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DEBORAH

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About Me


I am a child at heart and will be until the day I die. I work and go to college, but I still make time for fun. I enjoy hanging out with my friends and having a good time. I am far from shy and if I want something I will say so.
Loved by many, hated by few, but respected by all. I am a single bbw woman who is also a mother of three grown boys. I'm Laid back, down to earth, a kid at heart and someone who loves to laugh. I love to make new friends and acquaintances. I like people who are not afraid to be themselves. People who can make me smile and laugh are the best...
I enjoy many things like going to the beach for walks and people watching, bbq's, dancing, all kinds of music, big cats (i.e. lions, tigers etc.), candles, a quiet dinner for two or a group date, long drives to nowhere, watching movies either at home or at the theatre
Whatever it is I am doing, you can bet I will make the most of it! I have no expectations on myspace except to build .. friendships and if it matures from there then so be it. If you think I'm someone you would like to get to know better, then great! If not, thanks for visiting my page and have a great day!
We can learn much from wise words, little from wisecracks, and less from wise guys
The greatest happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves
I love you Not only for what you are, But for what I am When I am with you
Do you love me because I'm beautiful, or am I am beautiful because you love me?

My Interests



The heart has reasons that reason does not understand

Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:

You have high extroversion.
You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends.
You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation.
Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!"

Conscientiousness:

You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.

Agreeableness:

You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.

Neuroticism:

You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.

Openness to experience:

Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all

Your Seduction Style: The Natural
You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen.
Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people.
You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find!
People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast. What Is Your Seduction Style?

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.

Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:

Your propensity for monogamy is high.
You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person.
And in return, you expect the same from who you love.
Any sign of straying, and you'll end things.

Experience Level:

Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!

Dominance:

Your dominance is low.
This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced.
You know a relationship is not about getting your way.
And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom.

Cynicism:

Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.

Independence:

Your independence is medium.
In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time."
You usually find it easy to be part of a couple.
But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered. The Five Variable Love Test

You Are Lemon Meringue Pie
You're the perfect combo of sassy and sweet
Those who like you have well refined tastes What Kind of Pie Are You?

Be true to your work, your word, and your friends.

You're an Expert Kisser
You're a kissing pro, but it's all about quality and not quantity
You've perfected your kissing technique and can knock anyone's socks off
And you're adaptable, giving each partner what they crave
When it comes down to it, your kisses are truly unforgettable What Kind of Kisser Are You?

I'd like to meet:



I would love to meet people that have great positive energy (laugh, agree to disagree and hang out) and if it extends and builds from there, so be it. I would love to meet some genuine people. I dont like fake men or women and I really dislike liars. If you have to lie to be you, then you dont need to be around me. So just be real with me and I will do the same

Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile

MyGen Profile Generator

Music:



I have a diverse love of music. I listen to almost everything. If I had to pick favorites it would have to be Hip Hop, R&B and Oldies

Movies:



I absolutely love movies including Action, Comedy and horror...who wants to take me?

Television:



CSI, Lost, Desperate Housewives, Grey's Anatomy, Boston Legal, House, Girlfriends, and Charmed just to name a few...lol

Books:



I love to read period...fictional or nonfictional it doesn't matter, as long as it holds my interest! *winks*

Heroes:



My father in heaven, my children and my friends who are in my daily life. Thanks for loving me!!!

My Blog

HAPPY HUMP DAY TO ALL...

  Wow, this week is going so fast. I have alot going on with school at the moment. There are lots of assignments due, as  there is only approximately two weeks left. This Sunday I will be...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Wed, 02 May 2007 01:18:00 PST

JUST A LIL BIT OF THIS AND THAT...

 Yay....I finally got it....   This is so true...I love this....  Daily Harvest for 4/30/2007:If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything.  ~Mark Twain I ...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Tue, 01 May 2007 04:19:00 PST

HAVE A SUPER SATURDAY!

  Hi, not much new to report today. Just wanted to wish you guys a great weekend and I am leaving some random things for you guys to read and have fun with...   What kids think in today'...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Sat, 28 Apr 2007 07:26:00 PST

FRIDAY ONCE AGAIN WHEW HOO!

  Wishing you a wonderful weekend and remember to count your blessings my friends...enjoy! Beyond yourself How far beyond yourself are you willing to think and act? Have you ever done anything...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 02:54:00 PST

HAPPY THURSDAY...

  This has been a interesting day since I got out of bed this morning! Nothing bad, nothing major...just seems like it has been one thing after another.   First, I am positive I set the a...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 03:18:00 PST

DEDICATED TO HARMONIE INARA

ON APRIL 22ND...THAT'S RIGHT, MY GRAND-DAUGHTER ARRIVED! WHEW HOO!!! FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO SHOW YOU MS. HARMONIE'S ROOM THAT HER PARENTS PUT TOGETHER... THE PROUD PARENTS... HELLOOOOO, ...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Wed, 25 Apr 2007 07:40:00 PST

IT'S ONLY TUESDAY? LOL

    Happy Tuesday everyone! My brother and ex went up to SC to go see the kids and their new arrival (my grandbaby lol) Oh yeah, and for those who have been asking there will be pics soon e...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Tue, 24 Apr 2007 09:05:00 PST

MONDAY MONDAY MONDAY...

The joy of accomplishment As you choose the way you will live this day, remember this. Accomplishment is truly a joy that's worth experiencing over and over again. The joy of accomplishment is in...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 02:42:00 PST

SUNDAY SO SOON???

Just a quick hello!  I hope you all are enjoying your weekend. My son and his wife had their beautiful baby girl today. 7 lbs and 18 inches long. Both mom and baby are healthy and my son surviv...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 04:13:00 PST

THE WEEKEND IS FINALLY HERE...

Hello my friends! Well, I was off to LAX Airport this morning at 4:30 am to drop off a friend. Good lawd I hate that drive and it was raining to top it off! God sure does have a sense of humor, don't...
Posted by SWEET-N-SASSY on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 01:01:00 PST