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♪ Dear God, the only thing I ask of youIs to hold her when I'm not around,when I'm much too far awayWe all need that person who can be true to youBut I left her when I found her and now I wish I'd stayedCause I'm lonely and I'm tired,I'm missing you again oh no Once again ♫

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A common stereotype is that "nice guys finish last." The phrase is attributed to baseball manager Leo Durocher, though Durocher was originally referring to the opposing team rather than to male/female relationship dynamics. The full quote is, "All nice guys. They'll finish last. Nice guys. Finish last."

The "nice guys finish last" view is that there is a discrepancy between women's stated preferences and their actual choices in men: in other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are "jerks", or "bad boys" in the end. Desrochers (1995) claims that many "sensitive" men do not believe that women want "nice guys" due to their personal experiences.

According to McDaniel (2005), popular culture and dating advice "suggest that women claim they want a 'nice guy' because they believe that is what is expected of them when, in reality, they want the so-called 'challenge' that comes with dating a not-so-nice guy."


Urbaniak & Kilmann (2003) write that:

"Although women often portray themselves as wanting to date kind, sensitive, and emotionally expressive men, the nice guy stereotype contends that, when actually presented with a choice between such a 'nice guy' and an unkind, insensitive, emotionally-closed, 'macho man' or 'jerk,' they invariably reject the nice guy in favor of his 'so-called' macho competitor."

Hello people of Myspace. I am still here by popular demand and dont care to say too much about myself if you dont know who I am already. but to be nice I will fill you in on a bit of info if you are truely interested. My name is Jason Lucas maybe some relation to the oil tycoons and possibly George himself, you'll never know. I am single I guess by choice now. I am not picky but my standards are I guess too simple for many of them to conform to? I am moving into a new house soon and will prolly be taking many trips to California as well as other places (I love to travel).

I am a Christian by faith and a Chef by trade and will be opening my own place sooner than later, woot! I and pretty much a jack of all trades and founder of that ramdom knowledge most people say they have but are really lying. Yes. I a know a lot about nothing at all and it makes me one of the most awesome people alive. i guess it takes a lot to get to know some one...thats why I dont care to meet anyone on here right now. I have plenty of friends but if you see someone you know that I have on my list then you can try and squeeze in a request, I am not harsh.

That is all I will say at this point. Im just living life. Ask me whatever you'd like, I will get back to you as soon as I want or can.

Jason Lucas ( The Original Nice Guy)

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What defines my Nice guy Syndrome

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and nagging about what "a"holes guys are, while disproving the ver...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Jul 2009 17:56:00 GMT

To The Nice Guys

Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Jul 2009 17:42:00 GMT

WORDS FAIL

I wanted her to know I felt her I just didn't wanna... tell her Hoped if I lived my love, that'd be enough to quietly compel her. I just didn't wanna...have to...tell her. Then again, she never asked ...
Posted by on Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:19:00 GMT

Our Place

Faintly, I remember a timeWhen rest was not so hard to findWhen laughter was less often followed by tears And sleep was not disturbed with intangible fears But, I have found in the very reflection of ...
Posted by on Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:14:00 GMT