A Player has to choose his woman like a jeweler chooses a stone for his own ring, i.e., very carefully, with a trained expert eye for detail, examining every facet for flaws, imperfections, and outward signs of decreased value. Like a diamond, in time of need, a players woman may be his only possession of any real value, enabling him to get out of a hole. Guys if you got a bullshit woman you ain't got nothing comming.
Me personally, I like to have a woman that has never dealt with a guy like myself (which is 1 in a million). All I need is a woman with a reasonable intelligence, and at least a desire, if not a hunger, for the finer things in life. The rest of who and what she becomes is on me.
Like a freshly mined diamond, a jeweler can cut that stone any way he wants. He can make it a Princess cut, Emerald, Pear, or Heart shaped cut. He may simply prefer a plain, but brilliant round cut. The bottom line is that it's not tainted by someone else's possible mistakes or plain fuck-ups. If so, hes got to work twice as hard to get that brilliance that establishes worth.
In the end, you know you've done your job when you hear others say things like, "Your woman sounds just like you," or refers to her as a female version of you. Your woman should be an extension of yourself. She is the one that handles your business when your gone.
Therefore a player's woman's strength and knowledge is of paramount importance. She is his backbone, i.e. "Behind every good Man, there is a good Woman."
Are you a ♦ ♦ ♦ in the Rough?!
Written by P.C. aka King Shabazz ♕
