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dhr46

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

some people say i'm a bad influence. i just say i'm a convenient catalyst to assist people in doing what they really wanted to do anyway. so if you misbehave when i'm around...don't blame me...
me: former idealist turned slightly cynical? i would still like to believe that ideal relationships exist out there somewhere...it's just that they are all seemingly just out of my reach. :) what's that saying... 'life is what happens while you're making other plans...'
i try to live with open eyes...even though i tend to get hit in the head a lot...with the ground. aren't helmets a wonderful invention?
i believe that the basis of any good relationship is a sense of trust. start simple.
i enjoy trying new things to find new things to immerse myself into (not just for thrills, although that can have its place too)...but i tend to get really into a few things rather than skin deep on a bunch of things...if that makes sense.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

just about anyone, as long as they are independent, have some idea who they are, and show passion about at least one thing. we can all learn something from each other.
people who don't necessarily know where they'll end up, but people who are going somewhere.
doers. talk is cheap. i mean, we all talk, but there are those that act far more often than others. you know who you are...
borderline insane people with criminally good hearts.
people who can understand that my intensity isn't something to be scared of. i like to like what i like, dig?
fun people i can trust who know how to balance being serious...and being seriously silly.

My Blog

riding is fun

snowboarding kicks ass...even here on a crappy little hill in lisle.  having my best friend there helped though.  :)looking forward to boarding out west this spring.my foot is doing well; i ...
Posted by on Thu, 24 Jan 2008 11:06:00 GMT

who, what, where, when

i have no idea where i'm going anymore, but at least mentally i feel more stable now (well, maybe less tortured) than i have in some time.  my body is finally healing up, although i am a lit...
Posted by on Wed, 02 Jan 2008 13:17:00 GMT

today is only 0 days away

so get this...i tried stopping my muscle relaxers today.  i have been successful, and my back only feels a little weird.  they were the only drug i was taking that would make me sleepy (as i...
Posted by on Fri, 01 Jun 2007 23:38:00 GMT

all or none

my sleep schedule is totally f*ed up.  no idea how i am going to be effective at work on monday.  well, i should say, i'm trying to work again on monday, but my HR department at work is, as ...
Posted by on Fri, 01 Jun 2007 03:27:00 GMT

we can't walk on the sidewalk forever?!

it is now 3:51 in the am.  i am sitting here wide awake chewing some bubble gum that a friend gave me recently.  i can't really remember the last time i had bubble gum.strawberry splash bub...
Posted by on Wed, 30 May 2007 01:44:00 GMT

back in the hood

what makes a place home?it was a little weird walking back into my apartment last night after being away for so long.  i had really only lived in my apartment for a month before getting injured a...
Posted by on Sun, 27 May 2007 09:28:00 GMT

know thyself

Although I'm actually hardly taking anything, I tried to back down my pain meds yesterday.  Apparently it's too early.  :|Over the years I have become pretty good at knowing what limits to p...
Posted by on Mon, 21 May 2007 11:43:00 GMT

something small i really really hate

I HATE IT WHEN I TYPE A FAIRLY LONG BLOG ENTRY AND THEN WHEN I SUBMIT THERE IS A GADDAM SERVER ERROR AND I LOSE ALL OF MY TEXT.  DAMMIT, DAMMIT, DAMMIT!I ALSO HATE POSTS IN ALL CAPS. THE END.
Posted by on Fri, 18 May 2007 19:27:00 GMT

simple things

It's pretty amazing how simple things get taken for granted as we go about our daily lives.  It's not until something is taken away that we realize how good we had it.I realized this yesterday st...
Posted by on Fri, 11 May 2007 17:07:00 GMT

intensity

Some people view me as a heavy hitter.  Not as in I have so many weapons in my personal arsenal; more like I tend to swing with broad strokes in the things I choose to pursue.  There are not...
Posted by on Thu, 10 May 2007 20:47:00 GMT