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Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD

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Countup Timers at WishAFriend.comI Am a stay at home mama to 4 wonderful kids I would not trade the time i get to spend with them for anything.The kids are growing up so fast it is unreal my oldest is in second grade, then my little girl started kindergarten this year and my babies are 4 and 3 time goes so fast.My youngest is in the process of being evaluated for Autism Spectrum Disorder so far they have said he has Developmental delays gross motor delays sensory processing disorder(tactile defensiveness vestibular defensiveness gravitational insecurities state modulation and oral sensitivities)speech/language disorder low muscle tone and "Early signs of Aspergers" or "Possible PDD-NOS" there are lots of poems on my page and in my blog about how i feel about all my kids..
Photo and video editing at www.OneTrueMedia.com"A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us when adversity takes the place of prosperity when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts."SPD:SPD:Sensory processing refers to our ability to take in information through our senses (touch, movement, smell, taste, vision, and hearing), organize and interpret that information, and make a meaningful response. For most people, this process is automatic. We hear someone talking to us, our brains receive that input and recognize it as a voice talking in a normal tone, and we respond appropriately.Children who have a Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), however, don’t experience such interactions in the same way. SPD affects the way their brains interpret the information that comes in; it also affects how they respond to that information with emotional, motor, and other reactions.For example, some children are over-responsive to sensation and so feel as if they are being constantly bombarded with sensory information. They may try to eliminate or minimize this perceived sensory overload by avoiding being touched or being very particular about clothing. Some children are under-responsive and have an almost insatiable desire for sensory stimulation. They may seek out constant stimulation by taking part in extreme activities, playing music very loudly, or moving constantly. They sometimes don’t notice pain or objects that are too hot or cold, and may need high intensity input in order to become involved in activities. Still others have trouble distinguishing between different types of sensory stimulation.There are several types of Sensory Processing Disorder; each one may result in a number of different behavioral and sensory patterns.Both children and adults can be diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder. As many as 5 percent of all children suffer from SPD.Our special children try to pace all they do, all they feel,to learn to live to become real.First she tries to count to ten.Then, she stops and tries, again.One has learned to lift a spoon.A task that equals men on the moon. Another has learned to say a word.A better sound has not been heard.And it was he that learned to play and work with others throughout the day.With patience and love, he will try to care for himself, and to get by.Slow slowchildren... How they grow!Our special children...What they know!To love. To give.For us to live. - Eleanora N. Gambino, June 26, 1973Blessed are those who stop and listen to my chatter. You may not understand me; but I love when people talk to me, for I long for companionship, too.Blessed are those who take my hand and walk with me when the path is rough, for I easily stumble and grow weary. But thank you, too, for letting me walk alone when the path is smooth, for I must learn independence.Blessed are those who take the time to tell me about special happenings, for unless you make special effort to inform me, I remain ignorant.Blessed are those who wait for me. I may be slow, but I appreciate your patience.Blessed are those who are not ashamed to be seen in public with me, for I did not choose to be born thus. It could have been you as well.Blessed are those who do not pity me, for I don't want pity. All I want is understanding and respect for what I have learned as well.Blessed are those who notice my accomplishments, small as they may seem to you. I must work long and hard to learn many of the things you take for granted.Blessed are those who include me in their games, even though I may not understand the rules, I still like to be included in your activities.Blessed are those who think of me as a person who loves, and hurts, and feels joy and pain just like you do, for in that respect I am normal.If I were granted any wishIf I were granted any wish, I'll tell you what I'd do,...I'd wish my kids were small again,for just a month or two;To hear their squeals of laughter,to watch them while they play,And when they ask me to join in,I'd NOT say "Not Today".To jug again their chubby frame, to kiss away their tears,and cherish childhood innocencethat's washed away the years;Then when it's story time again, I'd stay a little longer;to answer questions, sing the songs,so memories would be stronger,But time is callous, wishes, myths,yet God in all his wisdom,Has given me another chance before I join his kingdom;The face may not be just the same,the name is changed, ' tis true,But yet the smile radiates, reminds me so of you.God must have known that Grandma]would need a chance or two.For many little happy things she hadn't time to do;So God Gave Love to Grandmas to equal that before,That, in effect, embraces those little lives she bore.


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Many Faces Of Autism
..what will these little fingers touch? I wonder about it ,oh so much. will they draw a face, or fly into space? maybe catch a fish, or cook your favorite dish. oh what will these fingers do? will they learn to fix a car? or shape clay into a jar? will they help you climb the tallest mountain? or scoop ice cream at the local soda fountain. I wonder what these fingers will touch and do, these little fingers we've given to you...
Make an on-line slide show at www.OneTrueMedia.comI don't want to kiss you goodnight,so I'll just keep holding you tight!Because I know, you'll change and you'll grow...You'll get bigger with each morning light.I know that the sky is full of stars,and dreams will call your name from afar...I'm anxious to see all you're going to be, but I'm sure gonna miss who you are!But I'll keep you right here, in my heart,and I'll memorize each little part. One day you will grow, and I'll miss you so,But I'll keep you right here, in my heart.Each tooth that you'll gain or lose...Each time you'll need bigger shoes...Each step that you take, will be further away,but to stop you is not what I choose.These fingers that curl around my hand,must do things that no other can.I know your not mine, but Gods own design,and I want you to follow His plan.But I'll keep you right here, in my heart...And I'll memorize each little part!Because one day you'll grow, and I'll miss you so... But I'll keep you right here, in my heart!Life is fleeting, years rush past...and little boys grow up so fast!Let me take time out to be thankful mine are still here with me.And though I'm busy through the day,let me take time out to play...Let me take time out to smile, to sit with him for just a while...Let me take time out for walks,for swings and sports and quiet talks,for sharing giggles, tickles, and hugs,for patching knees and catching bugs...for running races, climbing trees,for helping with his A - B - C's...For hatching plots and planning schemes, for listening to his thoughts and dreams.Let me tuck him in at night,hear his prayers, turn off the light.And when my busy day is done,let me thank God I have my sons.Life is fleeting, years rush past.... and little girls grow up so fast! Let me take time out to be glad that mine are still here with me. And though I'm busy through the day, let me take time out to play... Let me take time out to smile, to linger with her for a while... To invite her under the table for tea and dress up silly as can be. Let me take time out to sing and dance and skip and twirl and swing... To splash in puddles when it rains and make her fancy daisy chains. Let me take time out to hear about the things that she holds dear. Let me tuck her in at night, hear her prayers, turn off the light. And for one more moment let me pray and thank God that we shared this day!Someday when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a parent, I will tell them:I loved you enough... to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.I loved you enough... to insist that you save your money and buy a bike for yourself even though we could afford to buy one for you.I loved you enough... to be silent and let you discover that your new best friend was a creep.I loved you enough... to make you go pay for the bubble gum you had taken and tell the clerk, "I stole this yesterday and want to pay for it."I loved you enough... to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.I loved you enough... to let you see anger, disappointment and tears in my eyes. Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect.I loved you enough... to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.But most of all, I loved you enough... to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it.Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.And someday when your children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell themBefore I was a Mom…I made and ate hot meals.I had unstained clothing.I had quiet conversations on the phone. Before I was a Mom…I slept as late as I wanted.And never worried about how late I got into bed.I brushed my hair and my teeth every day.Before I was a Mom…I cleaned my house each day.I never tripped over toys or forgot words to lullabies.Before I was a Mom…I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.I never thought about immunisations.Before I was Mom…I had never been puked on, Pooped on,Spat on,Chewed on,Peed on,Or pinched by tiny fingers.Before I was a Mom…I had complete control of my mind,My thoughts.My body,And my time.I slept all night. Before I was a Mom…I never held down a screaming child, So that doctors could do tests,Or give shots.I never looked into teary eyes and cried.I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.I never sat up late hours at night Watching a baby sleep.Before I was a Mom…I never held a sleeping baby just because.I didn't want to put it down.I never felt my heart break into a million pieces.When I couldn't stop the hurt.I never knew that I could love someone so much.I never knew I would love being a Mom.Before I was a Mom…I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.I didn't know that something so small Could make me feel so important.Before I was a Mom…I had never risen in the middle of the night .Every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.I had never known the warmth,The joy,The love,The heartache,The wonderment,Or the satisfaction of being a Mom.I didn't know I was capable of feeling so Much before I was a Mom!Mom's See the beauty in dandelion bouquets, and know the importance of declaring each and every drawing A work of art. Mom's Find the magic in blankets that become tents, in backyard Adventures, And stories that fall upon sleepy little ears. Mom's Know the fun of jumping on beds and hanging upside-down, and giggles that just won't quit. Mom's are the greatest- especially ones who have the gift of seeing life through the eyes of a child.Blessed is the mother;Who can hold onto her children while letting them go;Who puts a tranquil home ahead of an immaculate house;Who knows a kind act will be remembered longer than an easy word;Who really believes that prayer changes things;Whose faith in the future sweetens the present;Whose Bible never needs dusting;Whose sense of humor is alive and wellBlessed are the parents who refuse to compare their children with others.Blessed are the Fathers and Mothers who have learned to Laugh, for it is the music of the child's world.Blessed are those parents who accept the awkwardness of their growing children, letting each child grow at their own speed.Blessed are the parents who can say " No " without anger.Blessed are the parents who take their children to church, for it gladdens their hearts.Blessed are the parents who are teachable, for understanding brings love.Blessed are the parents who love their children in the midst of a hostile world, for love is the greatest gift of all.

I'd like to meet:

other people that have autistic children or children with disabilities.or people who help care for children with special needs.or folks i have not seen in a while.

Music:

all kinds

Movies:

ONE OF THE GREATEST GAMES EVER!!

Television:

house law and order svu, criminal minds, close to home, all the csi's, get the picture..lolol..

My Blog

Potty Training Adventures UPDATED DAILY! CHECK BACK

So we have "officaly" started to work on potty training...i am going to update this blog every day with our good days and with our bad....this is day one..Silas seems to really like wearing his undies...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Fri, 20 Jun 2008 05:12:00 PST

Silas Eatign with his Miracle Belt on!!

OK CALL ME CRAZY BUT THAT CANT BE THE SAME BOY...!!!!WITHOUT BELT WITH BELT!!!!!!!! This is amazing to me.....look how still he is being.to see the before and after...with and with o...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Thu, 12 Jun 2008 03:05:00 PST

Noelle’s Evaluation Report

It seems like we are constantly going to evaluations lately..lolol&I don't know if you remember but her school is going to test her for a learning disability, and we got the speech.language report bac...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Wed, 11 Jun 2008 09:34:00 PST

Back From the Neuro-Developmental Doc

We had to go to Noelles Kindergarten concert today at 9:30 then Danville with silas&.They want him back June 20 to have a over 2 hour long eval&.with 3 different docs all at the same time..he said the...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:22:00 PST

Dr. Schaaf on Sensory Integrative Dysfunction

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Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Tue, 03 Jun 2008 12:15:00 PST

Paul Harvey Writes:

Paul Harvey Writes:We tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse. For my grandchildren, I'd like better.I'd really like for you to know about hand me down clothes and hom...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 01:15:00 PST

Let Love In

Another great song with great lyrics...this is Let Love in by the Goo Goo Dolls.. ..You wait, wanting this worldTo let you inAnd you stand thereA frozen light(i think maybe this is ...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:50:00 PST

I am Strong When I Am On Your Shoulders

I took all the pictures i have of Silas and horses and made a slide show....Horses are his passion, he comes to life when he sees one or is on one.....it really is magical to watch a little boy who wo...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Thu, 29 May 2008 02:20:00 PST

Let’s Talk

I really LOVE lyrics to songs.....and this song means something to me today....allot of days....I added it to his profile......Oh brother I can't, I can't get throughI've been trying hard to reach you...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Thu, 29 May 2008 05:50:00 PST

Silas seeing his new painted horse corner for the first time!!!!

----------------- Bulletin Message -----------------From: the out of sync childDate: May 23, 2008 4:23 PMi am so close to having it all painted, i will post pictures after we have the border up!..i ha...
Posted by Dana~proud mommy of 4~one with SPD on Sat, 24 May 2008 05:17:00 PST