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♥Miss Independent

Yeah, so what?

About Me


Hey all. My name is Karla. People like to call me Kay. I'm 22 and I am in the middle of starting my life over!!! My husband and I are getting a divorce and I thank God every day for my strength and courage. I thank God for my family, my GREAT friends, and my dogs because they are the BEST in the whole world. I don't know where I would be without them!!! These last three months have been the hardest. There have been ups and there have been downs, but I am grateful for a new beginning; grateful for what I have seen and been through because I have the wisdom to help others. I am thankful for a new sense of purpose! So, there it is.
[I LOVE to laugh and have a good time!] [I am always looking to have a good time and I'm up for anything spontanious and fun. NO, this doesn't mean I am easy!] [I'm not perfect. I say stupid things because most the time I don't think before I speak. It's usually after I say it that I realise how stupid it was && laugh at myself. I lose things easily. I have a terrible memory and I tend to trip over my own feet. I tend to talk a lot when I am nervous. I'm really shy around people, but it's cute =] [I am one of the nicest people you will meet.] but [I have trouble trusting people.] and [I don't have time to play games with people. I will tell you you're wrong. If that makes me a bitch oh well. Deal with it....or don't....] [I work hard for what I want.] [I live life day by day.] [I can't stand people who lie or use people.] [I love my family and friends. I just want you all to know that it's ok if you don't know what to say and that it's ok to feel akward. It's hard to know what to do for someone who is being abused and it's very difficult to see someone you love have to go through it. I just want to tell you all that I am so grateful for your friendships and that you have been there and are still there for me.]

My Interests

♥Family
♥Friends
♥Memories
♥Pictures
♥Believing
♥Singing
♥Relaxing
♥Working
♥Talking
♥Music
♥Goals
♥Having Fun

..Life is all about surrounding yourself with good people who love you, make you feel good about yourself, and encourage you to be a better person..
♥Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes-Carl Jung♥KARMA is real. What goes around comes around, so watch your back. ♥Don't worry about the people in your past because there's a reason they didn't make it to your future! ♥Never put a guy before your friends because guys come and go but best friends are supposed to be forever. ♥Good things come to those who wait. ♥What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. ♥Honesty is always the best policy. ♥Never lie because soon your lies become your reality. ♥Divorce can be a blessing. ♥Laughter is the best medicine. ♥Your hopes and dreams can get smashed in an instant, but something better usually comes along. ♥People can walk out of your life a lot faster than they can walk into it. ♥Letting go can be the hardest thing in the world, but try to think of the bigger picture. ♥Love at first sight isn't real. ♥You CAN NOT base your life off the world around you. ♥EVERYONE makes mistakes. ♥Finding yourself takes A LOT of time. ♥It's ok to be jealous. ♥Working hard doesn't always work. ♥Speaking to the choir is a waste of time. ♥Fucking up and trying to fix things; saying your sorry is sometimes the only thing you can do. ♥You can't change everything or some people. ♥Family is the most important thing in life-they are always going to love you and be there for you. ♥People who love you just want you to be happy. ♥No matter what your situation is or how bad it is there is always something you can do to make it better. ♥Everything in life is a gamble. ♥Follow your heart and do what you feel is right because you are the only person who is living or will live your life. ♥Whatever you want in life you have to go for it because there are always going to be obstacles. ♥You can find good in anyone if you give them a chance; benefit of the doubt. Sometimes people will dissapoint you; sometimes they will even surprise you, but you can never really get to know them until you listen to what their heart has to say.

I'd like to meet:



Music:

I ♥ pretty much anything.

Movies:

I ♥ comedies

Television:

I ♥ reality tv shows about crimes. CSI and Law and Order are my favorites.

Books:

I could fill this in with something randomly cool, but I really don't read. =p

Heroes:

♥Myself. God. My family and friends, our military service members and their families, and anyone who has been through a violent experience and has used it to make a positive impact on themselves or the world.When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin'." I'm whispering "I was lost, Now I'm found and forgiven." When I say... "I am a Christian" I don't speak of this with pride. I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide. When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not trying to be strong. I'm professing that I'm weak And need His strength to carry on. When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not bragging of success. I'm admitting I have failed And need God to clean my mess. When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not claiming to be perfect, My flaws are far too visible But, God believes I am worth it. When I say... "I am a Christian" I still feel t he sting of pain. I have my share of heartaches So I call upon His name. When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not holier than thou, I'm just a simple sinner Who received God's good grace, somehow!?{Thanks Steph!!!}

My Blog

Poem

Sorry things always change Sorry things can never stay the same Sorry to dissapoint you Sorry I make you blue Sorry that it wasn't true Sorry things were never meant to be But one day you're gonna see...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Fri, 18 Jan 2008 01:54:00 PST

Done

Forget it. It's over. Tired of it. Forget me. Forget you.
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Sat, 12 Jan 2008 10:11:00 PST

It never stops

Well, we found out today that Tigger had distemper. We had to put him down. ='( He was such a cute kitty; loving and playful. I couldn't bare to think about the poor thing suffering like Meskeet did....
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Thu, 27 Dec 2007 09:40:00 PST

Poem

The silence is pilling me under What did I do, I wonder? I can't be what you want me to be Honestly, it's killing me How can you break someone's heart Right as they're falling apart How can you walk a...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 06:20:00 PST

Update

Well, Meskeet has a grave. I feel better now. Work is going ok. I am starting to feel more comfortable there. Two Foreman positions will be opening up and I am one of the most qualified for it. They d...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Thu, 06 Sep 2007 06:18:00 PST

Sad Day

I miss my friend. My cat was so sweet. He was mine. He would lay next to me in bed. He would lay at my feet. He knew he was mine. A few days ago he started acting strange. I felt so bad for him. He wo...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Tue, 04 Sep 2007 04:06:00 PST

Something to smile about

Yay for new, cool, and cheap cell phones!!!
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Wed, 29 Aug 2007 07:45:00 PST

A poem

My world is breaking right beneath me If only answers came more easily I don't know what to do with my life If only I knew what I should do is right I'm tired of being sad over you Why is it YOU who i...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Mon, 21 May 2007 07:12:00 PST

Tell me what you want from me

i'm sorry i'm not perfect i'm sorry i cant do everything you want me to do im sorry i cant do two things at once im sorry i dont drop exactly what im doing to do what you want im sorry you cant t...
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Sun, 19 Nov 2006 02:24:00 PST

you've stolen my heart

talkin to my two best friends on msn was the best thing ever
Posted by ♥Miss Independent on Fri, 21 Jul 2006 09:08:00 PST