People that are: confident, happy, motivated, carefree, loving, giving, considerate, modest, honest or blunt, career or family driven...that's all I ask. Not people that are: shallow, superficial, "all about me", selfish, heartless, lazy, who pity themselves and want others pity, lack motivation or goals in life, STALKERS, spenders who can't afford to spend but do anyway to show off (stupid), inconsiderate...hard to believe that people like this choose to be this way.