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Sam Malone

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About Me

I only take two things seriously. MUSIC & ART.

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

4- the Individualist

you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka "The Romantic")
"I am unique"

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.


How to Get Along with Me

• Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.

• Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.

• Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.

• Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.

• Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!


What I Like About Being a FOUR

• my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level

• my ability to establish warm connections with people

• admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life

• my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor

• being unique and being seen as unique by others

• having aesthetic sensibilities

• being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me


What's Hard About Being a FOUR

• experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair

• feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

• feeling guilty when I disappoint people

• feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me

• expecting too much from myself and life

• fearing being abandoned

• obsessing over resentments

• longing for what I don't have


FOURs as Children Often

• have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games

• are very sensitive

• feel that they don't fit in

• believe they are missing something that other people have

• attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.

• become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood

• feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)


FOURs as Parents

• help their children become who they really are

• support their children's creativity and originality

• are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings

• are sometimes overly critical or overly protective

• are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

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My Blog

Happiness By The Kilowatt

So this is continuous happinessYou know, I alwaysImagined it something moreWith the right drapes... the right paints...The right frames... this could really work...What a great day to spend indoorsSo ...
Posted by on Fri, 20 Nov 2009 00:40:00 GMT

erase regrets and live only to love

I never realized how much you regret the things you do to people you love until thier at thier worst. I was always angry that my mother was sick. I could never go to the mall with her or go to the mov...
Posted by on Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:18:00 GMT

make the metal scream

the world is filled with hate, youll be raped of every grape on you life vine but you  cant let your nose run thier are foes you chose who will tred on your goals but dont let you nose run thier ...
Posted by on Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:05:00 GMT

Lifes funny that way

 Ive learned that mistakes are the best things people can make. without fuckups we wouldnt grow into the people we are. we wouldnt grow period. Lifes funny that way....
Posted by on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 22:46:00 GMT