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We make our life what it is by the words we use and the path we take. We can make someone happy by not focusing on the negative that they do but on the positive.Only then will they hear the angel whispers.

RED FLAGS OF AN ABUSER:1. He comes on as a real charmer and loves you instantly.
2. He has problems with authority figures.
3. He embarrasses you in the presence of others.
4. He is nasty on the road--feels other drivers
are competing with him.
5. He wants your undivided attention at all times.
6. You feel controlled because he must always
be "in charge".
7. He has a dual personality--sometimes and other
times childish.8. He is very competitive--and he must always win.
9. His promises and apologies are meaningless.
10. He displays jealousy toward your close friends and
family members.
11. He can't tolerate criticism and is always defending
himself and trying to justify unacceptable behavior.
12. He has extreme highs and lows--both unpredictable.
13. He is rough at times--love pats become more and more
painful. Suddenly, you realize he is a serious abuser, and
you are a victim!
14. Are you vulnerable? If you are (a death in the family,
recovering from another relationship, etc.), the abuser
will sniff you out like a dog in heat. The abuser seeks
your vulnerabilities, then uses them against you.

I spent, "wasted", ten years of my life trying to CHANGE
my abuser. I did what I was told, catered to his every
need, and kept my mouth shut, thinking that he would see
that I loved him and stop the abuse.

Somewhere I lost myself! Yourself is hard to find!
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