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John aka Smoked

I am here for Dating and Friends

About Me


I'm 45 yrs old Very Open-Minded & Non-Judgemental - Love Making New Friends and keeping the Ones I have already! I'm willing to try almost anything meeting new & exciting people along the way for NSA Fun and Friendship! & generally enjoying what life has to offer! Just try not to judge me on 1st impressions and try not to compare me to others I'M ME and this guy is NOT for changing lol.
Confession Time: I have a major Weakness Just like a lot of women are sometimes obsessive with Shopping, buying Shoes, Hand Bags etc.. Well I have an obsession too ;)
{KEEP AN OPEN MIND And No Lectures for what You Read Next lol}
Well I Actually like it when a Woman Smokes and before we go any further I'm not going to get embroiled in the rights and wrongs of smoking, neither will I be joining the mass hysteria to ban it everywhere, nor will I promote it!..It’s a Personal choice. I've always found watching most Women Smoking very Sensual & Seductive and extremely visual and stimulating! There’s something real sexy and alluring seeing a woman smoke and even more so seeing smoke pour from her lips in a perfect exhale
Sigmund Freud once said "Watching a woman Smoke is both Sensual & Erotic" There are 1000's if not Millions like Me who have this Fetish/Desire. Don't believe me? Then Type 'Smoking Fetish' into Google & prepare for a shock! lol
But what really nails me to the wall and makes me buckle at the knee's is when a Woman purposefully & intently Exhales Her Smoke in my face! whether it’s in a strong powerful exhale, or a slow sensual one.
I love the many intense feelings and sensations the act of having smoke blown in my face causes and they're way too many to mention here. But it’s Pure Sensory Overload as the smoke is exhaled and concentrated around my nose and mouth sending me crazyyy and love the feeling/sensations when sharing a smokey kiss mmm very sensual

so I'm literally breathing in her essence! It's a massive Turn on because when a woman inhales and then exhale's the smell is nothing like that coming from the Cigarette, it completely changes becoming very intoxicating affecting ALL the Senses.
I love Smokey Kissing too as its very erotic and sensual and with the right person very intimate
Oh & Ladies should you be Smoking around me in Real life and suddenly get the overwhelming urge to exhale in my Face you Don't have to leave the room or be afraid that if you tease its immediately going to have Sexual connotations! *It Doesn't Work like that unless that is the Intent?
*Read My Blog 'The Fetish'and please go to SEDUCTIVELY SMOKING's page to find out just how much this Fetish is revealing itself across the world, don't just take my word for it if your a woman and love to Smoke you can smile even more knowing there are people like me who love that you do, and you'll never hear a Smoke Fetisher tell you to smoke elsewhere for sure ;)
People may laugh because I am different, I laugh because Most are all the same! So are YOU the Same?
None of the above makes me a bad person its just something I really love so if you Smoke take it as a compliment if your sat next to me that I would love you to exhale your smoke in my face and not ask you to go elsewhere.
So if nothing you've read so far compels you to run a mile then please feel free to say 'Hello' I don't bite *Smiles* Besides If I can accept people for who they are then I hope you can do the same. The saying goes "Never be ashamed of what it is that makes you..YOU." Well I'm not ashamed of who I am, so prefer not to change! None of My Friends and Special people in my life want me to change either!
Do More than ...
Do more than exist ... live.
Do more than touch ... feel.
Do more than look ... observe.
Do more than read ... absorb.
Do more than hear ... listen.
Do more than listen ... understand.
Do more than think ... reflect.
Do more than just talk ... say something.
John H. Rhoades

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Hmmmm well I guess I've thrown caution to the wind, and currently exploring the Wilder side of life before its too late and I'm pushing up the Daisies lol,...So as already mentioned I'm looking For NSA Fun and Friendship {Coz Life without Fun would be really boring wouldn't it?}
However I AM NOT looking for a RELATIONSHIP as I have one of those already and cannot be exclusive to any 1 person as being in an open relationship means exactly that 'OPEN'...And hey if you do smoke (again not a requirement)
but if you do

I'd love nothing more than to Further Explore the Fetish with you and show you a side of Smoking that's little talked about


I love meeting people and always welcome New Friends {So I'm just LIVING FOR THE MOMENT and TAKING EVERYDAY AS IT COMES}
I'm blessed knowing some Very Very Special people in my life {You know who you are} *Smiles* So Wherever you find yourself in my life either as a Friend or 'Otherwise' I hope it will remain that way and you don't have cause to leave it!
Be Who You Are Not What Society Tells You To Be :)life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile :-) One thing you can't recycle is wasted time!

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming : "Woo Hoo, what a ride!"

My Blog

10 tag questions............ 10 tags

10 Fast Facts - A quick (and different) game of Tag"  I was tagged by Cindy Here's the way this thing works: Each player starts with ten honest facts/habits about themselves...: - People who are...
Posted by on Tue, 05 Feb 2008 05:47:00 GMT

The Fetish

In an attempt to Answer Some Questions I thought I'd post a Blog but not done many of these so make allowancies eh! So 1st of all What is a Fetish? .. fet·ish (plural fet·ish·es) noun Definition: ...
Posted by on Thu, 03 May 2007 05:30:00 GMT