Layout made by happilymarriedangelI LOVE CLOTHES, SHOES(JORDANS), TALKIN ON THE PHONE SPENDING TIME WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND THE GROUP, WE JUST GO OUT AND HAVE FUN NO MATTER WHAT WE DO
here are some words of wisdom... Most black men find it easier to settle for a hood rat because... he doesn`t have to work to improve himself, he already feels like he`s better than she is, so she should be grateful to have him.He doesn`t have to compromise his position she will simply do whatever he wants or be replaced Hood rats are too easy to come by. He doesn`t have to worry about his sexual satisfaction she knows exactly how to please him, she has had plenty of past instructors.He doesn`t have to be concerned with whether his friends and family will like her, he just won`t take her around, or whether his family will be nice to her because they will know that she`s just temporary.When he comes in contact with a real woman, he panics...he worries that she is too nice "too good to be true" she has to be hiding something.He worries that she has too much, what does she need him for? She did all of this by herself.He worries that he will have to change his lifestyle. Quality time will replace booty calls and hangin` with the fellas will become a scheduled event. He worries that he has to prove himself worthy of her,gotta get himself togetherfirst and then come correct. Gotta become the best first because that`s what she expects While the hood rats are out kickin` it, foot loose and fancy free. Real women are sitting at home wondering when their next date will be. While the hood rats are at the grocery store with their borrowed EBT card. Real women are in college, into their careers, or on their jobs working hard. While the hood rats are figuring out how many "rat catchers" they can play all at the same time. Real women are hoping for just one man who is not trying to play with her mind. I wish I could get black men to know. You can`t make a housewife out of a ho`. You can`t turn fiction into fact. A hood rat will always be just that. I truly wish I could help black men to realize.That having a real woman is worth the compromise. A good woman is an achievement; a treasure untold. An asset to your efforts; gratification for your soul. Don`t waste all of your time kickin` it with hood rats, because someday all the real women will be gone. And you`ll wake up one day faced with two options: Life with a rat or life all alone.
HIP HOP, R&B, RAP
LOVE AND BASKETBALL AND ANY MOVIE REALLY.
THE PARKERS, GIRLFRIENDS AND EVERYTHING THATS ON BET
YEAH I DO READ...MY FAVORITE BOOK IS THE COLDEST WINTER EVER BY SISTAH SOULJAH.
I HAVE PEOPLE I LOOK UP TO MOST OF THEM ARE MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY CAUSE WE ALL HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LONG STUGGLE. ME AND MY MOM DIDNT HAVE THE BEST RELATIONSHIP BUT BEING IN FLORIDA AND VA HAS MADE ME REALIZE A FEW THINGS AND IT HASN'T BEEN THAT LONG I NEED TO LET GO OF THAT HURT AND FORGIVE HER EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES BUT ATLEAST SHE IS TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS AND MAINTAIN HERSELF WHICH IS ALOT MORE THAN MOST MOTHERS CAN SAY THEY DO.THE PERSON THAT I ADMIRE AND HAVE ALOT OF RESPECT FOR THAT IS MY AGE IS MY BEST FRIEND LATECE SHE BELIEVES IN HERSELF AND RELATIONSHIP AND I THINK SHE HANDLES THINGS EVEN THE BAD VERY WELL SHE IS VERY FORGIVING DEPENDING ON WHO THE PERSON IS AND THE CIRCUMSTANCES SHE IS JUST A GREAT PERSON TO KNOW AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST MY BOYFRIEND JAMES I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND KNOW WE WILL BE TOGETHER ALWAYS WE ARE TO STRONG NOT TO BE