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Calla Lily

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About Me

As for me... 27, city girl/ beach bum, massage therapist/ writer, sharp straight shooter, try to stay as low key and chill as I can and keep on the straight & narrow, I live for God & he lives in me - enough said, kinda carzy (in a good way LOL), kinda sane always a woman, & forever a lady.
LADY J's COUNTDOWN
10 ~ SURVIVNG SIBLINGS I HAVE LEFT
9 ~ SUNDAY MORNING SERVICE I END UP GOING TO
8 ~ THEATER PLAYS I'VE SEEN
7 ~ TIME I GET UP IN THE MORNING
6 ~ TIMES A WEEK I CHECK MY E-MAIL
5 ~ BANK ACCOUNTS I HAVE
4 ~ DAYS A WEEK I WORK
3 ~ PEOPLE I REALLY TRUST
2 ~ DEGREES I HAVE
1 ~ TIMES I'VE BEEN IN LOVE
THE BASICS
BRAVERY - being bold enough to do me without worrying about you
HONESTY - with myself, admitting the things I know to be true, even when it hurts
INTEGRITY - following my ethics always, they're not up for negotiation
FAMILY - family is as family does, remembering to tell my family I love you and thank you
FAITH - putting God first & foremost, everything else will fall into place
LOVE - the greatest gift to receive is the love I've given others; if I tell you I love you it's beacuse I do
LAUGHTER - healing for the soul, don't take it so serious; we're here but for a while
ART - there's beauty in all things, seek and ye shall find
SELF APPRECIATION - I am fearfully and wonderfully made with purpose and intent; molded by the hands of the Creator I am the Phenomenal Woman.
LIFE - live each day as my last, take nothing for granted
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I am a Beautiful Black Woman,
Living in a Society that wishes to mold me,
BUT my SELF-RESPECT won..t allow anyone but MYSELF to define me,
I don..t have to be like any other lady, (and I AM NOT)
Insubstantial judgements rarely do offend me,
I AM WHO I AM!!
I choose freely who I wish to be,
It is not hard to fathom
How I define me,
I don..t speak in Ebonics,
Pretending to be hooked on phonics,
Just to get in where I fit in,
With shallow cliques and deceitful friends,
GOD made me beautifully articulate, you see...
AND I DEFINE ME!!
I don..t need a MAN standing by my side,
to attain a sense of SELF-PRIDE,
A strong man..s LOVE is a commodity to be known,
BUT before a man undermines my strengths,
I would gladly stand ALONE!
Do I possess WEAKNESSES,
YES, that..s for sure,
BUT whatmakes me the QUEEN I am,
Is my ability to ENDURE..you see,
I DEFINE ME!!
Though its not always done easily,
Because the perils of our weak society,
Often catch us in an unjust propriety,
They say AN EDUCATED BLACK WOMAN
IS SOMETHING TO BE FEARED,
BUT as she chooses her path and DEFINES WHO SHE IS,..She is something to be revered,
I was not presented with a silver spoon
At the time of my birth,
BUT I didn..t wait around for the world,
TO DETERMINE MY INTRINSIC WORTH!!
I choose to stand out,
Never waiting for a hand-out,
I choose never to wait on destiny,
When I am perfectly capable of DEFINING ME!
You see, I DEFINE ME!!
Please take off your blinders and see,
This world won..t give credit where its due,
Until you stand on your own and decide,
TO DEFINE YOU!!.
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My Interests


RESPECT THE NOW!!!!!
All that simply means is embrace the space you're in for the time that you're in it. Whatever it is, wherever it is; breathe life into it and make it positive, make it beautiful.
"Wherever you stand be the soul of that place."~Rumi

MY LOVES
God
Family
My Love
English
My Business
Football
Art
Traveling
Yoga

I'd like to meet:

Abstract minds, beautiful spirits, and dynamic personalities

Music:



a little bit of everything -
JAZZ: Sweetback, Najee, Pieces of a Dream, Gerald Albright
NEO-SOUL: Goapele, Conya Doss, Amel Larrieux, Raheem Devaughn, Dwele
R&B: Ne-Yo, Mary J, Whitney Houston, Beyonce, R. Kelly, Jonte Austin, J. Holiday, Monica
RAP: T.I., Ludacris, Kanye West, Jay Z, Common, Lupe Fiasco
COUNTRY: Dixie Chicks, Martina McBride, Sugarland, Little Big Town, Rascal Flatts, Carrie Underwood
POP: Justin Timberlake, JoJo, Maroon 5, Kelly Clarkson, Christina Aguilera
ROCK: Bon Jovi, Alanis Morrisette, Daughtry, Evanescence
GOSPEL/CONTEMPORARY: Yolanda Adams, Israel & New Breed, Juanita Bynum, Shekinah Glory, Avalon, Point of Grace, Vicki Yohe, Mercy Me, Donald Lawrence, CeCe Winans, Crystal Lewis, Kirk Franklin, Dewayne Woods, but my absolute favorite, my home church FREEDOM WORSHIP!!!

Movies:


Transformers, Die Hard With a Vengence, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Star Wars epic, any comic book movie, The 300, Alexander, Troy, Spike Lee joints, Coming to America, Golden Child, Casablanca, Gone With the Wind, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Four Brothers, Stompin at the Savoy, Lackawaana Blues, Women of Brewster Place, The Color Purple, The Break Up, Wedding Crashers, Meet the Parents, Be Cool, Why Did I Get Married?

Television:


CSI: Miami, Grey's Anatomy, Law & Order: SVU, Martin(still watch the reruns), 24, Nip/Tuck, Dirt, Desperate Housewives, American Idol, House, Dave Chapelle show, Maury DNA results (hilarious), The Practice, Samantha Who?, Monk, Pushing Up Daisies, October Road, Cashmere Mafia

Books:

The Prayer of Jabez

Heroes:


MY FAMILY: The Cole's, knock us down we get back up swinging; you damn right we crazy!!!
The Spinner's, hiding me under the wing when I couldn't remember how love felt and home looked.
The Taylor's, who knew Black people could live like that LOL!! For showing me life, and love, from the other side of the tracks.

My daddy; the most incredible man I'll ever have the honor of knowing. R.I.P.

A Shining Example

I honor the man,
Who gives the best hugs,
I honor the man,
Who invented tough love,
I honor the man,
Who raised me right,
I honor the man,
Who toiled and sacrificed,
I honor this man,
A shining example of a man

My mini me, who brings out the very best in me always, even when I forget it's there; and whose smile motivates me in ways I never knew.

My Blog

Native American Code of Ethics (originally posted by my sister Sunshine)

Native AmericanCode of Ethics: Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often. The Great Spirit will listen, if you only speak. Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path. Ignorance, ...
Posted by Calla Lily on Sat, 05 Jan 2008 07:57:00 PST

Let it go, Ladies !!!

  This is a repost from a poetic sister who goes under the name "faithfulnreal". Everything she says is so true. Why do we do these things to ourselves? I don't know about you, but I am done with...
Posted by Calla Lily on Mon, 23 Jul 2007 05:58:00 PST

creative writing: fiction writing tips

Creative Writing: Fiction Writing Tips Fiction Writers Fiction writers learn to write by writing. Although writing is an art, there are skills, tools, and techniques that can be learned in order to d...
Posted by Calla Lily on Thu, 07 Jun 2007 07:30:00 PST

For My Fellow Aspiring Writers: Self-Publishing

This is another repost of  bestselling author Karen E Quinones Miller. It's a great resource if you are considering self-publishing. Best of luck, Be Blessed SELF-PUBLISHING IN A NUT SHELL..:name...
Posted by Calla Lily on Sun, 29 Apr 2007 02:01:00 PST

For My Fellow Aspiring Writers: Typesetting

This is actually a repost of bestselling author Karen E Quinones Miller's blog. Since her account will be delted at the end of the month I decided to put it on my page so the information can still be ...
Posted by Calla Lily on Sun, 29 Apr 2007 01:23:00 PST

Voices

Hello, I hope this finds you  doing well and in the best of health. I am hoping to get a little help from the myspace community in setting a foundation for a new publication for the younger siste...
Posted by Calla Lily on Tue, 17 Apr 2007 01:42:00 PST

FREEDOM!!!!!!!

Now this is time for free your mind and your soulYo our official story has never been toldLadies you got to demand what you wantAnd what we want is respect, rightYo listen up on the track hereCuz you'...
Posted by Calla Lily on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 08:17:00 PST

Proverbs 31 Woman

The Proverbs 31 Woman When we examine this ancient biblical ideal of womanhood, we do not find the stereotyped housewife occupied with dirty dishes and laundry, her daily life dictated by the demands ...
Posted by Calla Lily on Fri, 06 Apr 2007 11:11:00 PST

Langston Hughes poems

Quiet Girl I would liken youTo a night without starsWere it not for your eyes.I would liken youTo a sleep without dreamsWere it not for your songs. The Negro Speaks of Rivers (to W. E. B. B. DuBois) I...
Posted by Calla Lily on Thu, 22 Mar 2007 08:18:00 PST

Ego Tripping - Nikki Giovanni

Ego Tripping (there may be a reason why) I was born in the congoI walked to the fertile crescent and built    the sphinxI designed a pyramid so tough that a star   &...
Posted by Calla Lily on Thu, 22 Mar 2007 08:12:00 PST