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Do I love you?Do I lust for you?Am I a sinner because I do the two?...Bonita applebum,you gotta put

About Me

IF I HAVE NOT CARRIED ON A CONVERSATION WITH YOU, I AM NOT ADDING YOU AS A FRIEND"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, "WOO HOO what a ride!"
That is so friggin true. I'm tired of being down in the dumps about the crap that's just not going my way, so from now on, I'm just going to talk about the positive that's going on in my life. Like how I'm back in school and have a 4.0 gpa. Or how I'm graduating from the DC Rape Crisis Center's Volunteer Program training on November 8, 2006, and then I will be helping women, men, and children from all around the DC area come to terms with sexual assault, and be a listening ear for them, or a shoulder to lean on. How about how God woke me up this morning? Or the hundreds of other mornings that when I prayed the night before not to ever see the light of day again, but God saw my potential and my heart, and granted me mercy. There's so much beauty in the world. I'm tired of focusing all of my energy on the negative. It's time to get back to good.

Do NOT ask me to sit here and describe myself because I will end up sounding like a gazillion people in one. I'm a sagittarius for Gods sakes, AND I'm an only child. To top it all off, I'm female. You don't get more split-personality than that... unless you're a gemini with all of those traits, and frankly, that's just certifiable.
I don't club, I'm not a heavy drinker, never done drugs and I never will, but I'm still loving life. I'm not on here looking for a man, just got rid of one, not trying to pick up another, so please don't respond if you're looking for someone to hook up with because I'm not your girl.


i`m a thinker.
i`m messy.
i`m in love.
i`m a Jesus freak.
i'm not judgemental.
i'm superficial, but trying to change that.
i`m easy to get to know but a very complex person.
i`m five-six.
i`m beautifully thick.
i`m sexy.
i'm the black betty crocker.
i'm a non-working actress.
i`m a very dependable friend.
i`m rockin` 2 tattoos, and want 3 more.
i`m a lover of all music.
i`m disgusted by beer...but it's ok if you drink them.
i`m lovin me some cloves...but i don't smoke them.
i`m repulsed by cigarettes.
i`m at peace...
i`m in a constant struggle...
i`m spiritual...
i`m a writer...
i`m a survivor...

My Interests


Name: Reina FAVORITES
Food: Italian/Seafood
Candy: Anything Chocolate
Number: 16
Color: Fuchsia
Animal: Lion
Drink: Diet Coke
Alcohol Drink: Raspberry Bellini
Bagel: nada
Letter: K
Body Part on Opposite sex: Hip Reflexors
This or That
Pepsi or Coke: Diet Coke
McDonalds or BurgerKing: Mickey D's please!
Strawberry or Watermelon: Strawberry
Hot tea or Ice tea: Ice Tea
Chocolate or Vanilla Chocolate
Hot Chocolate or Coffee: Coffee
Kiss or Hug: Hug
Dog or Cat: Cat
Rap or Punk: Punk
Summer or Winter: Winter
Scary Movies or Funny Movies: Scary
Love or Money: Love
YOUR...
Bedtime: when my head hits the pillow
Most Missed Memory: No missed memories, no regrets
Best phyiscal feature: Lips
First Thought Waking Up: Why?
Goal for this year: Too many to name
Best Friends: Tiffany and Jonathan
Weakness: Chocolate
Fears: God, snakes, things that go bump in the nite
Heritage: African American/Irish/Native American
Longest relationship: 5 years
HAVE YOU...
Ever Drank: Yep
Ever Smoked: Nope
Pot: Nope
Ever been Drunk: Unfortunately
Ever been beaten up: Nope
Ever beaten someone up: Nope
Ever Shoplifted: Nope
Ever Skinny Dipped: Nope, I live a very boring existence
Ever Kissed Opposite sex: Sure, sisterly love :~)
Been Dumped Lately: :~O I think so! Or did I dump him...
IN A GUY/GIRL
Favorite Eye Color: Deep brown
Favorite Hair Color: Black
Short or Long: short
Height: 5.8-6.4
Style: His own
Looks or Personality: Personality
Hot or Cute Cute
Drugs and Alcohol: neither
Muscular or Really Skinny: Muscular
RANDOMS
Number of Regrets in the Past: 0
What country do you want to Visit: Italy
How do you want to Die: IN my sleep
Been to the Mall Lately: yep
Do you like Thunderstorms: Love'em
Get along with your Parents: Yep...Love them too
Health Freak: Never
Do you think your Attractive: Yep
Believe in Yourself: But of course
Want to go to College: Been there, done that, wait! I'm doing it again!
Do you Smoke: Nope
Do you Drink: Occassionally
Shower Daily: I try :~P
Been in Love: 2 many times
Do you Sing: In the shower
Want to get Married: Undecided
Do you want Children: Undecided
Have your future kids names planned out: Do I really look that pathetic?
Age you wanna lose your Virginity: ...............................................
Hate anyone:

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I'd like to meet:

Anyone who uses their brain. I would love to get to know more peeps in the area that are about something, and have their head screwed on straight, so come on and rock my dayum socks.

WHAT KINDA PERSON ARE YOU
FAVORITE FOOD? Italian
FAVORITE COLOR? fuchsia
FAVORITE PERSON? Maura
DO YOU SMOKE? Never
DO YOU REMEMBER THE LAST NAME OF YOUR LAST SEXUAL PARTNER? but of course!
HAVE YOU EVER SLEPT WITH YOUR BEST FRIENDS MAN? No
HAVE YOU KISSED A MEMBER OF THE SAME SEX? Sure - sisterly love ;~)
WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU HUGGED YOUR MOTHER? last night
YOUR FATHER? Monday
HAVE YOU EVER / DO YOU PLAN TO
BEEN IN A THREESOME? Nope
BEEN MARRIED? Nope/Maybe
GOTTEN HIGH? Never, and i say that proudly
PASSED OUT DRUNK? Ugh, no
BEEN IN A FIGHT? Yep
KICKED A DOG? No, no animal cruelty here
LIED TO YOUR MOTHER? Sure
LIED TO YOUR BOSS? Yep
CHOOSE ONE
VODKA OR COGNAC Vodka
FOX OR UPN Fox
COFEE OR TEA Coffee
SEX OR SNUGGLE Both
HUG OR KISS Hug
DOG OR CAT Both, although I should probably say cat since I own one.
BOTHER OR SISTER Brother
LOVE OR LUST Love
WASHINGTON DC OR MARYLAND Washington DC
MARYLAND OR BALTIMORE Ummm, isn't baltimore in maryland?

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Music:

Portishead:Matchbox 20:Frou Frou:Stereophonics:Floetry:Maxwell:Meshelle Ndegeocello:Britney Spears (gasp!):Shania Twain:Joss Stone:Michelle Branch:Tupac:Eminem:Mariah Carey:Madison Avenue:Coldplay:Neyo:Evanescence:Teena Marie:Chaka Khan: Earth, Wind, & Fire:etc.

Movies:

I love movies, especially horror and suspense. My favorite movies at the moment are Diary of a Mad Black Woman (that's me), Finding Neverland, The Devil Wears Prada, Girl Interrupted, Girl with the Pearl Earring, Vanity Fair, and Coach Carter. This list will change completely next month, but I will always [heart] Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, Eve's Bayou, Coming to America, The Color Purple, Love Jones, The Parent Trap, Finding Nemo, and The Lion King.

Television:

GREY'S ANATOMY!!!.:24(Gotta love Jack!).:Any reality show on MTV.:Big Brother.:America's Next Top Model.:Girlfriends.:7th Heaven.:Makeover - Home Edition.:6 Feet Under.:Gilmore Girls.:Amazing Race.:Top Chef.:Project Runway.:A Different World (everyday all day).

Books:

The Darkest Child.:Memoirs of a Geisha.:Some Things I Never Thought I'd Do.:What Looks Like Crazy On An Ordinary Day.:The Harry Potter Series.:Reaing Lolita In Tehran.:Baby Brothers Blues.:The Alchemist (EXCELLENT book)

Heroes:

Jesus, Parents, Pastor Steele, Uncle Charles, and myself.

Which RENT Character Are YOU?
Mimi - the stripper. So many problems for such a young woman. You need someone in your life that has baggage that matches yours. You're sweet and sexy all at once, but you need a change of pace.
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Tonights training was hard. We went to Howard University hospital to watch a video about 7 different rape survivors. So much pissed me off. The insensitivity of cops, stenographers, even some counsel...
Posted by Bonita Applebum on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 09:40:00 PST

Wife Woman Friend

Def Poetry JamWife Woman Friend - Part 1 By Dana GilmoreI guess I should not be surprised that my beginningwas his end.After all, we were just friends.  Although in myworld I was his girl.  ...
Posted by Bonita Applebum on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST