i am a sarcastic and often cynical guy who thinks a lot, and sometimes too much for my own good. i have strong opinions and thoughts about life that are a bit weird to most people and im quite alright with that, as i do not care for most people; however, the people i do care for and call my friends and loved ones are the family that ive lacked for many years. to me they are irreplaceable. to them i am dedicated. for them i am grateful. i am of the opinion that one should never settle. not in career. not in love. life is to short to settle and waste time doing anything (with anyone) less than what you truly desire. after 30yrs, i am just beginning to truly understand how important that is.