Hmmm how about someone with a sense of humor who knows how to carry on a conversation? Someone who's like me: able to fit in the grown up world but who knows when it's time to have fun. You have to make time for all sorts of things in your life. Saying that you aren't looking for drama is silly since everyone has a past and everyone has issues. It's all about who's crap you're willing to put up with because you know your life is better with them than without.