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I don't what I'd do without you, babe...Don't know where I'd be...You're not just another lover...No

About Me

I FOUND THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,LESLEY,IN JANUARY '06 AND ASKED HER TO MARRY ME IN MARCH '06 AND SHE SAID "YES". SHE DIDN'T REALIZE WHAT WE WOULD HAVE TO DEAL WITH EVERY DAY WITH MY EX, BUT NOW, MY EX HAS NO HOLD ON ME AND I AM SO BLESSED TO BE LOVED BY LESLEY. SHE COMPLETES ME AND MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THERE'S NOTHING I CAN'T DO. SHE ENCOURAGES ME,STANDS BY ME, MAKES ME FEEL LOVED AND WANTED IN EVERY WAY! I HAVE 2 SONS, MY PRIDE AND JOY,DANIEL DALE-18 AND TRAVIS-15. THEY HAVE HAD TO ENDURE ALOT THE LAST 2 1/2 YRS BECAUSE OF EVERYTHING THEIR MOTHER DID, BUT IN ALL THEY ARE ONLY THE BEST RESULTS THAT HAPPENED FROM A MARRAIGE THAT HAD GONE WRONG LONG AGO! I WANT ONLY WHAT'S BEST FOR THEM AND THEIR WELL BEING AND WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MAKE SURE THEY ARE CARED FOR AND SAFE! I AM SO PROUD OF BOTH MY BOYS! THEY HAVE GROWN UP INTO WONDERFUL YOUNG MEN ANY DAD WOULD BE PROUD OF. MY OLDEST SON, DANIEL WORKED WITH ME THIS SUMMER AND I ENJOYED HAVING HIM THERE SEEING HIM LEARN THE TRADE I HAVE BEEN IN FOR OVER 23 YRS. HE WORKED VERY HARD FOR WHAT HE MADE AND HE IS LEARNING A GOOD TRADE THAT IF HE DECIDED TOO, WOULD MAKE HIM A GOOD LIVING. HE ISN'T LAZY LIKE SOME, THAT SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR OTHERS TO TAKE CARE OF THEM. FOR THAT I AM VERY GRATEFUL. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU, YOU CAN'T DO WHAT YOU WANT DANIEL,YOU MAKE ME PROUD SON!
LESLEY AND I GOT MARRIED OCTOBER 20, 2007. I COULDN'T HAVE IMAGINED WHAT BEING MARRIED TO HER WOULD BE LIKE. WE ARE ONE AND COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER. WE KNOW WHAT EACH OTHER IS THINKING BEFORE IT'S EVEN SAID. I LOVE HAVING THE CLOSENESS, FAITFULNESS AND MOST OF ALL COMPLETE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WE HAVE FOR EACH OTHER. I JUST WISH I HAD MET HER WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER. THINGS WOULD BE SO DIFFERENT. I WOULD STILL HAVE WANTED TO HAVE MY 2 BOYS, IT WOULD'VE JUST BEEN A BETTER SITUATION AND LIFE FOR ALL US. SINCE LESLEY AND I MARRIED, I HAVE 3 DAUGHTERS KASEY 21, KAITLYN 17 and KARLEY GRACE 15, & ANOTHER SON KYLE, ALMOST 13 AND A GRANDSON THAT IS 2 YRS OLD! MY LIFE IS FULL OF JOY AND HAPPINESS AND I THANK GOD FOR IT EVERYDAY. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART LESLEY, I'M A BETTER MAN BECAUSE OF YOU.
My Lil Message 2 THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD!!....... I LOVE YOU LESLEY!!
In my life I see where I've been I said that I'd never fall again Within myself I was wrong My searchin' ain't over...over I know that[Chorus:] When you love a woman You see your world inside her eyes When you love a woman You know she's standin' by your side A joy that lasts forever There's a band of gold that shines waiting somewhere...oh yeahIf I can't believe that someone is true To fall in love is so hard to do I hope and pray tonight Somewhere you're thinkin' of me girl Yes I know...I know that[Chorus]It's enough to make you cry When you see her walkin' by And you look into her eyes[Chorus]When you love a woman... When you love, love, love, love When you love a woman You see your world inside her eyes

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Our First Date Song was: PERFECT STRANGER - "YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT" Can I have this dance my you're looking pretty Is there something wrong did he leave you hurting I don't mean to pry but that tear in your eye gave you away If you don't want to talk we'll keep it quiet But sometimes a heartache hurts worse if you hide it I think there's a chance one slow dance might ease the painYou have the right to remain silent Anything that you say as I hold you against me Will forever be a secret between us two I've been wanting you but you didn't know it And now that he's gone at last I can show it If your heart is tired for the rest of your life Lay your love on meSo many times my eyes have held you Tonight please give my arms that chance If you don't feel the need for conversation We'll just let our hearts talk while we danceYou have the right to remain silent Anything that you say as I hold you against me Will forever be a secret between us two I've been wanting you but you didn't know it And now that he's gone at last I can show it If your heart is tired for the rest of your life Lay your love on me If your heart is tired for the rest of your life Lay your love on me

My Blog

A Revised Blog from a few days ago

I just wanted to revise the blog I wrote a couple days ago about Lesley and my troubles. Every marriage has it's ups and downs. Our is no different and I don't want anyone on here to think I am giving...
Posted by on Mon, 19 Jan 2009 00:02:00 GMT

Sad Day in Our Household..... LONE STAR...U will be Missed.

Late this afternoon, I had someone to move my 2 babies from the old farm house to our home we live at now. During transport , My Stallion - LONE STAR ... had somehow fell thru the flooring in the...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Jun 2008 20:07:00 GMT

Tagged ... 10 honest moments

Tagged..10 honest moments (You can't tag the person who tagged you.)Each player starts with ten honest/facts/habits about themselves.People who are tagged need to write their own blog about their ten...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Jan 2008 22:32:00 GMT

SHE WAS ONLY 5 !!!!!

SHE WAS ONLY 5 !!!!!! She was only 5 Her dad was a drunk Her mom was an addict Her parents kept her Locked in an attic Her only friend was a little toy bear It was old and worn out And had patches of ...
Posted by on Tue, 24 Jul 2007 23:42:00 GMT

My IMPERFECT PERSON......LESLEY J. BENDER

To come upon love is not by finding the perfect person, but rather learning to see an imperfect person...*perfectly*
Posted by on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 21:04:00 GMT

I'll Wait on You

Dear Friend,I just had to write to tell you how much I love you and care for you.Yesterday, I saw you walking and laughing with your friends.I hoped that soon you'd want me to walk along with you, too...
Posted by on Sat, 20 Jan 2007 11:17:00 GMT

DADDY'S DAY POEM

Her hair was up in a pony tail,her favorite dress tied with a bow.Today was Daddy's Day at school,and she couldn't wait to go.But her mommy tried to tell her,that she probably should stay home.Why the...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Oct 2006 16:28:00 GMT

PURE BLOOD

The day is over, you are driving home. You tune in your radio. You hear a little blurb about a little village in India where some villagers have died suddenly, strangely, of a flu that has never been ...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Oct 2006 06:21:00 GMT

The PENNY

 I found a penny today Just laying on the ground. But it's not just a penny, this little coin I've found. Found pennies come from heaven, That's what my Grandpa told me. He said Angels toss them ...
Posted by on Sat, 30 Sep 2006 20:11:00 GMT

Signed with LOVE from GOD, JESUS & ME

She jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the operating room. She said: "How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I see him?" The surgeon said, "I'm sorry. We did all...
Posted by on Sat, 30 Sep 2006 20:02:00 GMT