Pet: Don't have any
Sport: Basketball
...::Have You Ever::...
Sky Dived: NO
Bungee Jumped: NO
Gone out of the Country: NO
Beaten Someone Up: NO
Gotten Beat Up: NO
Killed an Animal: Does a spider count?
Swam in the Ocean: yeah
Broke the Law: uuuummmm no comment
Smoked: Once
Chewed Tobacco: NO
Drank: Yeah
Been Kissed: DUH
Been In Love: YEP
Dumped Someone: uuuuummmm once
Been Dumped: yep
Broken Someone's heart: yeah not intentionally
Had Your Heart Broken: unfortunatly
Liked Someone Who Didn't Like You Back: naw
Broken A Bone: once when i was little
Had Surgery: yeah
Had an X-ray or MRI: yeah
Failed a Class: no
...::Favorites::...
Color: Purple
Food: Mac and cheese
Drink: Apple juice
Snack: Doritos cool ranch
Cereal: Honey nut cheerios
Ice Cream: Haagan Daz-Dulce De le Caramel
Candy: Strawberry Cream Savers
Restaurant: Red Lobster
Fast Food Place: Mc donalds
Store: No preference
Animal: Fish
Quote: "Live, love and laugh"
Sport To Play: Basketball
Sport To Watch: None
Movie: "Love and Basketball"
TV Show: CSI, The L Word, Noahs Arc and the Game
Type Of Music: Everything
Band: Jagged Edge
Singer: Corrine Bailey Rae
Song: Say It Right
...::This//Or//That::...
Pepsi or Coke: Coke
Vanilla or Chocolate: Neither
Cake or Ice Cream: Ice cream
McDonalds or Burger King: Mcdonalds
Love or Money: Love
Music or TV: Music
Cat or Dog: Cat
Mom or Dad: wow uuumm both
Truck or Car: Car
Ocean or Lake: Ocean it's endless
Yahoo or Hotmail: Yahoo
Google or AJ: Google
Light or Dark: Dark
Country or City: phoenix
Rain or Sunshine: Sunshine
...::The Opposite Sex::...
First Thing You Notice: Smile
Personality or Looks: Personality looks go away
Hair Color: Hopefully their natural color
Eye Color: Natural
Short or Tall: Tall
Romanic or Spontaneous: Both
Sense of Humor or Sweet: Both
Hook up or Relationship: Relationship
...::Currently::...
Feeling: Discouraged
Listening To: "Who am I to Say"-HOPE
Wanna: Feel better
Doing Besides Typing: breathing
Thinking About: Life
Wearing: clothes
In Love: Not sure
Single: Yes
Best Friends: Sparkle
...::The Future::...
Career: Still undecided
Marriage: I hope so
Kids: I hope so
The Ultimate Survey @ MyHotQuiz MY LITTLE SISTER AND BROTHER
Your Birthdate: July 16
Your birth on the 16th day of the month gives a sense of loneliness and generally the desire to work alone.You are relatively inflexible, and insist on your being independent.You need a good deal of time to rest and to meditate.You are introspective and a little stubborn.Because of this, it may not be easy for you to maintain permanent relationships, but you probably will as you are very much into home and family.This birth day inclines to interests in the technical, the scientific, and to the religious or the unknown realm of spiritual explorations.The date gives you a tendency to seek unusual approaches and makes your style seem a little different and unique to those around you.Your intuition is aided by the day of your birth, but most of your actions are bedded in logic, responsibility, and the rational approach.You may be emotional, but have a hard time expressing these emotions.Because of this, there may be some difficulty in giving or receiving affection. What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

My Interests


MY LOVELY MOTHER

Well the most obvious interest would be hair. I love doing hair whether its braiding, weaving, color or just a style I like it all. I also love writing, it is definetly my therepeutic release from this crazy world. I also like basketball haven't played in a while but it's still a good pass time for me.

I'd like to meet:

PEOPLE WHO HAVE A DREAM AND WILL DO EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO MAKE IT COME TRUE.

Music:

I'm kind of old fashioned as I like alot of the oldies. I love Curtis Mayfield, The temptations, Tina Marie, Donnie Hathoway and to many more to list. I like just about all of the new and old R&B probably because I'm a sucker for love songs lol, but I am not a big rap person. I like some of the beats and think some of the hooks are catchy but it's not something I would put in at the house and listen to.

Movies:

My movie all times is "Love and Basketball" If you don't like it well... I don't know what to tell you because it was the best love story.

Television:

When my schedule allows I like all the CSI's and Law & Order's, Grey's Anatomy, The L word, and 3 lbs.

Books:

One of my favorites is the triple auto-biography series by Dave Peltzer. He did my dream of writing about all the hell and abuse he went through. Through writing you can heal all pain. John Grisham is just a great writer I love law and he writes alot about it. For a little fun I like all of the Omar Tyree books and last but most definatly not least every book Toni Morrison writes is a favorite of mine.

Heroes:

I'd have to say I have three heroes my Godmother,my daddy and my mother. My Godmother worked all her life helping people and bringing joy to people's lives. She died of Cancer and even in her last days she was worried about every one but herself. My second Hero, my Daddy really taught me what unconditional love is. He was the first man I ever fell in love with and he will always have my heart. And last but most definatly not least my momma. Without her I would not be here of course lol naw she has helped me alot over the years and guided me to be the woman I am today. MY LITTLE SISTER

My Blog

WITHOUT YOU

I keep your memory deep within Who knew forever would be so quick to end I wake up to the silence that once wasn't there My phone never rings its as if you never cared I try and try to get you out o...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Tue, 23 Oct 2007 04:22:00 PST

Keep the faith

Why is it that misery loves company?When one goes through pain they push away the ones or one that loves them.Demeaning someone to make them feel just as bad as you do isn't healthy. Let somebody symp...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Tue, 08 May 2007 03:33:00 PST

Just wanna go back

What happened to us? What happened to you? What happened to me? Why do I have to drink every night just to get to sleep? Every song, every story, everything reminds me of you. Every time I hear your ...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Mon, 07 May 2007 11:53:00 PST

Why?

WHY IS IT THAT I DO WHAT I AM SUPPOSED TO DO AND STILL END UP IN THE WRONG PLACE? I READ MY BIBLE BELEIVE IN THE LORD AND ALL HIS MIRACLES. GO TO SCHOOL AND WORK FOR A BETTER LIFE. RESPECT MY ELDERS T...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Mon, 07 May 2007 04:00:00 PST

SUPPOSED TO BE

IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE REAL THIS TIME AROUND I WASN'T SUPPOSED TO HAVE TO CHECK HIS PHONE OR WAIT UP ALL NIGHT FOR HIM TO COME HOME I WASNT SUPPOSED TO DOUBT HIS LOVE WHEN I LOOKED INTO HIS EYES HE ...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Sun, 06 May 2007 03:50:00 PST

Stay or let it go?

Didn't know what you had until you threw it away. Said some pretty fucked up things before you went away. Now I am supposed to consider your change in ways. Lol I don't have shit left to say. Shoulda ...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Sat, 21 Apr 2007 05:22:00 PST

BETTER DAYS

BETTER DAYS I`m here for a reason I`ve made it through all rainy seasons And will continue to be strong no matter how much they do me wrong My sun might not come out tommorow but I`m sure it`ll be s...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 01:53:00 PST

HANG IN THERE BOO

HANG IN THERE BOO Two wrongs don`t make a right Just cuz I`m fussin doesn`t mean I want to fight Even if I`m gone all day I`m always home at night We both did wrong and its all been brought to light ...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 01:52:00 PST

SMOKE AND MIRRORS

People never cease to amaze me. Everytime I let someone close they end up showing their true colors, but its always too late when I see beyond the smoke and mirrors. Caring and sharing the most intima...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 01:40:00 PST

Bundle of Joy

At this point in my life I see everyone around me with precious bundles of joy when i go to sleep at night I pray to the Lord that one day when the time is right I will be blessed with a little a...
Posted by I LIKE WHO I AM. I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU. on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 01:07:00 PST