Me?? I'm Jersey girl.... a born and raised Jersey girl... I have the best husband in the world, my highschool sweetheart, soulmate and best friend, Jeffrey. One child, Tyler, my reason for living... Being a mother has changed my life in so many ways, he makes me proud in every way a mother could be!! There is nothing like looking back at memories of how he has grown only to realize the memories still yet to be made in years to come!So I am supposed to tell you about me...??? I don’t know where to start, but that’s just because I am extremely indecisive... Just when I think I finally figured out what I want from life, somehow I realize I still don't know what it is I am looking to accomplish... "Make sense"? lol, not to me either! I fight with myself in my head, but I tend to do it outloud too often! The best thing I can do at this point is just learn what I can from life... Just like I've learned to make the best out of the worst and take life's punches as they come, one day at a time... I'm so over living for what I did wrong yesterday or what I could have done better in the past.
Wanna know a few things I've learned so far?? There are true friends and there are just acquaintences... People who disappoint you can be replaced, even if it was someone who you trusted, whole heart and soul, like maybe a really good friend? I'm weeding those people from my "garden"... It doesn't mean I don't like you, it just makes me wonder why I wasted my time acknowledging your existance in my life in the first place.I love surprises, hate trying to solve mysteries... I have the need to be needed... I get bored really easily... I have a terrible habit sometimes of talking over people but I mean no offense... Life sometimes can be one big JOKE~ If you know me you know, I love to laugh, I love making the people around me laugh!! I make fun of everything and everyone, including myself so if you're offended easily we won't get along... I'm competitive and love to win, HATE to lose... Organization makes me happy! I am picky about certain things, most of the time... I drive too fast... I curse too much... I cry too much... I talk too LOUD and too FAST especially when I'm excited... I care too much about everyone else all the time and it gets me hurt too easily, way too often... Of late I have no tolerance for people who can't deal with their own problems and feel the need to cling onto others for help, everyone has a life of drama, myself included... Think next time you make a decision! The first time is a mistake, second time it's a habit! Good friends are not 24/7 therapists, that’s why I see my own, lol! I'm a good friend and a good listener, but if I've given you advice and you didn't listen it's not MY fault!! I made my own mistakes and I've learned from them and learned that they're more like little opportunities...I don't want have to wait til I am 70 and retired to have a house on the beach where I can sit with my feet in the sand and watch the sun come up every morning and sit with my husband every night to watch the sunset... I'm walking a new path... I don’t want start off sentences with "someday", because today is tomorrow, but I already wanted it yesterday!!
Things aren't always what they look like.
Today is the tomorrow you were waiting for yesterday.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Happiness is the way!
Succes is a journey, not a destination.
Obstacles are what you see when you take your eyes off the road.
There is always an opportunity in any disaster.
The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious.
We must be the change we wish to see.
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