Tim

A first date in my opinion. Once we deliberate on time and place, along with dutch or tradinal. We can then oppt for drive seperate, or I drive,or you drive. Knowing it wouldn't be a blind date (figure both have pics sent, or #'s just in case)but still wondering if you have butterflies to help eat the food.(as I maybe would if we go) After meeting someone for 5 min you can get a feeling about them, to calm down and enjoy the night, or to keep the hackles up and shields high.(helps to have a goofball waiter, or ask about some of the other first dates we've had)during the date we both have to get a feel for the other,(see if holding hands and poss a kiss at the end of the night)(also to see if you are still shaking)At the end of our time together for the night, and have nothing to say or afraid to say it. Just remember, it's a first date, all first dates tend to go fubar.( or we wouldn't have a special section titled first date)if you like/ dislike the person say it. (I will try to say it nicely) When both partys end up safely at thier homes, then thats a good first date, with the option of a second first date is even better.