PLEASE LISTEN TO MY GURL MARY!!!....SHE TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUTTA MY MOUTH!!!.....=)
KUZ IM A....
LADIES....
If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, NOTHING can make him stay.
STOP making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
STOP trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no; you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. DON'T SETTLE! If you feel like he is stringing you along, THEN HE PROBABLY IS!
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be
mad at yourself a year (or more) later for staying when things are "not better". The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different women. He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's
behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the
one doing all the bending....COMPROMISE IS A TWO WAY
STREET!!!
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MY HERO'Z ARE MY KID'Z....JACOB & JENESIZ!....MY MOM, MY MOST FAVORITE PERSON IN THE WORLD, MY GRANDMA, R.I.P,!....AND MY SOLDIER BOY MARTIN!!!....I LOVE MY HERO'Z!!!....WITH OUT THEM I'D BE NUTHING!!!....