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Becca

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~~~Happiness comes not from avoiding hard situations, but from overcoming them~~~~~~I LOVE LIFE EVEN THOUGH IT TESTS ME SOMETIMES ONE DAY I WILL FIND WHAT IM LOOKING FOR WHICH IS INNER PEACE IM ALMOST THERE~~~

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Get Your Own!~~~MATERIAL THINGS AND MONEY MEAN NOTHING TO ME. I LIVE TO BE HAPPY AND THOSE CANT BUY YOU HAPPINESS LIFE DOES. LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE ITS YOUR LAST AND MAKE THE MOST OF EVERY MINUTE YOU HAVE WITH THE ONES YOU LOVE. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND NEVER BACK DOWN OR CHANGE FOR ANYONE. WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF THEN YOUVE FOUND THE MEANING OF LIFE~~~~~~MY HERO IS MY MOM SHES THE STRONGEST PERSON I KNOW AND MY BEST FRIEND I LOVE HER AND WOULD BE LOST WITHOUT HER~~~~~

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Each moment of the day, I decide the direction of my life

Within our ego mind there are  countless choices, yet from the broader perspective of the divine, there is only one decision to make. Most of my life I have wandered aimlessly because I refused t...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 03:17:00 PST

There are no discrete attacks. I can't love myself while judging another

Blame makes the object of my attck the driving force of my thinking. I focus on fracture and division and thereby split my power into opposing attitudes. It's impossible to blame without also feeling ...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 03:14:00 PST

Anxiety does not improve relationsips

Anxiously trying to please is another way of trying to change someone. It also makes me a victim. I believe that I can't accept their present attitude toward me. And I think that acceptance is the ene...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 03:07:00 PST

Disagreements cannot dimish love

To the ego part of us, love is agreement. "IF you really love me, you would agree with my beliefs, prefer what I prefer, and support my decisions." But true love is seeing each other clearly and accep...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 03:04:00 PST

The longest strides come from standing still

The paradox of progress is that we grow each time we realize that we can only be where we are. I can't fail to grow in happiness, wholeness, generosity, and inner strength when I am quieter mentally, ...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 03:01:00 PST

I wil give peace with my thoughts and cause no harm with my words

We enter the awarness of many people in th course of a day. With each encounter there is a little exchange, and we leave something behind. This trail, and not our individual accomplishments, is our le...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 02:58:00 PST

I alone block my abilitly to see beauty

Preoccupation with another person's ego blocks my vision. To see the heart of another, first I must be honest with myself about exactly what it is I am making more important than love. Second, I must ...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 02:45:00 PST

True solitude includes connection

It makes no sense to say that in order to feel that which joins us all, we must get away  form each other. To know stillness, I need not rearrange my life, merely my values. To know stillness, I ...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 02:41:00 PST

I can't have the life I want but I can be at peace with the life I have.

A daily practice of prayer and meditation has a cumulative effect, but the effect is within the heart. Spiritual practices do not eliminate accident, mistakes, tragedies, and suffering. But a deep tur...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 02:39:00 PST

Love is the mind of God-and it is my mind also

The ego has no home and no companion. It lives in anxiety and misunderstanding. It can't enjoy because it can't stay in the present. It can't love because it cant't see without criticizing. Surely I w...
Posted by Becca on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 02:33:00 PST