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SJ Duchess *No Human Being is Illegal*

About Me


Tom Russell singing his song, "Who's Gonna Build Your Wall"
photography by David Burckhalter.
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This song is as close to About Me as there is. Hugs and eternal gratitude to my mother for the gift of it.
And in ten-fold measure to Rosalie Sorrels, and to (RIP) Utah Philips, for making the world so much more worthwhile to live in. Lady Bless!
Normally I'm pretty mellow and quite gentle. I'm 53 and it too is my favorite age to be. I've lived a lot of places, from Prague to Montana and a whole lot of spots in between. I've taken my time-outs in California though. I was born in Texas and Prague is where I grew up. I've lived in cities and in the country, flatlands and mountains. For a while I lived in a tipi. I am really glad that when I had the chance to, I took a summer-long road trip living out of a tent.
I've hardly ever had a job, because people only want to hire me for things I've never done before. I never got hired for something I was actually qualified for. Go figure.
So I danced, and was a secretary, and a chiropractic technician, and a technical writer and a survey technician and I taught English conversation at a hospitality vocational school in the CzechRepublic. Oh and I sold flowers in Tucson, Arizona.
All the rest of the time I worked on my own. I wrote, edited, translated, interpreted, advised, analyzed, consulted, computerized, designed and networked, and for a while read Tarot cards on a river boat.
Eventually I found my bliss researching things for women-owned small businesses, progressive non-profits and interesting consultants. I've just been offered space as a research consultant on a green career website, I'm pretty jazzed about that.
I've been a voracious reader ever since a babysitter gave me the idea when I was five. Don't know who she was, but hope she's had blessings showered upon her ever since. I don't like to read gory stuff. I seem to have lost my taste for Regency Romance. Just about anything else works.
I came to music very late in life and am making up for lost time. Lately, since I found how to find it, it's even been taking over my reading time.
When I was born, my mother, who had not been exposed to newborns before, thought I was kind of funny looking and looked like the pictures of the Duchess out of Alice in Wonderland. The name stuck.
I like intelligent, articulate and creative people. I grew up in an environment where they were always around. I love to laugh, even at very stupid jokes. As long as they're not mean. Mean people suck.
I admire subtlety but don't have a talent for creating or discerning it. And I have a habit of sticking my foot in my mouth. I'm trying to make peace with that.
I love to walk and on most days manage 3-5 miles. When I have my pink Hydra mp3 player with me I run out of time before I run out of desire to walk.
I gave away my car in 1995 and I don't have a TV. People who turn me on to or teach me something about music have a special place in my heart forever.
My favorite holiday is Imbolc. Maybe because it's close to my birthday. Beltane runs a very close second.
And I just love WD-40. Really!
...all the voices, all the goals, all the yearnings, all the sorrows, all the pleasures, all the good and evil, all of them together was the world. All of them together was the stream of events, the music of life...
      -- Siddhartha, Herman Hesse
Sometimes it happens
that music touches
exactly that spot
in one's soul
that needs
healing.
Or waking up.
Or even just acknowledging.
And when it does,
you might as well
just let the tears flow.
Or the feet dance.
And you know
it's really good
when you find
they're both going
at the same time.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

We don't necessarily have to be like-minded people, it's our differences that are the most enriching. I guess people who are not hateful or rude or mean or bigoted or violent or controlling or deceitful or crude or unkind. And who are sensitive to other people's sensibilities, especially when they're different from our own. A friend who loves or plays the music I will love is an unexpected gift, so please share. And I love to be made to laugh.

I have an almost zero tolerance for negativity. A lot of people use it to look like cynicism, to cover up insecurity, like they're too smart or too cool to feel good about things or be positively plugged into their own life or to keep on trying. My response: "Get over yourself."

Be passionate about your life. If I can't find that flame in you, you'll find I have a very short attention span.

And, if I am going to ask to add you as my friend, whenever your settings allow it, I will send you a note of introduction first - it seems such a nice thing to do. If you would like to be friends with me and don't write me first, I may take some time to get to know you before saying yes - your page, your people, and such. It's a part of valuing my friends.

My Blog

Music Video: Dr. Hook, Carry Me Carrie

I have always considered this to be, hands down, the most heartfull and heartbreaking song Dr. Hook ever recorded. I have never ever heard it done like this. This one's for you, from the heart. http:/...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Dec 2008 17:40:00 GMT

Pollyanna

Wikipedia says:["Pollyanna" is] contrary to the spirit of the book -- a derogatory term for a naïve optimist who always expects people to act decently, despite strong evidence to the contrary.Contrary...
Posted by on Thu, 11 Dec 2008 14:59:00 GMT

Music Video: Lacy J. Dalton, Listen to the Wind

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3I3tcWf-g8 I don't know of anywhere I wouldn't follow her :)
Posted by on Thu, 04 Dec 2008 22:21:00 GMT

Music Video: Playing For Change: Song Around the World

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us-TVg40ExM A Thousand Thanks to Resonator Ghost, this is so very perfect.
Posted by on Sun, 30 Nov 2008 17:16:00 GMT

Music Video: Dr. Hook, A Little Bit More

Big Thank You to Diana, this one's for you. Dr. Hook & the Medicine ShowA Little Bit MoreOne of my all time favorite Dr. Hook songs.~ giggle ~ One of the three dozen or so that are my all tim...
Posted by on Mon, 24 Nov 2008 11:47:00 GMT

Music Video: Dr. Hook, Storms Never Last

Dr. Hook & The Medicine ShowStorms Never LastDr. Hook was the other half of my sanity pill when I was traveling around the world and things didn't always go my way.And when you have way ...
Posted by on Tue, 18 Nov 2008 23:52:00 GMT

Music: The Insomniacs - 2008 BMA Nominee - slightly used review

Ten days ago I had the immense pleasure of seeing The Insomniacs again. For one reason and another I wasn't able to write the review I had hoped to. Tonight I was rummaging around old email folders, a...
Posted by on Mon, 03 Nov 2008 19:51:00 GMT

Twitter Vote Report

Thought this might be a good thing to get out there. I went to the twittervotereport.com website, and I think everybody should check it outArticle location:http://www.fastcompany.com/blog/all...
Posted by on Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:21:00 GMT

Fun numbers to look at

Wow, MySpace says that the blog has had 12,001 views, that's pretty cool. Cheers to Ben, my very first blog subscriber. (Well I had a subscriber, I had to write something!) Gosh, that was 1 year ago y...
Posted by on Sun, 02 Nov 2008 22:26:00 GMT

Hope: OMG yes, Hope!

It's been much too long since I wrote about Hope. Please forgive me dearhearts, I lost my place for a bit wandering around the world all summer, misplacing what's important, forgetting my heart places...
Posted by on Sun, 02 Nov 2008 21:18:00 GMT