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Divinya

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me


There are many things that I can think of to describe myself, but I will tell you how my friends describe me. Most of them have said I am a great listenter; reliable; trustworthy; loyal; compassionate; humble; modest; funny; pretty; smart; organized; diplomatic; very black and white (no shades of gray here); stubborn; talkative; confident; know how to have fun; know how to relax; etc. I would love to travel and see the world more, and I finally get the chance too!! yeah!! I enjoy fine dining, concerts, plays, movies, museums, window shopping, antiquing, and reading good books. I also enjoy staying at home and putting in a dvd or just listening to good music. Right now I am into Justin Timberlake, Madonna's confessions, Celtic music, pop, alternative, some hard rock, I absolutely love Chris Cornell's voice, Coldplay, etc. My daughter: Elizabeth Shefali and I spend a lot of time together and she brings so much joy into my life. She is four years old, going on five next month, and is just having so much fun. She is first and foremost in my life, but I want her to grow up w/ strong family values, the way I did. I like to think I was like her when I was growing up. Right now I work as an Office Adjuster for 21st Century. It's not my dream job, but I don't think I have a dream job anymore. As you get older you come to realize what prioritizing is all about. The responsiblities you have to face after having someone to take care of. I used to be a Case Manager for a non-profit organization and realized I hated social work. It's draining on the soul, especially when you learn how many people are frauding the system. I did some teaching and really enjoyed that for some time, but realized I didn't want to go back to school for another who knows how many years to get a teaching credential, especially with the way teachers are treated unfairly in this state. Too much work and not enough pay or respect, quite sad. I know I would succeed more with my business degree, which is why I decided to take the Office Adjuster position, plus it's close to home (no crazy commute, don't know how others put up w/ that on a daily basis) Well, that's not all of me, but once you get to know me you will see for yourself that there is more to me.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People that are: confident, happy, motivated, carefree, loving, giving, considerate, modest, honest or blunt, career or family driven...that's all I ask. Not people that are: shallow, superficial, "all about me", selfish, heartless, lazy, who pity themselves and want others pity, lack motivation or goals in life, STALKERS, spenders who can't afford to spend but do anyway to show off (stupid), inconsiderate...hard to believe that people like this choose to be this way.