About Me
I miss my grandma.
I prefer the simple things in life because its the simple things in life we forget :)
I am a free man and life's obstacles are keeping me on my toes. I am a risk taker, an unleashed personality. I hold nothing back and I am willing to put it all on the line, act quickly and expect success. And if I do fail, I have no regrets. I also like change, because a changing environment means new opportunity, another chance or an even better mate. Too much predictability in life scares me.
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I believe there's a HERO in all of us, that keeps us honest, gives us strength, makes us noble, and finally, allows us to die with pride even though sometimes we have to be steady and give up the thing we want the most...even our dreams.
LOVE is the key to happiness. To love is to risk not being loved in return, to risk pain, to risk failure and heartbreak. But these risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. A life without love is a life without happiness. Love will always have its ups and downs and will always be complicated. But the way I see it, only the strong couples survive. The weak ones quit and give up on each other. Love should never be a secret. If you keep something as complicated as love stored up inside, it can make you sick. Love is hardly perfect. You have to work on it. It takes two, remember that folks! One person cannot make it work, therefore, both partners must be pulling the same weight in the relationship. Love is pure. You cannot love someone if you are in love with someone else. It is not fair. You cannot open a new door if you havent closed the last one yet. You cannot fall in love if you dont put in the time. You cannot fall in love if you dont take a chance. Love may not make the world go round, but it sure is worth the ride. To me, the five key characteristics of love are patience, sacrifice, commitment, honesty and trust. They each go hand in hand because one cannot exist without the other. Think of those five characteristics as super powers. Also, just because someone loves you doesnt mean they'll always be around. Women gives sex for love. Men gives love for sex. Just think about it..
MARRIAGE is something I dont believe in. People must learn to understand that marriage and love are two totally different topics. Love does not require paperwork because love is free, and the best things in life are free. Right? Marriage, if you ask me, is like a business contract. For example, why do we buy car insurance? If you can figure that out then you can figure out what I think about marriage. I believe two people can be together and live together and be happy together forever without marriage. I have nothing against married couples, this is just my own opinion so please dont judge me. Also, please dont misunderstand, just because I dont believe in marriage doesnt mean I dont want to get married. I do want a family some day. I simply havent met the right person for me to believe in marriage. After all, I do believe in love so anythings possible. But keep in mind that we live in a society today where the divorce rate is over 75%. That, to me, is pretty darn high and pretty darn scary. Marriage is like an STD waiting to happen, and I do not want to get infected with the disease. The only cure for marriage right now is abstinence :) Also, just because you get married doesnt mean that you'll be together forever. Just think about it..
SEX, on the other hand, is an INCENTIVE. It does not justify Love or Marriage. While marriage requires love, and love requires trust, sex requires nothing. You can have sex with someone but you dont necessarily have to love them or marry them. It is something people do for pleasure. (Like a sport) Sex is simply an activity. An activity that some would say enhances love, or enhances marriage. Some people have sex and automatically fall in love thinking that's true love but they're just confused because they're blinded by lust. People often confuse love with lust. (Like this one person I know). Some people just dont know what they want. Some people are just flat out horny. Nevertheless, sex exists, and it plays a huge role in our society today. If you're gonna have sex, at least take care of yourself and be protected for god sakes. Ladies: I dont care how pretty you are, if you have STDs, you're the fucken ugliest person in the world to me. So dont expect me to eat you out. YUCK! And Gentlemen: If your girl carry condoms in her purse, rest assure, she be getting her fuck on! Be smart, dont be a retard. There is no such thing as a girl and a guy being bestfriends, either you're fucking or you're not. Lets start being real with each other and cut the bullshit people. Seriously, its getting rediculous. Just think about it..
..I would give anything to take your pain away...
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...Patiently waiting...