JUST MELINDA

About me... Im majoring in elementry education, so excited to get that done! so hence I do stand-up, laugh hard and laugh loud...I LOVE to travel, i love adventure, worship, kitty kats, teddy bears, pink, music, dancing, yoga, THE SPA, working out, running, taking walks, dying my hair, basicalling taking care of myself, wine, vodka/tonic extra lime, long naps, newborns, hot baths, diamonds, necklaces, bikinis, belly buttons, late nights, making out with my boo :0), langerie, victoria secrets, dancing, the lake, hanging out with my fiance we have a great time, long worthless conversations, long great converstions, family dinners, gurls night i LOVE MY GURLS to death and bring ur boyfriend night lol, bbqs, shopping, money, the rain, baking, cleaning the house and just being with family and friends!!! there the bestest in the world!!.i love God first, myself secondly, and my family and friends most of all.Im a great person, lover, mother and friend... i have my faults and im far from perfect!! i enjoy life to the fullest either if its messing up and getting up and learning from my mistakes or smooth sailing it day, month or year.. i like life black and white, love me or hate me. i hate the grey area!! i have a huge heart and will do anything for anybody i forgive and i forget.. i am a tough cookie and can handle situations im not weak and i will survive im no bitch hehe ..i speak the truth but the truth does hurt at times but the best thing is to take the advice... i take critical advice from everyone bc everyone has a different point sometimes it hurts but i like to learn!! im real and im trustworthy !! i will say what i shouldnt say aT TIMES i guess its in the blood and it does get me in trouble at times but it feels dam good to get it off my chest.. Im a great friend i love to talk, listen, have fun, be goofy im good at that and im super friendly and would be friends with u if ur sweet :) .. i love great conversations and intellectual people...if ur fake then your not human and i cant stand that, one minute u wana know everything and ur concerned the next u saY WHAT I said thats pathetic and gives u something to speak about i guess dont talk to me then!! there is a time in ur life u laugh at people like that and that time for me is now im not in highschool so if u dont like something then just deal with it its not that personal kid... of course there is someone that cant seem to get it right tear... i love who i am and i wouldnt change nothing about me including my fiance, my daughter, my family and friends and the way my life is and the way it will be i kno no future but im awaiting patiently because i know God has great things for me and my family!!!. It's fascinating how life works when you trust in the Universe!I have learned not to take anything for granted (including great friends & family). I consider myself to have a big heart. Nothing makes me happier when I hear a great story of when I put a : ) on someone's face or made them laugh i love being there for people. I heard a good one recently: "people will forget what you said...and they will forget what you did, but people will NEVER forget how you made them feel" And I truly take pride in that!I have learned over & over how short life is. I try & live each day to the fullest & be as honest & loving as I can. I consider myself real lucky for having as many best friends & people I can really count on. I am not judgemental clearly because I have learned I hate when people judge me. We're all in this life together! This is NO dress rehearsal. Remember "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be Loved for what you're not! I am what I am! I've learned people are outright mean and jealous. I'm learned to have a tough skin, but it was a slow process.I DO have a fiance and he is one of the BEST!! We have been together for 2 years and we are begining to start a wonderful life together. He has recently begun getting involved in starting his own business very exciting!!! We have a wonderful beautiful daughter together.. jade who is 18 months AND we stick together as a family no matter what even if everything hasnt been perfect.. we have had allot of growing up to do and realize whats is important and how much we mean to eachother!!! nothing and no one will ever get in the way of us we have never gaven up on eachother... justin is my rock and he has loved me for who i am and has always stood by me since we meet he's everything i ever wanted and i am thankful for who he is and what i have!!! In the next year we will be investing in buying a home and possibly moving to the mountains not sure tho... We are planning to get married summer or fall of 2oo8 no date just waiting for some stuff to pan out til we decide that!!! im excited to move on from whats been a hard year for us and getting back on he right path thank you God!!i love GOD and he will get me through anything!!