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Stephmog

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About Me

I'm stephmog. I'm in my twenties, and haven't achieved anything like as much as I thought I would have done by now. I got stunning A-level results and then proceeded to fritter away several years in meaningless jobs and on relationships that went nowhere. Ah well. At least I'm not alone in that much. I don't have the usual ambitions of fame and/or fortune; all I want is a life full of love and laughter. And possibly to become Professor Ashley, and spend the majority of my working life (and probably my officially retired life too) surrounded by the musty-book-smelling and tranquil yet strangely pressured world of a world-class university. But I'll have to get a few years' studying and experience in first, it seems..
I am somebody 's daughter, somebody 's sister, somebody's mother, somebody 's girlfriend and a good friend to lots of people, which means I have a whole lot of love in my life, which is the most important thing you can have. I'm also a member of the Liberal Democrat party and if one can be a 'fierce moderate', well, then I am one. I believe that working from the bottom up we can make life better for everyone, and to that end I am currently working to put together a tenants' group for my local area to try to bring about some positive changes on this small scale and show people how much power they have if only they try to use it :) CLICK HERE TO Tell me what you really think of me!

My Interests

my daughter, my other half ♥, politics, the Liberal Democrat party, the English language, bad jokes, Audrey Hepburn, hairdye, mad eye makeup, stripey things, cats, Manchester, Pembrokeshire, tea, maple syrup, birdwatching, tarot, jaffa cakes, 80s cartoons, sunrises and sunsets, astronomy, peace and quiet, picnics, friends, acquiring clothes and shoes, music (see below), daydreaming, wild flowers, strokable stuff, being northern, origami, making cakes and crumbles, sweet chilli sauce, beaches, all things gingery, writing, sarcasm
Webcomics are good! Go see:

I'd like to meet:

Myself at various points in my past so I could give me a jolly good shake and ask me what on earth I was thinking!

Music:

Not writing an exhaustive list, but here's a fair amount of the stuff I'll be found listening to most often: Morrissey, Suzanne Vega, Dubstar, Bis, the Wildhearts, the Ramones, Suede, Blur, New Order, the Smiths, the Tears, the Buzzcocks, Rollins Band, Azure Ray, the Dogs D'Amour, Hanoi Rocks, the Cure, Sisters of Mercy, Half Man Half Biscuit, Luxembourg, Rachel Stamp, Bad Religion, NOFX, Rancid, Pitchshifter, Mesh, VAST, the Chameleons, the Cardigans, the Verve, Therapy?, the Damned, Pony Club, Depeche Mode, Justin Sullivan, St Etienne, Judge Dread, Heather Nova, the Horatii, EMF, James, Julie London, Nina Simone, John Cooper Clarke, David Bowie, A-Ha, the Pixies, the Ravonettes, DJ Shadow, Billie Holiday, Tool, Joy Division, the Long Blondes, Foo Fighters, Regina Spektor, Juno Reactor, Future Sound of London, Holly Golightly, Morcheeba, Crass, Descendents, Apoptygma Berzerk, Lush, VNV Nation, Plastic Fantastic, New Model Army, Incubus, Goo Goo Dolls, Skunk Anansie, Freezepop, Jeff Buckley, Barenaked Ladies, Zombina and the Skeletones, Switchfoot and literally anything I can dance to (and I've danced to some really surprising things...) or sing to - I particularly love a good mashup :D (two songs at once! Gemini heaven!)

Movies:

Let's narrow it down to the absolute favourites: So I Married an Axe Murderer, The Truman Show, A Life Less Ordinary, Shooting Fish, Breakfast at Tiffanys, and But I'm a Cheerleader. I like films that are upbeat fluff, mostly, and I *can* enjoy a silly horror movie, but I have a big thing about avoiding simulated violence, disaster and war - I don't think that stuff is good for your soul. Can you believe they have made a film about the World Trade Centre attack just five years after it happened? I just don't get it - you have to be some special kind of sick to derive entertainment from that. And while we're at it... why do so many computer games reward people for simulating genocide and GBH? That's.. it can't be healthy.

Television:

Television is a life sapping waste of time, but I'm not complaining and some of my favourites (past and present) are: Two Pints of Lager and a Packet of Crisps, Balderdash and Piffle, Never Mind the Full Stops, The Day Today, Coronation Street (I know, sad..), Child of our Time, Seven Up, The Fast Show, Powerpuff Girls, The Sky at Night, Frasier, Rex the Runt, Have I Got News For You, Red Dwarf, South Park, and QI

Books:

I can't write a list of every book I've loved here but I'll give you an idea of my taste by selecting some absolute favourite authors and poets: Stephen Fry, Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Danny Wallace, George Orwell, HG Wells, Henry Rollins, Oscar Wilde, PG Wodehouse, Oliver James, WB Yeats, Robert Frost, Roger McGough, William Ernest Henley, Eleanor Brown

Heroes:

Not heroes as such but here are some of the people famous and otherwise, dead and alive for whom I have a lot of respect and affection, who I like to think I am a bit like in some way or other: Kate Ashley, Glyn Ashley, Ed Ashley, Richard James Edmunds, Henry Rollins, Danny Wallace, Audrey Hepburn, Morrissey, John Peel, Bill Hicks, Neil Gaiman, Douglas Adams, Stephen Fry, George Orwell, Shira Sandler, Bill Bailey, Dave Burton, David Lloyd George, William Gladstone

My Blog

Welsh Assembly elections, May 3rd

Those of you in Wales... I know I've spoken to some of you about it and you don't see a point in voting, or you're not sure who you're voting for because you don't know enough. If you want to know wha...
Posted by Stephmog on Fri, 06 Apr 2007 09:07:00 PST

100 questions which won't post as a bulletin.

1. PICK OUT A SCAR YOU HAVE, AND EXPLAIN HOW YOU GOT IT. I have some on the back of my hand from an INCIDENT on the school bus when I was about 12, where someone held me down and someone else dug thei...
Posted by Stephmog on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 12:01:00 PST

I do actually love living down here..

Big skies, see? ...
Posted by Stephmog on Tue, 20 Mar 2007 08:13:00 PST

stephmog's not well

I haven't really the energy to reply to everyone who has commented and messaged and so on here, so I'm going to post this and hope you all see it. I haven't been ignoring anyone, I've been very sick -...
Posted by Stephmog on Fri, 02 Feb 2007 07:02:00 PST

Pop! Bang!

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Posted by Stephmog on Mon, 06 Nov 2006 06:45:00 PST

Profile Survey

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The SurveyName:Stephanie Kate AshleyBirthday:29th MayBirthplace:Ashton-Under-Lyne (near enough Manchester), UKCurrent Location:Pembroke Dock, South-West WalesEye Color:Dark bl...
Posted by Stephmog on Mon, 26 Jun 2006 04:27:00 PST

Look.

http://stephmog.livejournal.com That is where I have been posting for the last four years. I'm not about to stop any time soon. Micebass may be lovely for social networking, but for blogging it's got...
Posted by Stephmog on Mon, 08 May 2006 03:52:00 PST

Stephmog on Success

I did something yesterday before I went out to get beaten up by dentists that never fails to depress me a little. I checked up on where people I was at school with are at, on friendsreunited. Some of ...
Posted by Stephmog on Wed, 12 Apr 2006 07:25:00 PST

Stephmog on Being Single

It's an odd thing, I've never considered myself one of those people who has to be half of a couple to survive, but I've very rarely been single nonetheless. This time is different. My standards for an...
Posted by Stephmog on Wed, 12 Apr 2006 05:58:00 PST