We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have....When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. Remember happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have; it depends solely upon what you think...
"We come to love, not by finding the perfect person. But by learning to love an imperfect person, perfectly" by: Sam Keen. Some may take offence some might agree. I know some of us, wished we we're a bit thinner, or we have JLo's nice butt, Brad Pitt's face, or Vin Diesel's body just naming a few in general. It's great being in love, but being loved back is even greater! I too wished I could be thinner maybe lose 5-10 lbs, to have abs, or maybe have a higher IQ. People love differently (their own way). Some are conditional meaning, "I will only love you when life is good" or act that way/perform in some way that meets my expectations" Unconditional Love, that binds people between different attitudes, opinions & etc. what I wanna to convey is that if u love a person, u accept him as he/she is, and they too accept u as you are with all the IMPERFECTIONS. But as far as loving someone, that feeling that you get, butterfly tingle you get even though you've been with that person for, that drive, that aching feeling when you miss him that shouldn't be based on conditions, or laundry list of things that you want from a person. It should be based on LOVING that person no matter what period. There is no perfect ideal person, yes of course we're all perfect in God's eyes, but to us human beings, we tend to look at the flaws. I have learned a few hard, but very important lessons about love, even to this day, I tend to see imperfections, from my daily life... therefore leads me to unhappines and Im still learning.... you know what they say "There is a top to every pot." Now, when that top shows up it might be a little banged up, scorched, even a little warped. It might be a little shinier than you expected, it could be a little dull. could be thicker/thinner, made of steel or clay, It might even have a crooked knob, cracked top. But the one characteristic that trumps them all is that it fits. And when you come to the realization on just how hard it is to find a someone who just "fits" with you, all of those imperfections don't matter. The conditions become "un" & everything just feels PERFECT & to me, that is what loving someone really means. Its when you hold that person's hand & both walk through life's rough journey and look into each other's eyes and say "together with my IMPERFECTIONS (flaws & all) and your set of IMPERFECTIONS we can make it through"
LIKES
Good sale, good food, travellin, Geography and History, a great conversation, Eclectic taste in people. Being randomly approached, caramel apple martinis, 20cents wings, shopping, dancing, nice romantic dinner and of course a nice home cooked dinner, cuddles, cute cuddly babies, Patrick, hot summer nights, All-You-Can eat sushi, having a bottomless pit of a purse, conversations with no point or understandability, people that know what i'm going to say before i say it, when i have things to look forward to, really crazy dreams that i think are real, sleeping in, Mind expansion, taking photo's to capture the moment, being caught in the rain, dancing like no one is watching, staying up late just to talk...
DISLIKES
I don't like hairy people, I hate routine, I hate condescending people, Bad Breath
i miss...........
when boys meant "yuck"; when friends were new dreams were unshattered; worries few when recess was too short; life too long decisions came easily; without need to belong. when storks delivered babies; passions weren't so strong friendships were unbroken; right was right, wrong was wrong. when bad things didn't happen; when only skinned knees brought tears the night light in its socket; quieted all our fears. When farewell meant just for summer; real friends didn't part the fun went on forever; never left a broken heart