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Anika (Onica) ;-)

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

Hmmm...A little about me. Well I love life and I love the world I live in. I give EVERYBODY the benefit of the doubt until you prove to me that my trust in you is not deserved then I say good bye. Not in a crappy way but my time and my heart are to precious and if you can not give me honesty. I got nothing for you. I tell my son all the time it is always better to tell the truth. The truth may hurt for a minute but I can respect that.And just so you know if you are looking for someone on here to have sex with I am NOT the one. Sex is not just sex to me. It something I share when in a monogamist relationship. Not that I have never made a mistake but your mistakes do not define who you are they make you stronger if you allow them to. And for the record if you are free in that area I am not your judge nor do I think I am better. This is a choice that I have made for MY life...I have a dreams and visions of what my future looks like. I see me giving my heart and soul to someone completely. And in turn they are able to give me theirs with utmost trust. I want to be with someone who can see my mistakes and my flaws and love me anyway. I am sensitive to a fault...Love that part of me because it makes me compassionate towards others but I also hate it because sometimes I think it sets me up for hurt. Would I change that about me however...NO!! Without being weird I love who I am...Flaws and all...LOLI had a friend share a story with me recently that really made me think. It is called The short happy life of Francis Macomber. At first it did not make sense to me but as I thought about it I got it. Life my friend is to short to let someone put you down or to discourage you from your dreams. Find your passion and run with it and never give up.Jessica Simpson - I Belong To Me
I got my Myspace layout from pYzam .

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

God, new friends, and someone with the same passion and desire to live life to the fullest! The person I can be completely real with...Who I can let my hair down with and just be....well...Me...;-)

My Blog

Never been more true...

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful you...
Posted by on Tue, 12 May 2009 17:57:00 GMT

NOTHING but the Blood......

One night in a church service a young woman felt the tug of God at herheart. She responded to God's call and accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior. The young woman had a very rough past, involving al...
Posted by on Tue, 03 Mar 2009 18:00:00 GMT

God Said......

If you never felt pain, Then how would you know that I'm a Healer? If you never went through difficulties, How would you know that I'm a Deliverer? If you never had...
Posted by on Sat, 28 Feb 2009 19:23:00 GMT

Do you see snakes....Hmmm

The disciple asked his spiritual teacher, "What prevents me from being happy?""Fear," came the reply."What is the cause of my fear?""False beliefs," came the answer."What...
Posted by on Tue, 17 Feb 2009 11:13:00 GMT

An Incompatible Love......

Got a question for you today.Have you ever found yourself inlove with someone, but all the while, wondering whether or not "they'rejust not that into you?  Well, (as hard as it is for some toacknowled...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Feb 2009 11:50:00 GMT

Walk by faith....NO matter what it looks like....

Walking by faith is one of the shortest and yet most powerful sentencesa believer can say and trust in. As a woman who has gone through many trials and tribulations (some of which I have no idea how I...
Posted by on Wed, 28 Jan 2009 12:03:00 GMT

All things new.....

One of the greatest needs in our lives is the need for restoration. To restore means, "to bring something back into existence or effect again;to bring back to a former or original condition; to put ...
Posted by on Fri, 16 Jan 2009 06:50:00 GMT

STEP AWAY FROM THE BLENDER!!!!

I'm pretty confident that what I am about to share with you is going to make you laugh. But, I pray it will also make you think as well. So please be prepared to do both. On yesterday, I received an e...
Posted by on Thu, 08 Jan 2009 23:45:00 GMT

Time to push Reset.....

Here's what I know.Even though we're just a few days in to 2009, many of you reading this have already started to lose hope that this year will mean anything different or better for you than any other...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:44:00 GMT

Attitude adjustment. time.....Like now...

To many people are keen on pointing their finger at the half empty glass instead of seeing the positive side of life.Many people spend their days complaining about things they don't have and things th...
Posted by on Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:20:00 GMT