neither straight nor acting (like me!).To start with some thoughts on relationships, friendships, and other human interactions. People really are important, things really aren’t. All I ask of any relationship/friendship are three simple things: 1.) Let’s always be honest with each other, no matter what. 2.) Let’s always remain friends, no matter what. And; 3.) Let’s always have fun, no matter what. If you are honest, straightforward and exercise good will in your dealings with me, as I will be with you, and we get on, it follows that we will always be friends. In my world friends have fun together. Why do they have fun? Because they are honest with each other. Ah, the circle of life.Deeper relationships. The farther in my journey I get, the more I realize that there are many ways to love someone in this world. I believe that those relationships can take many forms. The rules of attraction (at least in my case) are defined uniquely in each of those relationships. One learns from each, but you are starting from scratch ultimately. And that’s a good thing. The learning is the best part. One thing: Be careful with people’s hearts. This means your own as well. The whole golden thing rule serves people really well if we all follow it.When asked, I have always said my “type†is good-looking. That “type†can manifest physically in many ways but ultimately mutual attraction exists on many levels. Forging an intimate connection, a near and dear bond, happen to people for reasons and considerations too incalculable to contemplate. But if we must list, these are probably important considerations for me:Sexy, smart and engaging go a long way. I would think that shared values and a large, quirky sense of humor have a place somewhere in there as well. Guys who know how to take care of themselves (mentally, physically, emotionally, etc.), but, are not afraid of being taken care of once and a while. Someone who only wants the best for me and vice versa. A passionate heart. Possesses true inner beauty. When you are around all things just keep getting better.So then what? What is the connection? Love? Where does it begin? Is it extreme friendship? Is it a feeling of passion about someone? Is it lust? Is it physical desire? Is it some indescribable sensation that can almost threaten to overwhelm at times? Is it a need to not be alone? Is it a healthy sharing of souls? How much sharing can/should take place for the connection to be complete? Is it being “high†on someone? Is it someone who "shakes your soda"? As the song says “if it was truly love, how would you feel? how would you know?†Man, if I knew that I guess I wouldn’t be on the internet, would I? I don’t think it’s about looking for the answers, it’s about living the questions.