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Denise

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I'm heading towards 40 and wanting to find people to add to my life that will be honest, positive, and supporting -- not only with me as a friend, and/or whatever, but also with themselves in their lives. I am not into long distance relationships so if you are not from Canada, please don't be offended if I don't respond.I am on here to find a life partner. I'm a personal type person that wants to build a relationship with a person that is tangible, not just words on a screen and the promise of a plane ticket someday.I'm a straight shooting, askewed visionary. As a caregiver type, a nurturer as they say, I'm working on caring for me while knowing I have a wealth of caring, enough for others as well.I've recently returned to my home town. Life is getting a realignment with more focus on the now and what it takes to make life happy, healthy and wise.Things that make me happy include the company of those happy in their lives, times of quiet reflection, moments overwhelmed by the beauty of nature, gut-busting belly laughs, finding lost treasures and good bargains, and the contentment I have with my present employment and the knowledge that it not only adds to my bank account and covers my expenses... it adds to the contentment of others as well.Things that make me healthy include walking and the insane gyrating I do to my fav beats -- some call it exercising but I just like to say dancing... either way I sweat. I like to cook healthy and choose healthy food, you know.. the stuff found in the 'fresh' section. Oh, healthy also includes the acceptance of my BBW curves and the knowledge that I just am.Things that make me wise include a diverse life path with experiences and associations that have enriched my understanding and perspectives and the openness I have to the positives of the world that surrounds me.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone within commutable distance or someone that has the finances to make travel possible -- don't look at me to do the running on my bill until I see it as worth the investment. Someone balanced in their own rite. Someone able to communicate effectively and take a ribbing as well (I have a sarcastic streak, so you gotta be able to decipher tones as well as words to really get me sometimes.). You gotta have a positive outlook and be gripping your now as well as developing your plan of action. And you gotta just love life for all its worth and know that together we can be number one.

My Blog

Staying in contact

Today I found out that a dear friend from high school had passed... not recently... no, four years ago. People fall away from each other over time. This is inevitable. Not knowing how to contact peopl...
Posted by on Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:22:00 GMT

A Thanksgiving Moment

Truly blessed, I still have both my parents with me and I also have the good fortune of having an 85 year-old grandmother. What joy I had coming into grandma's house this Thanksgiving morn, smelling ...
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 17:44:00 GMT

Election '08 Haldimand-Norfolk, All Candidates Night, Caledonia

As I sit here munching on a little snack, I wonder how the All Candidates Night is going in Caledonia. Now, no balking at me for not being involved in the process&. I went. I was sincerely interes...
Posted by on Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:22:00 GMT

Wonderful things happening all over

It has been such a long while since I've last attended this poor neglected blog. This blog was started to provide a tool to encourage my writing habits... of actually sitting down and putting thought ...
Posted by on Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:14:00 GMT

Another US School Shooting

Okay, I won't go into all the details of this newest American student gone wild with guns killing fellow students story... you'll get all that from news sources. The purpose of this little blurb is si...
Posted by on Fri, 15 Feb 2008 19:10:00 GMT

Keith Ledger

Okay, ya so I put everything under life. Bite Me!. So we found out recently that Mr. Ledger's life was not taken in suicide. It was not taken from an intentional overdose. He took his pills as prescri...
Posted by on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 01:52:00 GMT

A Spiralling Life Line

Most of the time I write about my thoughts on things happening outside of my immediate life. You know, those safe subjects where you can have an opinion with little or no personal impact. My inflectio...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 22:42:00 GMT

Corporate Incompetence

Now that my internet is back up and running, a word about the hassle I've endured doing such under our Canadian corporate giant -- Ma Bell. It's a good thing that there are other companies edging the...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 23:01:00 GMT

Going Home

..> ..> It's been awhile since I've attended to my blog... I have been negligent for good reason. After spending too long spinning my wheels trying to test my pride and ego by building success in th...
Posted by on Sun, 09 Dec 2007 18:16:00 GMT

Returning with a Blast -- Armored Backpacks

Greetings all. Life's interesting twists and turns have now brought me back to being able to be amongst the connected. It's great to be back.   So sitting here with friends listening to John Tesh...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 21:29:00 GMT