first, hopefully a good woman, a woman that loves me for who i am and nothing else. a woman that won't play mind games with me and that won't take me on a rollercoaster ride that will lead only down into the abyss. i am too old to play games so if you are one of those do me a favor, just move on to the next moron, i won't be a fool to any of you. no woman is better than me and i by the same tokken am not better than any woman. we are all humans with flaws. second, if you are a woman dating, about to date, or are about the be the girlfriend of one of my friends do not add me unless you really want my friendship. a few times i noticed that a few of my friends had been with a girl and that girl pretended to be a friend to me just so i can say good things about her to my friend or firneds. therefor making their chances of getting my friend or having sex with my friend really good. i won't be your pawn, puppet or anything else. nor will i be anyone's alternative. if you want my friendship you got it. i will be as loyal as i can possibly be to you. just do not play games or lie to me. my list of friends on this is really really low and this is the list of friends that have so far been loyal and truthful to me with the exception of one or two. only reason i am keeping those few is because i believe in second chances more than people think and these are not just friends i met like in the corner. so hopefully they can earn my trust again. if some of you are annoyed at anything i wrote well, i usally do not get to speak my mind and most people i know always do. so i believe i should be able to have my say without anyone wanting to kill me for it. if it's ok for politicians to lie to the public and if it's ok for people commit horrible acts and still be accepted by society then i think me just be honest is something harmless and no one should be getting offended by it.a girl that does not care about just the money or cars. basically a normal girl that would like me for me. well one can wish? right? lol it does seem that girls only like guys that have criminal records and are involved in some gang or something,they are also into guys that mistreat them and guys that do not have jobs but not because they can't find work but because they do not want to work. . really folks how insane could people be? i even know guys that cheat on their girlfriends and on their spouses. i am sure most of you girls say that you do not like those types of guys but you still go with them anyway. oh well maybe i am the crazy one here.