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About Me


Who am I? Oh boy... now there's a complicated thought.
Well here goes...
Well I'm an old fashioned country girl who made a geographical change to the beach. Yeah Yeah they tell me I'm one of those Damn Yankee's. But, well.. I guess so!
Came here to find "love", but what I found was ~myself~
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Go Figure!
I'm a mother of two very wonderful grown children. I blame my mother for my daughter. She once said, "I hope one day you have one just like you!" Yep! I did! Strong willed, very independent and has her own opinions and not afraid to express them. I wouldn't have it any other way. My son took after his father. He's a hard worker, fun to be with and a heart of gold.
God Bless Them Both and May He Always Keep Them Safe!
As for me.... well let's see.....
I'm very independent, strong willed, but open minded to most things. Certain things I hold dear to my heart and would die supporting my views or causes.
As you can probably tell, I'm a true romantic at heart. I believe there is someone out there for everyone. If you just take away all the exterior and are willing to look inside. Love has no boundaries. It doesn't know Sex, Color or Age.
I want to find a love.. One that is uncomplicated, non- materialistic, unconditional, pure and true as our first loves once were. Do you remember your first love? I DO!
(Thank You Michael)
My heart racing, my palms sweaty, the lost for words when he was near, The over abundance of things I wanted to say when he wasn't. There's nothing more perfect than a first love. I want to feel like that again! But I want it to last till the end of time. Someone to grow old with, hold me at night, wipe away my tears, know how I'm feeling without ever a word spoken between us, to call me to just say, "Hi". His smile would light up a room full of people, yet all I would see would be him.
Yeah, even fools like me can dream.
But if ever I stop dreaming,
then I've stopped living.
Sometimes ~Dreams Do Come True!~
I'm always an optimist! The glass is half full. The sun setting does not mean it's the end of one day, but closer to the beginning of a new one. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt. Until you give me a reason or prove me wrong. Don't judge a book by it's cover. For there maybe a very important messange inside! Treat others as you wish to be treated, in spite of how they've treated you. Be kind to your kids. One day they will pick your retirement home!(LOL)
I believe your eyes are the enterance to your soul. Feel with your heart and not your head. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't! Always move forward and never back. Yet glance to the past to learn from it, and try not to repeat the same mistakes.
I still believe there's a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. I still chase silly childhood dreams. Isn't it more fun to believe, than it is to not!
I'm a Spiritual person, not Religious. Though I was brought up within the church. I try to do God's will and not mine. He's reached into the wraths of hell and gave me a second chance. Now through my own hope, strength and experiences, I hope that one day I might touch the life of another who is as hopeless as I was. If that be my sole purpose in life, then I've lived as God's chosen for me, and not as I would have.
I don't believe that one religion and any better than another. I hope and believe there is a here after and that we will all meet our loved ones again. I once had a friend who was agnostic. I asked her, "What If", just what if there was a God, a power greater than ourselves. Wouldn't life be so much better to believe "now" that there is? Than to live life believing that there isn't? Through some spiritual experiences of her own, after the doctors gave her very little hope to live. She then came back and told me, "I do believe in a power greater than myself". She learned first hand, how Powerful Pray really is.
If you are still a non-believer try to stopping a lightening bolt, or an ocean wave...or make it rain up and not down, better yet let's see you part the sea. Believe in a Higher Power greater than yourself! Find a God of YOUR understanding. Wouldn't life be better to believe?
I have no time for racists or hatred.
Take your hoods off, lay your guns
down, removed your blinders
so you may see. We
all bleed red, we all cry clear tears.
Can't we just all love one another
and save the world instead
of destroying it?
Let's Make Love Not War!
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I miss being ~In Love~. I want someone to love me for who I am, not someone who wants to change me or for who they "want me to be".

I love long slow passionate kisses, a soft touch upon my cheek, a wink across the room, long slow intense love making.

A single Rose, not the whole dozen, says it all when it's given from the heart.

Turn ons? .... Great peircing eyes, a nice butt ! (was that out loud? ) Hey! Everybody needs a hobby! Candle lite room, watching the sun rise and set with that special someone, snuggling in front of a fireplace, glazing into each others eyes and knowing how they feel about you without a word ever being spoken. Public signs of affection.

It's not what's on the outside. It's what's within that truly matters. Material things, are just that.. Doesn't buy you happiness or love. Nor can it buy me. I'd live in a cardboard box, if that's what it takes. Just to spend the rest of my life with my ~SoulMate~.

Play Hard! Work Smart! Love Long!

Life's too short not to live it to the fullest! Yesterday's gone, Tomorrow may never come. . . So live for Today.... As if it were your last! It Just May Be!


A real honest to goodness gentleman. One who believes in partnership, friendship, honesty, loyality. One who is there for you both in good times and bad. Treats you like a queen. And I'll love him like my king. Someone who is forever in search of himself. Wanting to grow together in a mental, emotional, and spiritual levels with each other.
I know he's out there! Have you seen him?

"There is no such thing as 'part-Cherokee.' Either you're Cherokee or you're not. It isn't the quantity of Cherokee blood in your veins that is important, but the quality of it . . . your pride in it. I have seen full-bloods who have virtually no idea of the great legacy entrusted to their care. Yet, I have seen people with as little as 1/500th blood quantum who inspire the spirits of their ancestors because they make being Cherokee a proud part of a their everyday life."
" Ho! Mitakuye Oyasin - which means- "We Are All Related" "

My Personal Favorite Rose "Circus"
Nothing says "I Love You"
More than a single Rose.
When given from the heart
That's all it takes.

My Blog

Not All Angels Have Wings!

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InterConnectedness

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Life Is Like A Feather In The Wind

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Beauty

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Cherokee Wisdom

Cherokee Wisdom   Two WolvesOne evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.  He said, 'My son, the battle is between two 'wolves' in...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 04:16:00 GMT

What Sets Us Free

THE TRUTH IS STRONGIt comes from THE ONE ABOVE WHO IS EVERYWHERE THE MOST HOLY MAKERof all goodness SETTING FREE AND REVEALINGat the right timethrough the handsand sacred submissive mouths of the wil...
Posted by on Mon, 08 Oct 2007 03:17:00 GMT

The Wolf

..> The Wolf   While on a quiet winter's journey, I heard the cry of Wolf.I turned around in my surprise, to see her in my sights.I said to her, "How do you do?"She said, "I do just fine."...
Posted by on Sun, 07 Oct 2007 23:46:00 GMT

Master Card Wedding

Master Card Wedding You got to love this guy. This is a true story about a recent wedding thattook place at Clemson University . It made thelocal newspaper; even Jay Leno mentioned it. It was a huge ...
Posted by on Sun, 30 Sep 2007 06:17:00 GMT

No Nursing Home For US!!!

..> NO NURSING HOME FOR US                         No nursing home for us. We are checking into the Holiday Inn!With the average...
Posted by on Sun, 30 Sep 2007 05:01:00 GMT

Wedding Braids

By Stan Davis Now you will feel no rainfor each of you will be shelter for the otherNow there is no lonelinessNow you are two personsbut there is only one life before youGo now to your dwelling to en...
Posted by on Sat, 15 Sep 2007 03:52:00 GMT